I'm Still In Love With My Ex Girlfriend - I Want Get Her Back

I'm Still In Love With My Ex Girlfriend - I Want Get Her Back!

Hey guys,

Many men tell me 'I'm still in love with my ex girlfriend.' They want to know if there's anything they can do to get her back. The very first question to ask men who think they want their ex back is to ask what they've already tried.

A man who is serious about getting his ex girlfriend back will usually say he's repeatedly tried to tell her how much he loves her and needs her. He's reassured her that he'll change and the relationship will be different if she gives him a second chance.  This kind of begging and pleading simply shows a woman that you're desperate and often drives them even further away.

Note: Showing her how desperate you are also give away what leftover power you still have!

Some men will try the opposite tactic to pleading and they'll turn to bribery. Buying her expensive gifts or taking her to fancy restaurants in an attempt to impress her won't work either. She may accept your tokens, but bribery isn't the way to win back love. Anyway, how long can you keep up the spending?

It will also take away the surprise elements when you do nice things for her too often. She'll kind of expect it from you ALL THE TIME!

The vast majority of women want to be in a relationship with a man who will listen to what she has to say. Even if she's just making small talk, it's important to her that she's heard. This doesn't mean you have to agree with everything she says. You just need to listen.

When asked if they're willing to listen to their ex girlfriends, men who are trying hard to get back their ex often say 'I've tried to listen, but she doesn't listen to a word I say.' Sometimes when men think they're listening, what they're really doing is hearing the problem and then immediately talking back to offer a solution to fix whatever problem his girlfriend is having. He believes because she doesn't hear a word he says that she's not listening.

However, only hearing the parts of the conversation you think you can help her with and then trying to make her listen to you first is not the same as YOU listening to your girlfriend's needs. Women appreciate men who listen to them. Unfortunately, men communicate in slightly different ways, which could probably have been a contributing factor to your break up in the first place.

If you're still thinking 'I'm still in love with my ex-girlfriend and want to get her back', then practice listening. Ask her a question and then listen to what she says intently. Make a comment about her response or ask another question relating to her response, but don't try to fix it or dismiss it as unimportant. Simply listen to her.

Women assume that a man who listens to her really cares. It tells you that you understand and that you're really interested. The next time you receive an opportunity to get together with your ex, take some time to establish eye contact and really listen intently to what she says.

At first, you might find your ex-girlfriend is a little confused or guarded about your sudden change, but when she realizes that you are interested in what she's saying she'll begin to relax and realize that you do care. She'll immediately begin wondering why her feelings for you went away and they should come rushing back when she understands that you really do still love your ex and really do want her back.

These are some of the things you should know when you want to get your ex girlfriend back. For more tips and strategies to get your ex back then recommend that you download and read through "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples get back together and improve on their relationships.

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To your relationship success.

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Why Should I Bother To Get Back At My Ex?

Why Should I Bother To Get Back At My Ex?

Hey guys,

A lot of people, women in particular it has to be said, appear to spend hours thinking of ways to answer the question of how to get back at your ex?  My view on this is why bother?  The only person you will end up hurting is yourself.  Anger and regret are negative emotions and do not have any long term value to add to your life. Some things are just not worth it!

Couples split up for all sorts of reasons but I firmly believe that it takes two to tango.  Yes, he may have had an affair or she may have a drink problem but at the end of the day it is usually too simple to lay the blame for the break up at one person's feet.

But when a relationship ends it should be final unless both of you decide that you wish to get back together.  Otherwise, move on. Don't waste your time or energy trying to think of ways to destroy his life or pick fights with her new man. You are better then that.

Every man or woman over the age of 21 has been dumped at some point in their lives.  If they say they haven’t, they are probably lying.  Breaking up can be extremely painful - you only have to see how many films and songs are written on the subject.  Even classic books involve painful relationships - have you read Jane Eyre lately?

Relationships of all types make the world go round and it would be a very boring place if we were happy all of the time.  Stories such as Cinderella and sleeping Beauty end when the couple kiss and we all believe they will live happily ever after.  Cinders and Beauty have found their Mr Right, but what they don't know is that his first name is always!

Life is too short to live it out with a grudge against someone else.  The only person that will suffer will be you and those that love you.  Your ex will be long gone - do you really think that they give you more than a fleeting thought.  They didn't care enough about you to stay together so why would they care now?

There are plenty of lovely people for you to date and perhaps fall in love with. But you will never find a fulfilling new relationship if your life is consumed by hatred for someone else.  Being on your own for the first time in a long time can be tough but it can also be liberating. Think positively - you now have the chance to do all the things you wanted to do but your partner wasn’t interested in.

Make a list of twenty things you have to be thankful for and read this every night before you fall asleep.  Add five things to your list every day and you will soon find yourself enjoying life so much that you won’t have time to worry about how to get back at your ex. It will be more like ex who?

That's also how you will be able to heal your broken heart. Is to move on, concentrate on doing your own things. If it meant for you to find a new better partner to be with then you'll be ready by then.

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I Need Some Tips On Making Up With My Boyfriend

I Need Some Tips On Making Up With My Boyfriend

Hello ladies,

Do you need some tips on making up with your boyfriend?

I hope these tips would help you to get your ex boyfriend back. Read on below..

1) Men don't like chit chat: Generally speaking men don’t like to talk in depth about their feelings and  forcing the issue will just cause them to clam up even more. So when you are trying to get back together, don’t force him to analyze what went wrong. If he behaved badly but is willing to apologize, accept it and move on.

2) Men can only concentrate on one thing at a time.  This is really true so don’t try and fight it. Very few  men can multitask and it is their genetics that are to blame so shouting at him is pointless.  The sooner  you accept that your man cannot listen to you while reading his newspaper or watching TV the better. Most of the time, he is not ignoring you on purpose. The more you try to understand that this is the way he is programmed the less arguments you will have.

3) Men like toys. The joke is that men never grow up and show it by still playing with toys.  Most men love to build things and start DIY jobs. Not all of them like to finish these jobs which can cause problems at home. Let your man indulge his hobbies, within reason. You can spend time with your girlfriends while he is fishing or building a boat. By compromising like this, he will probably be much more willing to spend time with you doing things together that you both enjoy.

4) Don’t assume that your man knows that you want to make up with him. Men in general tend to be a bit slow in picking up signals especially about relationships. For this reason, you sometimes need to be very direct  and tell them exactly how you feel. Men don't like games unless they understand the rules like in Golf or Chess. Us women change the rules on dating more often than men change their shirts so we need to give them a break if they get a little confused.

5) Have you heard the joke - "Why does it take loads of sperm to fertilize one egg?  Because they refuse to  stop for directions!"  Did you know men would prefer to get lost, than admit defeat and stop to ask for directions.  Generally men find it very hard to admit they are wrong. If you question what they say, they can believe you are implying they have done something wrong.  This can cause problems in modern relationships as women are so used to being the boss at work and giving others directions.

I am not suggesting that women have to become door mats or defer to their partners. But a little understanding of genetics goes a long way to help resolve the question of making up with your boyfriend.

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Need Advice On A Boyfriend Break Up? Here's some tips for you

Need Advice On A Boyfriend Break Up? Here's some tips for you..

Hello ladies,

Have you just broken up with a guy you're in love with?  Are you lost without him?  Do you wonder if you can get him back?  Here’s some advice about a boyfriend break up.

Is the Relationship Over?

First of all, decide whether the relationship is truly over.  Until you are able to say that he is part of your past and not your present and future, you will not be able to move on.

This is not to say that you have to put him in the past right away.  There are a number of steps you can take to get him back.  You can stay part of his life in a casual way hopping to become boyfriend and girlfriend again.

But, if you are ready to move on, there are a number of steps you can take to reach closure.  Closure is the process where you recognize that the relationship is over and you start to heal.

Communicate Your Hurt

Perhaps the first thing you should do is communicate your hurt. It's not always good to keep everything inside and to yourself. You need some form of outlet to release or ease the  pain. There are several ways you can do this:

· Talk to friends and family who are truly empathetic and can help you work through your feelings.  A true friend will do this, but many of your so called friends won’t be up to the challenge.
· Go into short term therapy so you can work through your feelings with a dispassionate third party
· Write down your feelings in a journal, in poetry, or in music.  This is an inexpensive way to express yourself and doesn’t require anyone else to participate.

Get Rid of His Old Stuff

Once you have come to some level of closure, get rid of anything you have of your ex’s.  These things will only remind you of him and the boyfriend break up.  Some things you’ll want to give back because they have value.  Other things you can just toss.  And, if he’s given you gifts that you want to keep, box them up and store them for the time being.

Enjoy The Freedom Of Being Single

Next, figure out how you are going to spend your time now that you are not part of a couple.  You may feel that time hangs heavy on your hands.  Or, you may find that you are liberated by not having to do everything your ex wanted you to do.

Get involved in things that make you happy.  Go to the gym so that you look and feel good.  Spend some time getting pampered at the spa.  Take a Spanish class at the community center.  Or, start to volunteer with the Big Sisters of America.

By doing things that please you, you will become a happier person.  You will find that you miss your ex a lot less.

One of the ways you will know that you are over your ex is that you will start to develop feelings for a new guy.  Maybe these will be reciprocated.  Eventually, you will find a new man and form a new relationship.  That will be when you know you have really moved on.  The boyfriend break up won’t be so serious any more.

I recommend that you download and read through "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples get through a broken relationship and even get back together. Read more on relationship in dating and marriage. Get your copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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