Learn Now - 3 Ways to Improve Communication In A Relationship

Learn Now - 3 Ways to Improve Communication In A Relationship

Hey guys,

Looking for tips on advice for relationship? Here's one:

Did you know that most couples nowadays, don't really communicate anymore. Even though, we have all the latest digital tools like smart phones or 'social' websites like Facebook and twitter. In fact, it could actually be more of a distraction then an advantage.

For example, just look around you everyday in your daily commute and you will see everyone looking down at their phones rather then walking and looking up where that someone might just be looking at you. Your partners craving for your attention while you were busy replying a 'whatsapp' message from your friend. This are simple things that destroy communication between your partner more then it adds to it.

Good communication is one of the cornerstones that make up a strong relationship. On the other hand poor communication can lead to a relationship breakdown as partners may find it difficult to ever trust each other.

Not everyone is good at communicating. If you happen to be one of these people, you may find it harder to start and maintain a stable relationship. Good communication skills can also help transform a shaky relationship into a functioning, healthy relationship.

Simple tips and basic communication skills can help you become a good communicator. The following are 3 ways to improve communication and maintain a good relationship.

#1 - Always express yourself freely

To have a good relationship, you must be free with your partner. Being free means you can share anything with him. You can share all the things that bother you, amaze you, please or surprise you. You'll find it's very difficult to maintain a strong relationship with someone you cannot talk to freely.

When you learn to express yourself freely, you will never feel the need to hide something from that person and your partner will also feel more free to share his problems with you.

When you are angry, you should definitely tell him what is making you angry and this will make your partner respect you and your opinion simply because you express yourself freely.

When expressing yourself, remember to say exactly what you mean and feel about something don’t beat around the bush. Be honest and go straight to the point.


#2 - Be a good listener

A good communicator is a good listener as well. Just like you want your partner to listen to your thoughts and feelings, be sure to give that person your full attention when the time comes for you to listen.

Men are considered poor listeners in most relationships but this does not mean that they don’t listen at all. To get someone to really listen to you, you may need to find the right time to start a conversation.

Don’t try to force your partner to listen to you when he's watching his favorite movie or something on ESPN, because he may end up paying more attention to the TV than to you.

By listening to your partner you are giving him a chance to open up and seek solace from you. The last thing you want to do to your partner is ignore him when he's trying to talk to you.

#3 - Build a strong foundation

Without a strong foundation, even the best communicators find it hard to build a close relationship. Strong foundations are based on a number of different things: the way you treat each other, the level of intimacy you share, how well you understand each other and how the two of you manage your relationship problems.

For you to have a strong relationship you must know what makes your partner angry and what makes him happy and how to avoid deliberately aggravating him.

Remember no relationship is complete without intimacy, so it's important that you always create some time for intimacy. Try to strike a balance that takes into account both of your schedules.

Remember that intimacy doesn't always mean sex. Sometimes, it's just as important to spend time snuggling together while watching a movie.

Lastly, don't forget non-verbal communication can be just as important and impacting as the spoken word. You can often communicate just as effectively with a stroke of his face with your hand or a strong, warm embrace.

There you go. 3 ways to improve communication in a relationship. You can use the 3 tips straight away to improve your broken relationship or to build on what you already have. For more practical tips on relationships, I suggest you download and read through the book by T.W. Jackson, "Magic of Making Up".

His book have help many couples with their relationships around the world and it's a good handy guide to have in your arsenal to build a better relationship. Get your copy today by clicking the link below.

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To your relationship success.

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He Doesn't Want You Back - How to Move Forward

He Doesn't Want You Back - How to Move Forward

Hello ladies,

So, he doesn't want you back? It's time to move forward. There's always someone better out there. Most girls, would complain there aren't (at first). Then someone prove them wrong. A beautiful true story? You betcha!

You went through the heartache of being broken up with and then went out of your way to show him that you are the only one for him but he still does not want you back.

Easing the pain of a breakup though isn't easy. This can be hard to deal with but the best thing you can do for your own well being is to move forward. It may prove to be a long and tough road but by doing a few simple things, the whole journey can be much smoother and you will be back on top of your game in no time!

Delete, Delete, Delete:

It's time to get over a heartbreak. The first thing you should do is remove your ex from your life... completely. To delete him from your life you need to delete him from your phone and social networking sites.

Having his number in your phone is just going to serve as a temptation to text him and having him as a friend on a social networking site isn't going to help the moving process - it's just going to be a reminder of what you can't have. The last thing you need to see is the picture he posts showing him out having a good time with his friends...or with another woman!

You also need to get rid of every dirty piece of clothing, toiletry and any other belongings he may have left at your place. Don't even think about sobbing to love songs in one of his old t-shirts, that is not a recommended way to move on.

You may want to consider just throwing them out instead of returning them. If you do decide to return them, consider having a friend deliver them, or leave them somewhere he can pick them up without you having to be around.

Whatever you do, do not call him:

Taking the time to call him or even send him a text is not going to accomplish anything; it's just going to make you feel worse about the situation. You need to keep in mind, he dumped you, and as harsh as it may sound, wants nothing more to do with you. Calling him just makes you look desperate so just don't do it!

Have Fun:

Take on the help of your girlfriends and go out and have fun! Indulging in a little bit of excitement with those people who truly love you is a great way to take your mind off the situation and help speed up the process of moving on. Dance your heart out, laugh till you cry and treat yourself to a mini-makeover! After all, the sweetest revenge is showing him that you are perfectly happy without him in your life.


Don't accept his apologies:

As time goes on and you start to finally feel better about the situation, chances are he is going to offer to be friends or apologize over what happened - this is when you tell him to talk to the hand!

Being friends is not going to work out and he does not deserve to be forgiven. Don't let his glistening eyes lure you back into his whirlpool of trouble because remember, you are moving forward not back.

When someone breaks up with you, believe it or not, it is not the end of the world. Look at it as getting some much needed "you-time" and before you know it you will be feeling better than ever!

These are some practical tips you can use to heal from breakup, move forward and to re-build a new relationship, a new life. If you would like to read more on relationships, I suggest you download and read through the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many people around the world create a better relationships and it's a good handy guide to have. Grab a copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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How To Get Your Boyfriend Back - The Right Way - Perfect Reconciliation

How To Get Your Boyfriend Back - The Right Way - Perfect Reconciliation

Hey ladies,

Are you asking yourself, "How to get your boyfriend back, the right way?" Because, let's be honest here. If you don't know what you're doing and you do it wrong, the chances are, your boyfriend will most probably, think you're crazy, desperate etc.

When you've been dumped out of the blue by the guy you know is Mr. Right, the one thing you want more than anything else in the world is to get your boyfriend back.

Unfortunately, the logistics of exactly how to do that are a little harder to lock down than you expect. But, there is a bit of a silver lining to consider.

In most situations, you still have a little bit of time on your hands to work on winning him back. That's right. All is not lost -- at least not yet.

You still have a chance to get your boyfriend back. Here's what you need to do.

# 1 - Hold Your Head Up High

Most women in your situation lock themselves up for days or weeks on end. They cut themselves off from the world and hide.

Don't let this happen to you. You broke up. It wasn't your choice. You weren't the bad guy (well, GIRL). You have NOTHING to be ashamed of.

If you lock yourself away you're letting him think you're crying your heart out over him. Even if you are doing more than your fair share of crying, you don't want HIM to know.

Going out and rejoining the world with your head high gives him pause. It makes him wonder why you aren't crying in corner.

It forces HIM to turn his thoughts to YOU! This is a very good thing as far as getting him back goes.

# 2 - Invest in Yourself

Now is a great time to invest in YOU! A breakup is a big change in your life. While it may not be the type of change you were hoping for or one you can get excited about, change is not, at its core a bad thing.

What kind of changes should you make? You want to focus on changes that are improvements -- changes that make you FEEL better. Empowering changes. Confidence-boosting changes.

1) Makeover
2) Wardrobe update
3) New hairstyle
4) Education
5) Employment
6) Career/Personal coaching
7) Self-help books and recordings
8) Dietary and nutrition changes
9) Fitness and health changes

While it may seem that these changes are all about him, they're really all about you. If you want to get HIM back, you must approach the process from a position of power.

You can't return to him on your knees begging for a second chance. If you still want to get your boyfriend back after you've done these things then you walk in the door, with your head held high, and fully understanding that you are worth a second chance.

Once you fully understand your contribution to the relationship and the value you add to his life, he'll have no choice but to recognize it too. If he doesn't, then he never really deserved you in the first place.

Want to read up on more practical tips you can use to get your boyfriend back in your arms? I suggest you download the popular book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world in 75+ countries saved their broken relationships!

You can get your copy today from the link below:

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To your relationship success.

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