Want To Get Back With Ex Girlfriend - Real Easy - Not

Want To Get Back With Ex Girlfriend - Real Easy - Not

Hey guys,

I have got some advice for you if you are serious about learning what to do to get back with ex girlfriend. Interested? Read on..

The first thing you need to realize is that she no longer trusts what you say or do. She may still love you even though since she broke up with you she has been trying not to and she doesn't understand how she could still love you when you treated her so badly.

This could be to your advantage. So listen carefully..

Your first step should be figuring out the reason, or reasons, why you treated her so badly in the first place. Now, I'm no therapist but I do know that everything that happens, happens for some reason and everything has it's own special set of consequences. Good or bad. If you really want a second chance with the girl, you need to figure out why you act and say the things you do. From that point on you'll need to change your habits and that will take time and commitment.

It's usually a case of insecurity when people treat other people badly. No one wants to admit it if they're insecure, usually not even to themselves, but more often than not that is the reason. I've often said that money isn't the root of all evil, insecurity is. If you're over compensating because you feel inadequate and you think that by acting like a 'big man' and letting your girl know 'who is the boss' you're somehow more of a man, I've got news for you. This is one of the surest signs that you are actually not 'the big man' and that you are in fact a scared little boy who desperately wants the love of your woman but are too afraid to let her know that.

Guess what, she already does know that, on some level at least. Everyone can see when someone is trying to over compensate. It's very common, you see it all the time. Some guy will have a really loud motorcycle, or another guy will treat his girl like garbage, still another guy will try to prove he is a man by sleeping with  every woman he can find but none of that is the way to get back with ex girlfriend.

If you're really a man, you won't need to work so hard to try and prove it. Just by being a decent, caring, honest person people around you will respect you and trust you and if you really want to be the 'big man' that is a much more productive way to go about it than all the over compensating phoniness.

Even after you've faced up to your own b.s don't expect your girl to trust you. No matter how hard you may try to convince her that you've changed, actions speak louder than words and if you're really serious about getting her back you'll have to show her that you've changed. That will take time.  If you're not willing to invest the time necessary it's best that you just let her go to find a guy who is a man and can treat her the way she deserves to be treated and forget about trying to get back with ex girlfriend.

If you would like to read more on the subject of getting back with your ex girlfriend, then I recommend that you download and read through the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together and build a better relationship. Grab your copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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Hey I Miss My Ex Boyfriend - My 2 Choices To Make

Hey I Miss My Ex Boyfriend - My 2 Choices To Make

Hello ladies,

The break up happened six months ago and you are still saying, "I miss my ex". You are also wondering how this is even possible. He hurt you badly by having that affair and when you broke it off you thought you would be done with him forever.

You now have two choices. You can try to get him back or learn effective ways to get over him and get on with your life.

Listen. If you choose to try to get him back then you have to ask yourself two very important questions. If he comes back will he just hurt me again? And, is he worth taking back? The answer to these questions are, if he hurt you once he will probably do it again. Especially if he does not think he did anything wrong in the first place. So the answer to the second question is fairly obvious, no, he is not worth taking back.

You need to figure out why you are still saying, "I miss my ex". Is it because you still love him or do you miss the drama of the relationship? If you know deep in your heart that he was no good for you and you just miss the drama, my advice to you would be to get some counseling. Counseling is not a bad thing. Having been where you are I can tell you it was the best thing I have ever done in my life.

A good counselor can work with you to change the things in you that make you attract all the losers you have attracted your whole life. Maybe you do not think you are worthy enough to have someone decent in your life. A counselor can help you work through the things that have affected your self-esteem and help you see yourself in a different, more positive, light.

Once you start to feel more confident you will miss your ex less and less. You will start to realize that you are better off without him and that no one deserves to be hurt the way he hurt you. You can finally stop being a doormat and take charge of every aspect of your life, including your love life. Make an appointment at your salon and get a new hairstyle, go shopping with the girls and buy a new outfit or two. Start going to different clubs when you go out with the girls.

With all your new found confidence, you may just start to see that you attract a different type of man. There are men out there who like a confident woman, a woman who can seemingly do anything she puts her mind to. Just remember to not fall back into those same old tendencies of being a doormat when it comes to your relationship. Stay strong and confident and one day you will think back and wonder why the heck you hung on to that loser and almost embarrassed yourself by saying, "I miss my ex", for so long after your break up.

If you want to read more on relationships then I recommend that you download the book by T.W. Jackson, "Magic of Making Up".

His book have help many couples around the world get back together and also how to build a better relationship. Grab your copy today.

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To your relationship success.

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Relationship Break Up Way To Do It- 2 Schools Of Thought

Relationship Break Up Way To Do It - 2 Schools Of Thought

Hey guys,

Relationship, is hard work. But, sometime no matter what you do it doesn't seems to work out and you decide to breakup the relationship. The question is, what is the best way to do it?

Breaking up is hard enough to do as it is, no one wants to have to endure a big scene where there's a lot of crying and pleading. Yuck. To find the best way to go through a relationship break up and make it as easy as possible on both of you, here are a few tips.

More than likely by the time you're ready to end the relationship you've already had enough emotional scenes to last a lifetime and just can't face the idea of another one. That's the reason that some people take the (tacky) route of leaving a voice mail message or sending a text message to breakup. While it's understandable that you'd want to avoid another scene, it's a crappy way to end a relationship.

There is a middle ground, somewhere between a tacky text message and a full on emotional assault:

1. For one thing, make darn sure you really want to breakup. Now is not the time to be wishy washy. Give it some thought and don't do it on the spur of the moment or you may just end up regretting it and eating your words.  But, once you've made up your mind give yourself a day or so to get your head around it. When the times comes you have to be calm and firm and allowing yourself time to get used to the idea will help you accomplish that.

2. Now that you've decided that a breakup is the right thing to do and you've gotten used to the idea, don't drag it out forever. Decide on the best time and place, and make it soon, to have 'the talk' with your partner. When choosing the best time and place you should choose a time where you can take some time and explain things.  Don't tell your best friend or anyone else until you talk to your partner, you don't want someone to slip up and say something before you've had a chance to talk to your partner, the news has to come from you.

As to the location, there are two schools of thought on that. Some people recommend a restaurant or some place public to keep the scene to a minimum. While other people think that this type of conversation should be handled in private so that your soon - to- be-ex doesn't have the added humiliation of breaking down in public. Personally, unless I were afraid for my safety, I'd go for the private location. I just think that your partner deserves that much respect.

3. When the two of you meet, don't go for the big buildup. Just say what you want to say and get it out.  Make sure you explain why you've reached the decision you have (explain, don't justify. It's your decision to make you don't have to justify it).  Be compassionate but firm. Don't waver in the least. Let them talk if they want, but only for a short time. It won't do either of you any good to sit through a long, uncomfortable pleading session. If they have something to say, fine, let them have their say. But if it's just one long attempt to get you to change your mind you have to pull the plug.

4. After you've done the deed, leave. Don't call them and don't accept their calls if they call you. It may sound harsh but it's far worse for you to send mixed signals and talk to them if you really don't want them in your life. Best for both of you to just move on.

A relationship break up is never a fun thing to go through, but if you have to do it, do it as compassionately, and quickly as possible. It's best for both of you.

If you like to read up more on relationships, I recommend that you download the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world with their relationships and it's a good resource for you to read. Grab your copy today.

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To your relationship success.

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Healing In Affair Relationships - Can They Really Last

Healing In Affair Relationships - Can They Really Last

Hello guys,

Affair in marriages do happen. But what do you do if you're in this situation? Can there be healing from affair? Can a marriage survive an affair?

Affair relationships, can they really last? If your relationship has started off as an affair and the two of you are wondering if you should leave your spouses and try to make a go of your relationship, you have to carefully consider the consequences of such an action.

It's very tough to keep a relationship going if it has started off by both of you lying and cheating. For one thing you're both going to have a real problem trusting each other. I mean, you both know that you've both cheated, how can you ever really be sure that you won't each cheat on each other?  Even if the two of you can overcome that, there are still all the other issues to consider.

For one thing, are there kids involved?  This is by far the hardest situation to work through. No one wants to hurt their kids and it will be virtually impossible for the kids to ever feel warm fuzzies for the person who broke their other parent's heart (at least that's the way the kids will see it. More than likely they'll let their cheating parent largely off the hook and blame the other man/woman).

Even if there aren't kids involved, you have to remember that this relationship is just like any other: it starts off hot and passionate, but can you keep that alive? Your marriage probably started off that way too and look where that is.

One of the biggest reasons the two of you felt so free in the first place was because you didn't share any responsibilities.  The day to day grind is almost always what slowly works it's way between couples and causes the problems. You have to be realistic enough to recognize that the very same thing will happen between the two of you over time. Your brand new 'soulmate' may not seem so brand new in five or ten years... just like your spouse.

Of course, having considered all of these facts there still remains one question you have to ask yourself, do you still love your spouse? If you can honestly say that you just don't feel love for your spouse (and I'm not talking about the fireworks, tingling toes feeling that always fades and changes in any relationship) than despite the pain it will cause you might be doing them a favor in the long run by leaving.

If it comes to that, it's best for everyone involved if you don't let them know that the catalyst for the breakup is your affair. That is one secret you should keep to yourself. Just let your spouse know that the marriage is over and be as compassionate as possible.

Affair relationships almost never work, but if the two of you have decided that even though you met in the wrong way, you still have a deep love for each other and that your marriages have been over for a long time, you might as well give it a go.  Just keep the fact that you've been together while you were still married to other people, between the two of you. No need to cause unnecessary pain.

If you like to read more on affair in marriage or about relationships then I suggest you download the book Magic of Making Up by T.W. Jackson. Download and read through it.

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To your relationship success.

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Lady Gaga - Bad Romance

Lady Gaga - Bad Romance



Hey guys,

Ok. Some people like her and some don't. Everyone got their own opinions of her but still, you'll expect this from an entertainer. If you take too seriously of her then you're just wasting your time. Expect the unexpected from her. She's just doing her job.

In any case, this song is just about a bad romance that most of us would have been in before. It's normal. Relationships, come and go. If you think, it's best to move on then do it. If the both of you think want to give it another try then make sure you work the kinks out before you do. Have an open heart to heart talk, clear out all doubts and give it another chance. Learn from your past mistakes.

Just know, if it's not meant to be then so be it. It's not the end of the world and sure it hurts, but life goes on. If you want to read up more on relationships, I recommend you download the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson.

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Anyway, enjoy the video!

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How To Surviving Marriage Infidelity - Gut Check Time

How To Surviving Marriage Infidelity - Gut Check Time

Hello guys,

Are you asking yourself how to surviving marriage infidelity? Infidelity in a marriage can be tough. It's not easy to deal with. There are a lot of factors coming into dealing with infidelity in a marriage. One wrong step though, and it's all over.

Let's face facts, not all marriages should be saved.  Sometimes the two partner's just aren't compatible and just can't make things work. At other times there are real issues such as  marriage infidelity, which can be virtually impossible to move past.

If you or your spouse has been unfaithful but you both feel that there is still something in the relationship worth saving, it's time for a gut check. Don't think that the road to save your marriage will be smooth or short. You had better prepare for a rough ride, and it's going to have a much better chance of working if you enlist the help of a professional counselor to help clear the path, as much as possible.

Here's a few things to keep in mind:

1. If the person who committed the adultery is a serial cheater, why stay at all? Come on,who are you kidding? No matter how much you may love them, they are flawed. They aren't ever going to change they are just going to make your life miserable at best, and at worst they'll bring some nasty disease home and clear out your bank account. Leave.

If this was a one time lapse in judgment, and let's be honest, in the right circumstances any of us could have one, than you might have a chance but only if the offending party is truly sorry and will, or already has, stopped seeing the other person. If they won't commit 100% to making things work, it won't work. Again, it's best to leave.

2. As hard as it may be to face, it might help if the two of you could talk openly about what they found so irresistible in the other person. It's going to hurt, but the reality is that people don't cheat for sex, though that is part of it, they cheat because they get something from the other person that they don't get from their spouse (anymore).

Sometimes it can be something 'real' like feeling needed or loved. Other times it's not 'real' it's childish, like feeling like they are the only one that matters in the relationship. Finding out what the attraction was might help the two of you recapture something that has been lost in your relationship, something that you may not even have realized was gone.

3. It's very important to the long term health of your relationship that the person who was cheated on can find a way to not throw it up in their partner's face every time there is a fight. And that will be hard. But unless you can truly forgive and forget, it won't work out.

On the other side of the coin, the person who strayed must understand that it can take a lifetime for their partner to really ever trust them again. Sorry, that's just the way it is. Ask yourself this question, would you trust someone again if they breach your trust the first time?

Also, the person who strayed has to own it, period. Now is not the time to blame your spouse and use the classic line: "my wife/husband just doesn't understand me".  B.S. You are every bit as guilty, maybe more so, in the failing of your marriage as your spouse. Don't blame your weakness and the fact that you cheated on your partner. You did it, period. Own it and you'll be a better person for it.

 Marriage infidelity can be gotten past, but only if the two of you are willing to try, and try hard. Good luck.

These are some of the steps you and your partner can take on how to surviving marriage infidelity. I recommend that you download the book,"Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together and mend their broken relationship. Read through it before you do anything else that might jeopardize your chance of getting back together with your partner.

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