Learn The Reason Why Men Leave Pregnant Women

Learn The Reason Why Men Leave Pregnant Women

Hello ladies,

If you have wondered, hopefully not from personal experience, why men leave pregnant women there are many reasons. If the woman is his wife than it will probably be completely unexpected; after all he is committed to the marriage why bail now?

Other than the unexpectedness of a married man leaving his pregnant wife, it's usually pretty easy to spot the type of 'man' who would leave his pregnant girlfriend.  I think all women need to use common sense before they get intimately involved with any man.

Get To Know Him

First of all if you are entering into an intimate relationship with a man before you have really gotten to know him you have to be aware that there are many  potential dangers besides unexpected pregnancy.  If you've been in the relationship for at least a little time there have probably been many signs that this guy is a loser.

Personal Counseling

Women are too quick to 'forgive' bad behavior in the men they date.  They will say things like "he's got a good heart', "that's just the way he was raised", "it's a guy thing", etc. to justify the selfish and inconsiderate things their boyfriends do. If you're this type of woman you really should get counseling so you can understand why you would settle for this type of relationship.

Stay Away From Abusive Men

The reality is that some men just don't like women and they get off on treating them badly.  For some guys it can be a real ego boost to treat his girlfriend like trash and have her keep coming back for more.  If you're in a relationship with that type of guy it's not too much of a stretch to think he might leave you if you got pregnant.

Any man who is verbally, emotionally, and especially physically abusive will more than likely leave you whenever the relationship isn't convenient for him.  If your man exhibits any of these traits you should make darn sure that you don't accidentally get pregnant.  Even if he doesn't leave, he is already abusive and once you are 'tied down' with a child that abuse is almost guaranteed to increase.

Find A Real Man

So if you are with a man who doesn't treat you with love, affection, and respect, you shouldn't be surprised to find yourself all on your own if you become pregnant.  I'm not sure why men leave pregnant women expect that the term 'man' is probably not a very accurate description of these types of guys.

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Howto: Getting An Ex Back Who Has A Boyfriend

Howto: Getting An Ex Back Who Has A Boyfriend

Hey guys,

Getting an ex back who has a boyfriend is going to be a challenge. New relationships can be very attractive particularly to those that have had their heart broken. A new man is likely to flatter and compliment their woman as well as spoiling her. They have yet to get used to having her around or take her for granted (sound familiar?).

So what tricks can you use to get your ex lover back even if she appears to have moved on. Well, you two have history which has yet to happen with her new beau. History means that you will have shared some fantastic times that only you two know about. So why not start reminding her of that?

Your other advantage is you know this woman. You know how she thinks, what she likes and doesn't like. If she preferred you to dress a certain way, then make sure that is how you are attired every time she sees you. Act happy even if your heart is in pieces. Nobody likes desperation, especially in a man, and begging her to come back to you; as your "life is not worth living without her" only works in bad movies.

Instead be happy and confident and make out your life is wonderful. She is more likely to remember the fun times you both had and may even start to miss them. Let her know that you would love to give your relationship another go but that you understand she has moved on. She will be left confused and wonder if perhaps now you might move on too. Women like to be wanted so the fact you are pretending to accept her new relationship will probably confuse her. She might also be a tad jealous.

You could try dating other women. There is nothing like jealousy to inspire a woman into taking action. We all want what we cannot have and if you make yourself too available, she is less likely to be interested.

Find reasons to accidently cross her path so that you can remind her what she is missing out on. But don't go stalking her as that is just going to get you into trouble with her perhaps her new man and in the worst case senairo, possibley with the law.

Your ex will listen to her family and friends, so remember to include these people in your wooing process. Remind them why they like you and would prefer her to be with you rather than her new man. If you were with your ex for a long time, you should have good relationships with her friends.

Now is the time to capitalise on those contacts. If you treated your ex badly then make sure her friends and family know you genuinely regret it and have apologised for your actions. You do not want all her family telling her to stay away from you, as that will make it even harder to get her back.

Getting an ex back who has a boyfriend may be more difficult but nothing is impossible; if you want it badly enough!

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How Do I Get My Ex Back - Get Your Answer To The Question

How Do I Get My Ex Back - Get Your Answer To The Question

Hey guys,

Have you found yourself suddenly single? Been searching for the answer on how to get your ex back? You might have asked yourself the question “how do I get my ex back?” recently.

If you’ve asked yourself that question, the good news is that you are not alone.  All over the world there are people suffering from the same condition that you are.  They have been dumped by someone they love and for that reason are finding it hard to let go of that person.  You might not think that you are hung up on the person, but you owe it to your own mental well being in order to make sure.  There is a thin line between seeking a healthy renewal of a relationship with an ex and obsession.  The moment you cross that line, you’ve taken the road to making your life miserable.

There are actually many ways for you to tell whether you are taking the road to ruin or whether you genuinely do feel that resuming things with the ex would be a healthy way to go forward.  If you feel the uncontrollable urge to push the issue every time you think about it, chances are pretty good that you are taking the road to ruin.  If you feel like you can bide your time and develop a friendship with your former lover before taking things back to the next level, you are in healthy mentality area.  Generally speaking, your mindset and the first strategies that come to your mind will give you away.

This fits in nicely with the strategies that don’t work and the ones that do.  The strategies that you’d think of when you were obsessing would mostly be strategies that had no chance of working.  The strategies that you’d come up with (like going through friendship) when thinking about building healthy relationships are the ones that really have the chance of working. You'll be in the position of power and control of the situation.

Whatever you do, you do not want to rush things with your ex.  If they broke up with you, they are going to need to get over the breakup before they can be coaxed back into a relationship.  This is true even if you broke up with them since it is hurt rather than distaste that they need to get over.  The truth of the matter is that you need to give them (and yourself) a lot of time and space at first, gradually closing both the time and the space as you begin to get your foot back in the door with them.  It may not be pretty, but it is definitely going to be the best chance that you have.

At the start of this article, you asked a question.  You asked “how do I get my ex back?”  The answer is now available to you in the whole truth and nothing but the truth.  If you take these methods here and apply them to your own life, you will have a better chance at getting your ex back than you would have from any other strategy you could employ.  That is a fact.  It is the truth without any sugar-coating.

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Getting My Ex Back - How To Win Your Ex Back The Right Way

Getting My Ex Back - How To Win Your Ex Back The Right Way

Hey guys,

Truth is there are many ways that you can learn how to win your ex back.  Some of them will be ways that have no chance of working.  Being overly pushy about it is one way that some people will advocate, but that way is one that is doomed to failure in the overwhelming majority of cases.

There are also some ways that will have some chance of working, but will restart the relationship in a mode that is far too unhealthy for it to actually be able to last.  For example, some people have been known to cave in to pressure and verbal abuse on a level far exceeding the pushiness mentioned above.  In a very small minority of people, this type of strategy can work in reigniting a relationship.  However, those relationships are often abusive in one direction or another.  That is not what you want for the person that you want to be the love of your life. Everybody, want to be in a happy relationship that last right?

That leaves the ways that have the best chance of working.  In reality, these ways are obvious once you remove the natural instincts that most people have when it comes to this particular topic.  Things like honesty, genuine affection for your ex and the ability to leave them alone when they really need space from you are things that are obvious once you drop the ego, pride and stubbornness in order to realize the truth of what is going on here.

The truth of what is going on is this.  Your ex dumped you.  That means that they voluntarily chose to end their association with you.  What you are trying to do is get them to not only voluntarily reverse that decision, but also voluntarily take it all the way back into the relationship they had beforehand.  For more people, that takes a huge shift in their thinking.  This is why pushiness is not going to work.  Slowly turning their opinion by changing the things about yourself that made them break up with you in the first place will work, but you have to do it right. But, you have to make sure that your principle are not too compromised though.

If you want to know how to win your ex back the right way, this is it.  There are two people that you need to look at:

1. The first is the person that you were when your ex fell in love with you.

2. The second is the person that you were when your ex dumped you.  If you can figure out what changed between these two people, you will have a recipe for reversal that can get you to look attractive once again to your ex-lover.

Your goal here is to make them look at you with interest once more.  Unless they look at you with interest, you are not going to be able to get them to come back to you.  They need to be interested and attracted to you again, just like they were the first time they fell in love with you.

This strategy has the best chance of making you look like those things to your former partner once again.

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I Miss My Ex Girlfriend - Help Me!

I Miss My Ex Girlfriend - Help Me!

When you find yourself saying “I miss my ex girlfriend,” you need to find ways to move forward with your life.  No matter how bad the break up was, there is life after your ex.  Finding your way through the depression that follows the end of the relationship can be hard.  That’s why you need to take concrete actions to move forward.

Closure

First of all, you need to work on bringing closure to the relationship.  Closure is the process by which you move on from a situation.  While you may find specific situations in which you say, “I miss my ex girlfriend,” you will not be in this state all of the time.

Begin by definitively saying that the relationship is over.  As long as you think there is a chance that you can get your ex back, you will not be able to move on.  Healing begins with putting an end to the relationship.

Physical Closure

Next, you need to physically close the relationship.  You do that by exchanging all of the possessions in the other’s care.  Give her back the toothbrush and curling iron she kept at your house and ask her for the sweat shirt that she had borrowed for the long term.  If you owed each other money, settle up.

Space

Once you have your possessions back, give yourself some physical space.  While you may want to remain friends with your ex in the long run, staying away in the short term will facilitate healing.  Don’t call, text, or email each other.  If she tries to contact you, screen her out.

And, don’t show up at places she is likely to be.  You don’t want to give her any opening to get under your skin.  Seeing her with another guy so soon will just prompt feelings of “I miss my ex girlfriend” all over again.

You may even need to change some of your social habits.  If you go to a small church, you might want to consider changing places of worship at least in the short term.  You may have to pick a new favorite bar or hang out as well.

Active

When you start going new places, you will inevitably meet new people.  Some of these people will be female.  These new women are good prospects for dates.

While it may seem right now that you’ll never want to date another woman, the truth is that the sooner you get back on the dating scene, the sooner you will begin to heal.

It may not be enough to just be available though.  Consider actively seeking out women.  Take a class at the local university’s extension program.  Join a co-ed softball team.  Take up a new hobby.  All of these strategies will allow you to start meeting new women.

If a woman intrigues you, ask her out even if you can’t picture yourself in a long term relationship with her.  A date is just a fun social experience, not a commitment.

Pretty soon, you won’t be saying “I miss my ex girlfriend” nearly as frequently.  You will have moved on with your life.

These are some of the things you can do to keep yourself from thinking about your ex girlfriend. Get yourself  busy and do something positive. Enjoy your new found freedom and take some time to take stock of your current situation on the best way to move forward. It's not the end of the world.

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Troubled Relationships - Break Up To Make Up

Troubled Relationships - Break Up To Make Up

This is your guide: Troubled Relationships – Break Up to Make Up.  The break up may be just the first stage in getting back together with an ex.

If you had been dating for any length of time, you and your ex had a lot invested in the relationship.  You obviously loved and cared for each other.  But something went wrong and one of you decided to call it quits.  How you handle the relationship break up may have a lot to do with whether you can ever make up.

If you are the one initiating the break up, try to do it with love and compassion.  Whether you are truly calling it quits or just wanting a time out, remember that this is a person who has been important to you and you have a responsibility to take his or her feelings into account.

It’s generally best to tell the person that you want to break up in a public place.  That’s because people are less likely to embarrass themselves if others are around.  Also, don’t draw the break up out.  Just say your piece and leave.

Once you have broken up, leave the channels of communication open.  Be there for your ex when he or she needs you.

Don’t play games with your ex.  Some people suggest dating their best friend or flaunting a new date on your ex, but consider that if you ever make up, these things are going to haunt your new relationship.

If you have found that you want to get back together with your ex, consider the following:

· Tell them that you are interested
· Be interesting yourself – take up new activities and make new friends
· Try a new look – whether it is a new hair style or simply updating your grooming, your ex will notice.

Suggest that you meet your ex for lunch or some other non-romantic activity.  During this time, you can bring up the positive memories you shared.  You can also emphasize any changes you have made in your life.

If your ex gives you any indication that he or she is willing to give it a second try, don’t assume that you can start right back where you left off.  Woo your boyfriend or girlfriend.  Go out on romantic dates.  Start by holding hands, not jumping into the sack.

Also, give your relationship time to heal from the break up.  Don’t assume that your ex’s feelings weren’t hurt by the cooling off period.

Continue improving yourself.  Don’t fall into bad habits just because you’ve got your ex back.  Constantly strive to be the best boyfriend or girlfriend you can be.

That’s your quick guide to Troubled Relationships – Break up to Make up.

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How Do I Ex Girlfriend Wanting To Get Back - How Do I Do It

How Do I Ex Girlfriend Wanting To Get Back - How Do I Do It

Hey guys,

It's a classic and tragic story.  Boy meets girl, boy loses girl, boy just wants girl back.  It's so common that you could place an ad in the local paper: "ex girlfriend wanting to get back, please help."

Even though it happens everyday that doesn't make it any easier when it's you that's going through it. It is still painful and it still sucks.

You don't need to give up though.  There are a few things you can do that will make things easier, make you a better man and maybe help you get your ex girlfriend back too.

1) Give her space. The first thing you want to do is cease and desist all calls, texts, emails, etc.  It will be one of the hardest things you've ever done but you have to stop chasing her.  Think about it for a minute.  When someone is chased what do they do?  That's right, they run.  You don't want to push her further away from you.  Back off and give her some space. The both of you need some time alone definitely to think things through.

Remember, no one likes a weak, whiny, insecure person.  That's just not a turn on. Your ex is no different.  Don't cling or you will only push her further away. In fact, she'll begin to wonder and keep thinking of what you're up to during the separation.

2) Have fun.  I know that this sounds like ridiculous advice, but it's important.  It kind of relates to step 1.  Go out with friends and try to live everyday to the fullest.  If you can do this you will benefit in a couple of ways.

For one thing she will hear about all the fun you're having and she will start to miss the fun the two of you used to have.  She will also remember why she fell in love with you in the first place.

It will also help you to keep your mind off of your ex for a little while.  That is a good way to keep from going crazy during this difficult time.

A word of caution though: don't use this step as a pathetic and childish attempt to make her jealous.  That is very immature and doesn't work.  Be genuine. If  you really care about your ex and you want her back you should avoid stupid, destructive and childish games.  No good relationship can ever be built on those traits.

3) Communication. Try to communicate with her.  Don't argue, or badger.  Just talk...and listen.  This isn't about being right, it's about trying to truly understand where the other person is coming from.  This is a time to put your ego on hold. Listen more and talk less.

If you feel like you should place an ad in your local paper that says: "ex girlfriend wanting to get back" than you are pretty serious about getting  your ex back.  Follow the simple tips I've listed here and you have a much better shot at making that happen.  And you can save the money on the ad!

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Relationship Self Help Book Can Save Your Relationship

Relationship Self Help Book Can Save Your Relationship

Hey guys,

There are plenty of relationship self help techniques you can use to bring the intimacy back into your relationship. Many people begin to feel that the intimacy levels in their relationships begin to fade over time. They mistakenly believe this means the love is gone, but the truth is that all relationships develop into a pattern of habits and rituals that can often make people feel more like roommates than lovers.

Is your relationship falling into that category? Then it's time to do something about it.

Instead of giving up on your relationship, you might want to try using some relationship self help techniques to bring the intimacy levels back to where they were when you first met.

1. Small Talk

Research has shown that couples who engage in regular small talk will experience less arguments and fights throughout their relationship. Connective small talk doesn't mean bombarding your partner with an hour-long diatribe about every single thing you did during the day.

Small talk is simply sharing opinions or observations from things you did through your day. It also means learning to avoid mono-syllable responses and actually showing a bit of interest in what each other is saying. Ask questions and respond to your partner with positivity.

2. Eye Contact

How many times do you really look your partner in the eye when you talk together? As relationships progress, many people tend to look in the direction of their partner's eyes, but they don't make eye contact.

When you first met, eye contact would have been high. Humans react to eye contact as being a positive way to build intimacy. As you become more familiar with each other, this decreases over time, which also leads people to believe the intimacy is dying.

3. Non-sexual Physical Contact

Learning to touch your partner and encouraging them to touch you too in non-sexual ways can help to increase intimacy. Give your partner a hug without expecting it to lead to anything further. Offer your partner a back massage or a foot rub and don't have an ulterior motive. Hold hands when you're out together. These simple forms of physical contact re-establish a level of intimacy and trust in each other that can be very effective relationship self help techniques.

4. Appreciation

Instead of focusing on the things that annoy you about your partner, try focusing on the things you appreciate about them instead.  Most probably we're all always under-appreciated by others. There must be things about your partner that attracted you to them originally, so spend some time each day focusing on the positive things and don't waste time concentrating on the annoying traits that everyone has anyway.

5. Time Out

Far too many couples fall into a pattern of trying to spend all of their time with their partner.  They begin to feel as though their partner is somehow deserting them if they want to spend a little time doing something without their significant other. While it's normal to enjoy each other's company, it's also important to remember that everyone needs a little time out occasionally.

This could be something as simple as going out for a meal or a movie with friends or a coffee with the girls. Research shows that many couples improve their relationships when they display trust and encourage each other to spend a little time doing things they enjoy.

These are some of the tips on relationship self help that could save your relationship. If you would like to do more in-depth reading on the subject then I encourage you to download and read through "Magic of Making Up" authored by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world improve their relationship by using the tips provided inside the book. So grab your copy today!

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Help Me How To Get Back With Ex

Help Me How To Get Back With Ex

Hey guys,

Are you thinking about ways how to get back with ex? Almost every adult on the planet has gone through a relationship break up at some point in their lives (yes, that includes me). Most of the time people simply move through the hurt and try to move on.

What these people don't realize is that around 90% of all relationship break ups could have been stopped and if they've already happened, then they can be reversed.

The first step in learning how to get back with your ex is to look objectively at why the break up happened. You won't be able to change the reasons why you broke up, but you should be objective enough to realize that it takes two. This means accepting responsibility for your part in the relationship, understanding what mistakes you might have made and learning from them.

Try to think about what specific attributes attracted your ex to you when you first met. This doesn't necessarily mean your looks. It means ask yourself what did you do back then that made him so happy to spend plenty of time in your company?

Compare this to the time you spent together just before the break up. Was he becoming distant, which made you want to hang onto him even tighter? Was he pulling away, which made you try hard to let him know how much you loved him? Perhaps you spent plenty of time analyzing the relationship in an effort to fix it before the break up happened.

Each of these things spells 'needy' to a male, yet the biggest thing that attracts most men to their partners is a happy, confident girl that makes them feel good to be around. Neediness can often push a man away from even the best relationship.

Work hard on regaining your confidence and your happiness. Remember, these are the things your ex fell in love with in the first place, and they're the same things that can make your ex fall in love with you all over again.

Men and women communicate very differently to each other. When a woman is trying to find out how to get back with her ex, she will attempt to get her ex to talk about what went wrong. She wants to analyze and fix whatever was broken in the relationship.

Men won't view this as a sign that it should be fixed or that you should get back together. They simply view it as being too needy and they will begin wondering how to find someone who makes their time spent together happy and fun again.

The next big positive step you can take to get back with your ex is to arrange to meet for a chat about the possibility of remaining in touch with each other. Don't be surprised if he's initially a little hesitant. After all, he'll be remembering only the reasons you broke up.

He'll need some gentle reminding about all the reasons he fell in love with you in order to make him realize you were one of the best things that had happened to him. Your gentle reminders should be to show him that you're happy and confident again, just like you were when he fell in love with you the first time.

You shouldn't be yelling at him or blaming or accusing and you shouldn't be telling him all the good things you did. These things don't work. Simply allow him to see the happy, confident, independent person that swept him off his feet and his feelings will begin to re-emerge all on their own. Then you'll have a strong foundation for how to get back with your ex.

These are some of the tips and strategies you can use on how to get back with ex. For more in-depth read, I   suggest you download and read through "Magic of Making Up", by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together again and it could help you too.

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I'm Still In Love With My Ex Girlfriend - I Want Get Her Back

I'm Still In Love With My Ex Girlfriend - I Want Get Her Back!

Hey guys,

Many men tell me 'I'm still in love with my ex girlfriend.' They want to know if there's anything they can do to get her back. The very first question to ask men who think they want their ex back is to ask what they've already tried.

A man who is serious about getting his ex girlfriend back will usually say he's repeatedly tried to tell her how much he loves her and needs her. He's reassured her that he'll change and the relationship will be different if she gives him a second chance.  This kind of begging and pleading simply shows a woman that you're desperate and often drives them even further away.

Note: Showing her how desperate you are also give away what leftover power you still have!

Some men will try the opposite tactic to pleading and they'll turn to bribery. Buying her expensive gifts or taking her to fancy restaurants in an attempt to impress her won't work either. She may accept your tokens, but bribery isn't the way to win back love. Anyway, how long can you keep up the spending?

It will also take away the surprise elements when you do nice things for her too often. She'll kind of expect it from you ALL THE TIME!

The vast majority of women want to be in a relationship with a man who will listen to what she has to say. Even if she's just making small talk, it's important to her that she's heard. This doesn't mean you have to agree with everything she says. You just need to listen.

When asked if they're willing to listen to their ex girlfriends, men who are trying hard to get back their ex often say 'I've tried to listen, but she doesn't listen to a word I say.' Sometimes when men think they're listening, what they're really doing is hearing the problem and then immediately talking back to offer a solution to fix whatever problem his girlfriend is having. He believes because she doesn't hear a word he says that she's not listening.

However, only hearing the parts of the conversation you think you can help her with and then trying to make her listen to you first is not the same as YOU listening to your girlfriend's needs. Women appreciate men who listen to them. Unfortunately, men communicate in slightly different ways, which could probably have been a contributing factor to your break up in the first place.

If you're still thinking 'I'm still in love with my ex-girlfriend and want to get her back', then practice listening. Ask her a question and then listen to what she says intently. Make a comment about her response or ask another question relating to her response, but don't try to fix it or dismiss it as unimportant. Simply listen to her.

Women assume that a man who listens to her really cares. It tells you that you understand and that you're really interested. The next time you receive an opportunity to get together with your ex, take some time to establish eye contact and really listen intently to what she says.

At first, you might find your ex-girlfriend is a little confused or guarded about your sudden change, but when she realizes that you are interested in what she's saying she'll begin to relax and realize that you do care. She'll immediately begin wondering why her feelings for you went away and they should come rushing back when she understands that you really do still love your ex and really do want her back.

These are some of the things you should know when you want to get your ex girlfriend back. For more tips and strategies to get your ex back then recommend that you download and read through "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples get back together and improve on their relationships.

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Why Should I Bother To Get Back At My Ex?

Why Should I Bother To Get Back At My Ex?

Hey guys,

A lot of people, women in particular it has to be said, appear to spend hours thinking of ways to answer the question of how to get back at your ex?  My view on this is why bother?  The only person you will end up hurting is yourself.  Anger and regret are negative emotions and do not have any long term value to add to your life. Some things are just not worth it!

Couples split up for all sorts of reasons but I firmly believe that it takes two to tango.  Yes, he may have had an affair or she may have a drink problem but at the end of the day it is usually too simple to lay the blame for the break up at one person's feet.

But when a relationship ends it should be final unless both of you decide that you wish to get back together.  Otherwise, move on. Don't waste your time or energy trying to think of ways to destroy his life or pick fights with her new man. You are better then that.

Every man or woman over the age of 21 has been dumped at some point in their lives.  If they say they haven’t, they are probably lying.  Breaking up can be extremely painful - you only have to see how many films and songs are written on the subject.  Even classic books involve painful relationships - have you read Jane Eyre lately?

Relationships of all types make the world go round and it would be a very boring place if we were happy all of the time.  Stories such as Cinderella and sleeping Beauty end when the couple kiss and we all believe they will live happily ever after.  Cinders and Beauty have found their Mr Right, but what they don't know is that his first name is always!

Life is too short to live it out with a grudge against someone else.  The only person that will suffer will be you and those that love you.  Your ex will be long gone - do you really think that they give you more than a fleeting thought.  They didn't care enough about you to stay together so why would they care now?

There are plenty of lovely people for you to date and perhaps fall in love with. But you will never find a fulfilling new relationship if your life is consumed by hatred for someone else.  Being on your own for the first time in a long time can be tough but it can also be liberating. Think positively - you now have the chance to do all the things you wanted to do but your partner wasn’t interested in.

Make a list of twenty things you have to be thankful for and read this every night before you fall asleep.  Add five things to your list every day and you will soon find yourself enjoying life so much that you won’t have time to worry about how to get back at your ex. It will be more like ex who?

That's also how you will be able to heal your broken heart. Is to move on, concentrate on doing your own things. If it meant for you to find a new better partner to be with then you'll be ready by then.

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I Need Some Tips On Making Up With My Boyfriend

I Need Some Tips On Making Up With My Boyfriend

Hello ladies,

Do you need some tips on making up with your boyfriend?

I hope these tips would help you to get your ex boyfriend back. Read on below..

1) Men don't like chit chat: Generally speaking men don’t like to talk in depth about their feelings and  forcing the issue will just cause them to clam up even more. So when you are trying to get back together, don’t force him to analyze what went wrong. If he behaved badly but is willing to apologize, accept it and move on.

2) Men can only concentrate on one thing at a time.  This is really true so don’t try and fight it. Very few  men can multitask and it is their genetics that are to blame so shouting at him is pointless.  The sooner  you accept that your man cannot listen to you while reading his newspaper or watching TV the better. Most of the time, he is not ignoring you on purpose. The more you try to understand that this is the way he is programmed the less arguments you will have.

3) Men like toys. The joke is that men never grow up and show it by still playing with toys.  Most men love to build things and start DIY jobs. Not all of them like to finish these jobs which can cause problems at home. Let your man indulge his hobbies, within reason. You can spend time with your girlfriends while he is fishing or building a boat. By compromising like this, he will probably be much more willing to spend time with you doing things together that you both enjoy.

4) Don’t assume that your man knows that you want to make up with him. Men in general tend to be a bit slow in picking up signals especially about relationships. For this reason, you sometimes need to be very direct  and tell them exactly how you feel. Men don't like games unless they understand the rules like in Golf or Chess. Us women change the rules on dating more often than men change their shirts so we need to give them a break if they get a little confused.

5) Have you heard the joke - "Why does it take loads of sperm to fertilize one egg?  Because they refuse to  stop for directions!"  Did you know men would prefer to get lost, than admit defeat and stop to ask for directions.  Generally men find it very hard to admit they are wrong. If you question what they say, they can believe you are implying they have done something wrong.  This can cause problems in modern relationships as women are so used to being the boss at work and giving others directions.

I am not suggesting that women have to become door mats or defer to their partners. But a little understanding of genetics goes a long way to help resolve the question of making up with your boyfriend.

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Need Advice On A Boyfriend Break Up? Here's some tips for you

Need Advice On A Boyfriend Break Up? Here's some tips for you..

Hello ladies,

Have you just broken up with a guy you're in love with?  Are you lost without him?  Do you wonder if you can get him back?  Here’s some advice about a boyfriend break up.

Is the Relationship Over?

First of all, decide whether the relationship is truly over.  Until you are able to say that he is part of your past and not your present and future, you will not be able to move on.

This is not to say that you have to put him in the past right away.  There are a number of steps you can take to get him back.  You can stay part of his life in a casual way hopping to become boyfriend and girlfriend again.

But, if you are ready to move on, there are a number of steps you can take to reach closure.  Closure is the process where you recognize that the relationship is over and you start to heal.

Communicate Your Hurt

Perhaps the first thing you should do is communicate your hurt. It's not always good to keep everything inside and to yourself. You need some form of outlet to release or ease the  pain. There are several ways you can do this:

· Talk to friends and family who are truly empathetic and can help you work through your feelings.  A true friend will do this, but many of your so called friends won’t be up to the challenge.
· Go into short term therapy so you can work through your feelings with a dispassionate third party
· Write down your feelings in a journal, in poetry, or in music.  This is an inexpensive way to express yourself and doesn’t require anyone else to participate.

Get Rid of His Old Stuff

Once you have come to some level of closure, get rid of anything you have of your ex’s.  These things will only remind you of him and the boyfriend break up.  Some things you’ll want to give back because they have value.  Other things you can just toss.  And, if he’s given you gifts that you want to keep, box them up and store them for the time being.

Enjoy The Freedom Of Being Single

Next, figure out how you are going to spend your time now that you are not part of a couple.  You may feel that time hangs heavy on your hands.  Or, you may find that you are liberated by not having to do everything your ex wanted you to do.

Get involved in things that make you happy.  Go to the gym so that you look and feel good.  Spend some time getting pampered at the spa.  Take a Spanish class at the community center.  Or, start to volunteer with the Big Sisters of America.

By doing things that please you, you will become a happier person.  You will find that you miss your ex a lot less.

One of the ways you will know that you are over your ex is that you will start to develop feelings for a new guy.  Maybe these will be reciprocated.  Eventually, you will find a new man and form a new relationship.  That will be when you know you have really moved on.  The boyfriend break up won’t be so serious any more.

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Tips to Getting Over Breakup When Your Heart is Broken

Tips to Getting Over Break Up When Your Heart Is Broken

Hey guys,

Few things are more painful than having your heart broken.

Both men and women experience the pain of breaking up.  Sometimes you are the one who called it off and other times your ex did, but in either case, there is pain on both sides.  And, sometimes the break up happened for good reasons while other times it seemed to go up in a puff of smoke for no reason at all.  These can be the most painful of all.

If you don’t go about getting over the break up though, there can be some serious consequences.  Don’t fall into the trap of lingering over a lost love.  The worst trap of all is to start to write a “victim story” that makes you the protagonist in a tale of love gone bad.

First of all, you should realize that if you don’t get over your ex, it will be toxic to any future relationship you might have.

Second, realize that you can’t run away from it, medicate it, or suppress it.  You have to face the pain head on and deal with it. Life isn't a walk in the park anyway. Face the fact and move on. That's all you can do right now.

There’s no way out of a broken heart.  There’s only a way through.  Accept that there is going to be pain.  Use the time during this period to understand the hurt.  Some ways to do this are to write in a journal, get counseling, or pour your heart out in song.  Realize there are no quick solutions to getting over break up.

Next, you need to examine whether there is anything in your past that would have lead to this break up.  For instance, did the abuse in your childhood cause you to be an abuser in this relationship?  Take note of those things because they will help you foster healthier relationships in the future.

Don’t paint yourself as the victim of the relationship either.  Take responsibility for your actions.  While your ex may have been the one whose “fault” was the immediate cause of the break up, the truth is that the underlying circumstances were caused by both of you.

By getting rid of your “victim story” you become a healthier, more attractive partner for a future boyfriend or girlfriend.  You’ll begin to see that your “victim story” was composed of beliefs, attitudes and thoughts that color your perceptions about everything.  It becomes a self fulfilling prophesy.

When you handle your broken heart badly, you perpetuate your pain.  You’ll never go about getting over break up.

But, when you can handle your emotions with the ultimate goal of letting them go, you enable healing.

Getting over a broken heart takes work.  It also takes time.  Don’t underestimate the factors which go into curing your heartbreak.

You’ve just lost a person who was extremely important to your life.  But, use this time for growth and you will become a stronger person and have better relationships in the future.  That is how you really go about getting over break up.

There's only so much you can do and take in life. Get through the phase quickly and move on. Forward is the only way best for you and your future new partner. It's not always cloudy and rainy. The sun will rise and shine and a new day dawn!

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Thinking Of Divorce? You Can Save Marriage With A Marriage Counselor

Thinking Of Divorce? You Can Save Marriage With A Marriage Counselor

Hello guys,

Are you thinking of divorce?  Save marriage by seeing a marriage counselor.  There are many therapists who say they do marriage counseling, but how do you know which ones are really good?  This article will give you a checklist of things to look for in a family therapist.

First of all, you want to see what their credentials are.  There are three basic classes of counselors.

1 - The first is the Ph.D. or Psy.D. level counselor.  These people went to graduate school for a minimum of five years and wrote a dissertation.  In addition, they performed a minimum of 3000 hours of therapy under the supervision of an experienced psychologist.  In order to legally call yourself a “clinical psychologist” the person must have a doctoral level degree.  Ph.D.’s are often more academic in nature and tend to do scholarly and forensic work along with therapy.

2 - Then there is the M.S.W.  This means Master of Social Work.  Social Workers are trained to apply social theory to specific situations.  They can work in institutions or with individuals.

3 - Finally, there is the M.S. or M.A. in Counseling.  Often called a “Marriage and Family Therapist,” these people can only work with individuals or small groups in counseling situations.  They tend to have 2 year degrees and may not have written a thesis.  They have 1500 hours of therapy under supervision.

If you are using your insurance to cover your marriage counseling, your insurance company will probably direct you to an MSW or a Marriage and Family Therapist because they are less expensive.

You, yourself have to determine what the price will be.  Clinical psychologists tend to be the most expensive while Marriage and Family Therapists are the least expensive.  Remember you are trying to stop divorce.  Save your marriage by finding the best fit not the most (or least) expensive professional.

Look at the per session cost as well as the overall cost for the expected length of treatment.

Often, therapists working in groups or non profit institutions will have a sliding scale fee based on a couple’s income.  If you qualify, this might make counseling affordable when it otherwise might not be.

Third, you need to look at the policies the therapist has.  Some of these policies include:

· What happens if you miss or cancel a session?
· Can you take a pre-planned vacation without having to pay for the session?
· Will the therapist accept calls outside of the normal session?  Do they accept calls at home or just at the office?
· Is there an alternative person you can call in an emergency?

A family counselor should help you put your family back together so that you don’t have split up.  Saving your marriage should be their ultimate goal.  If you don’t feel that you are in synch with your counselor, move on and find someone who can keep you from divorce and save marriage.

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Do You Still Love To Get Your Ex Wife Back

Do You Still Love To Get Your Ex Wife Back

If your goal is to get your ex wife back then you have to admit something that you may not want to. You may have to admit you’re weak. Will you have to admit it to her? That depends on how she views you at the moment, how you have come across in the past and how she will view you in the future. The trick to get your ex wife back is to let her know that you have changed and that you are, can be, and will be the one that she wants. You must believe it yourself before trying to make her believe you.

Wanting to get your ex wife back is admitting that you are weak. You are admitting that you need her and are incomplete without her. You are admitting that you have to have her in order for life to make sense and/or work. Once you make the effort, she is going to be figuring that out on her own. Just making the effort to get your ex wife back is proof of that. How did she view you prior to the break up? Did you divorce because you were seen as being weak? Hopefully that is not the case. If so, coming back and trying to reconcile after the divorce or break up may be seen as groveling back and may not be something that she wants to see from her man.

If, though, you were seen as being particularly hard headed and self-absorbed then you are essentially saying that you were wrong. This is not a bad thing. When you show that you can admit that you were wrong shows that you are willing to admit that you are human. Being wrong is weak but admitting it and trying to correct it takes immense strength. Letting down your guard and telling the her that you were wrong shows that you are serious about wanting to get your ex wife back. Even though it’s admitting that you are weak, it is showing that you are strong enough to deal with it.

When you are trying to win your ex wife back, you have to know that you are putting your future in someone else’s hands. The results are far from certain. The truth is the damage may already be done and it has reached the point of no return. Does this mean that you shouldn’t try? No. It does mean that everything that you do has to be above and beyond any reasonable doubt that she might have. This will mean being honest in not just admitting how wrong you may have been but honest in really trying to change. Trying would also make your mind at ease even if it didn't work out.

If you go back to your ex wife and try to convince her that you have changed and that you are worth the risk, you have to be honest. If you aren’t and you aren’t willing to follow through on your commitment to be better, things will only fall apart again. If you are going to go through with the effort to get your ex wife back, make sure that the change in you is real.

These are some of the things you should think about in trying to get your ex wife back. Yes, you can get back with your wife again but only if you're willing to do the hard work and by following the plan and strategy to win her back.. for good. I suggest you download and read through "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson if you really want to get  your ex wife back.

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2 Get Your Ex Back - How To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back

2 Get Your Ex Back - How To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back

Hello ladies,

How to get an ex boyfriend back is a tough thing to do especially if he doesn’t want to come back (I'll prefer to quickly get over it and move on - there's always someone better out there). His not wanting to take you back may be a short-term situation or it might be a long term one. Largely it depends on the situation. You can’t force him to change his mind but you can do some things that might help influence him. Part of it comes in knowing what went wrong and why. The rest comes in finding what can be done differently and then convincing him that it can be. How to get an ex boyfriend back may be a tough road to travel and the destination may be unknown but it could result in a lifetime of rewards.

What happened to get you to this point where you need to know how to get an ex boyfriend back in the first place? You need to take an honest look at what happened in the relationship. Was it something that you did or something that he did? If it was something that he did, you may want to rethink the whole thing because you need to be absolutely sure that he isn’t going to do it again. If it was something that you did then what was it that brought you to the point that a split would happen? What and where did things go wrong? Most importantly, what is going to keep it from happening again? You have to have an answer for this.

To solve a problem, you need to find out what's wrong and fix it. You'll need to nip it at the bud.

What is going to be done differently if you are successful in finding out how to get an ex boyfriend back? Why should he believe that things are changed or will be different? Are you changing some things? Is he? This will take more than just words and a desire to be better: it will need action. It will take effort on both your part and his. In this you must be willing to lead by example and you may have to prove that you are trustworthy in this before he will give you another chance.

Proving to him that you are able to have a better relationship may be the most difficult part of it. If there are mistakes that have been made in the past that kept recurring, how can you prove that it won’t happen again? Only one way it can happen and that is to be incredibly diligent in your efforts to not let that happen again. If someone wants you to stop smoking and it is important to not let them down then how are you going to show that you can stop? Easy answer, you don’t do it anymore. You avoid situations where you are likely to crave it or where you might be tempted to do it. You also seek help. That is what it is going to take with learning how to get an ex boyfriend back.

You won’t be able to do it on your own. Restoring a broken relationship will take more than your efforts and desires. It will take both of you. You need an ally to help you get things back together. Once you have gotten your ex boyfriend convinced that it is worth working on then you will have your ally and will have found out how to get an ex boyfriend back. Just make sure he's worth it.

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Do YOU Really Want To Get Back Together With Ex? Then Listen To Him

Do YOU Really Want To Get Back Together With Ex? Then Listen To Him

Hello ladies,

Kristi was devastated.  She wanted to get back together with ex boyfriend Chad.  Chad had told her that he needed some “space.”  Chad said that he still cared for her but didn’t want to date exclusively any more.

What should Kristi do to get back together with ex Chad?  Should she call him and text him?  Should she show up and flirt with his friends?  Should she ignore him completely?

Actually, she should do none of these.  Instead, she should listen to him.

He says that he loves her but that he needs space.  While this may seem like a cliché, the truth is that many times when people use this line they mean what they say.

Sometimes a relationship just gets ahead of a person.  They may not be ready for the responsibilities a relationship carries.  But that doesn’t mean that they don’t love their ex.  In fact, they may love him or her too much and want to take a step back.

Given that this is the case, let’s take a look at what disasterous things can happen if you handle the situation badly.

For instance, if Kristi were to endlessly pursue Chad with calls, emails and texts, she wouldn’t be giving him the space he needed to get his head on straight.  Letters, gifts, and singing songs under his window late at night would have the same effect.

One of Kristi’s friends suggested that she start flirting with all of Chad’s friends to make him jealous in an attempt to get back together with ex.  This is a common recommendation because it is assumed that men will want what other men have.  The problem is that by playing games now, Kristi would be jeopardizing her relationship in the future.  And, there is a strong likelihood that Chad would just be angry at Kristi and push her even further away.

Another option Kristi considered was just ignoring him altogether.  In some ways, because she was so hurt by Chad’s rejection, she wanted to punish him in turn.

But, if she is open and receptive but not pushy when they meet each other in social situations that are not contrived, she shows him what a wonderful woman and wonderful human being she is.  She becomes someone that he wants to spend time with.  She has allowed him to see her at her best.

Kristi has a number of options if she wants to get back together with ex.  But, her best option is simply to listen to Chad.  He’s said he needs space.  So, she should give it to him.  She should let him have the opportunity to decide whether to get back together.

My guess is that Chad will come back to Kristi and he’ll be ready to take the relationship to the next level.  If Kristi plays her cards right, she will have a stronger relationship overall.

That’s how to get ex back in a healthy way.

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10 Steps To Getting Your Ex Get Back Together

10 Steps To Getting Your Ex Get Back Together

Hey guys,

Do you miss your ex?  Get back together is possible.  You just have to know how to do it.

Every girl wants a guy who can understand and connect with her.  There are rules for pursuing a girl after a break up.  I’ll try to explain them in this article about how to deal with your ex.  Get back together with her using these 10 techniques.

1.) Don’t be afraid to call her.  While calling ten times a day says you’re desperate, phoning once or twice a week keeps you on her radar.

2.) Similarly, send her an email from time to time.  Just saying “what’s up?” gives her the opportunity to reconnect.

3.) Don’t date other girls.  As long as you’re pining for her, be true to her.  If you do occasionally see another girl, don’t sleep with her if you ever want to get back together with your ex.  Get back together without creating a new “history” with other women.

4.) Don’t forget her birthday.  A birthday is a great “excuse” to get back in touch.  Everyone likes to be remembered, celebrated, and even gifted on their birthday.  So, treat her like a princess on this day.

5.) Analyze her.  Figure out what she needs in a man.  Be aware of what she says and does when she talks.  You need to understand your ex now more than ever before.  Knowing your enemy is half the battle won (not that she's your enemy).

6.) Don’t be jealous.  After you’ve broken up, you don’t have any claim on her.  So, don’t exhibit jealousy if she goes out with another guy.  Remember she is your ex.  Get back together means that you have to understand this basic principle.

7.) Be on the lookout as to how she acts with other guys.  If she stands up for you when other guys put you down, it’s a good sign she’s still interested in you.  But, if she takes out the butcher knife and stabs you in the back, then there’s not much hope of getting back into a healthy, happy relationship.

8.) Don’t play games.  When you’re broken up with someone you love, it’s easy to start the “mind games.”  But, you can damage her for life with this kind of behavior.  You don’t want to hurt her if you want to get back together.  So, just don’t play mind games.

9.) Power is important.  Hold your cards close to your chest.  Relationships are difficult.  When you are together, you can communicate, but apart, you need to keep your feelings close to your vest.  When you say “I love you” to a girl you’ve broken up with, you’ve given away all of your power and she has you in a precarious position.

10.) Be desirable.  During the break up, stay in shape or get back into shape.  Expand your interests.  In short, be the boyfriend she wants.  You already have a history.  If you are even more alluring this time around, she’s sure to want you back.

It is possible to reconcile with your ex.  Get back together using the advice in this article. For more tips on how to get back your ex and also improve your relationship further with her then I suggest you download and read through "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson.

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Howto: Win Love Back Allow Your Ex Time Space

Howto: Win Love Back  Allow Your Ex Time  Space

Hey guys,

Do you want to win love back?  The key is allowing your ex to have a little bit of time to figure out what they want from the relationship.  Tim and Rhonda learned this from Tim’s friend Joe.

Rhonda stormed out of Tim’s apartment one day saying she never wanted to see him again.  Tim was stunned.  All he could think about was how to win love back.

He called his buddy Joe and asked whether he should send flowers or candy.

“Neither,” Joe said.  “And don’t call, email, or text her either.”

Tim was stunned by this advice.  He wanted to win love back right away before Rhonda had a chance to “look around” and find someone better.

But Joe told Tim that giving Rhonda the space to “look around” was just what she needed.  There was a small chance that she would go forever, but the probability was that she would settle down and come back to him.  She must come to the conclusion that their relationship was special on her own terms.

Further, Joe advised, it would be bad if Tim looked too desperate.  This gave Rhonda the upper hand in many ways.  It would lead to further grand gestures in the future.  If he wanted to get the relationship back on track, Tim needed to give Rhonda space.

Tim and Rhonda both had a lot invested in the relationship.  They had been together 18 months and had even talked about marriage.  This was why it was such a blow to Tim when Rhonda walked out.

But Tim took Joe’s advice, as painful as it was, and waited for Rhonda to call.  It took her four days, but she finally contacted him.

The first thing she wanted to know was “why didn’t you call me?”  He told her “I was waiting for you to call.  I knew you needed space.”

He was right, and she knew it.  She actually appreciated the fact that he hadn’t called.  She knew that he had found a way to win love back.

As they talked about where their relationship had been and how to get it back on track, they discovered that one of the problems was that they had been crowding one another.  The thought of getting married had been suffocating.

So, they decided to back off.  They would still see each other exclusively, but they would make more time for friends and solo activities.  They wouldn’t talk about marriage again for six months.

Tim restrained himself from pursuing Rhonda when she needed space.  This allowed her to reevaluate her relationship with him on her own terms.

She initially thought that he would call her all the time.  She was actually surprised that he didn’t.  But, because he refrained from contacting her, she was able to see what her life was like without him in it.  And, it wasn’t as pleasant as she had imagined it would be.

So, if you’re determined to win love back, keep in mind that sometime what is needed is a little space. And, if you want more tips on how to improve your relationship further then I suggest you download and read through "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. The method he teach in the book is a little unconventional but what's important is it works. Just look at some of the testimonials on his site written by those who tried it.

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Save A Marriage Advice - Do I Want My Husband Back

Save A Marriage Advice - Do I Want My Husband Back

Hello guys,

If you ask yourself, “Do I want my husband back?” and the answer is yes, then you’re one of millions of women who have been through a break up and decided that they didn’t want to go through with it after all. Maybe you didn’t want it from the start, or maybe you did and now you’ve changed your mind. “Do I want my husband back?” is one of those questions that make you consider a great many things.

A lot of it has to do with isolation and loneliness. That’s not to say that you only think about taking your husband back because you’re lonely. Not true. But the loneliness that often comes after a breakup or a divorce can be quite a shot for anyone. “Do I want my husband back?” often arises out of the uncomfortable shock of finally being alone. You'll have to start adjusting to that feeling as quickly as possible.

You should never take your husband back because of fear or boredom. A common fear is the fear of being alone and having face life’s difficulties alone. But the fear of being alone isn’t a good enough reason to decide you want to get back together with your husband. You have to be absolutely sure you'll want to get back together with your husband or risk facing the same problem that causes the breakup in the first place.

If you stay together out of fear, the relationship can’t possibly grow naturally. Doesn’t he deserve to be with someone who genuinely wants to be with him? Not someone who stays because she believes there is no choice and they have to stay together.

You both deserve a better and more fulfilling relationship that one of obligation like that. Two people should be together because they want to be together, not for any other reasons.

So if you ask, ‘Do I want my husband back?” and the answer is yes, you really do, not just because you feel it’s expected that you be married, then you should try to get him. There are a few different ways you can head for this goal.

Be The Woman You Were


Be the woman you were when you got married. Of course, it’s impossible to go back in time completely. But all you have to do is essentially be the same person in some of your more pleasant actions. Be the woman that your husband had fallen in love with once before.

When you first got together there was something about you that attracted him. Whether it was that you were sweet, thoughtful or attentive depends on the person’s perception.

Maybe over the last several years of the marriage, you haven’t been nearly as attentive as you could be. You should at least be happy that he would never have noticed the drop in affection, if you hadn’t been so good at lavishing it on him in the first place. But once he’s had that great attention, it becomes obvious when it’s gone.

And it’s easy for it to disappear after a while. We have a terrible tendency to take the people we love for granted all the time.  Often that’s one of the factors leading up to a break up or divorce. If you ask yourself, “Do I want my husband back?” and you do, make an effort to not take him for granted anymore.

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Marriage Advice - Can I Stop My Divorce

Marriage Advice - Can I Stop My Divorce

Hello guys,

Can I stop my divorce? Have you been asking yourself that question lately? It’s a hard question to answer because every situation is so different. In many cases, “Can I stop my divorce?” can be answered, “Yes, for at least a while.”

Divorce lawyers do a booming business. Over half of marriages end in divorce. Have you ever wondered why that number is so high?  Is it because too many couples get married too quickly before they really know what they’re getting into? Are they asking, “Can I stop my divorce?” practically before the last piece of wedding cake is wrapped?

Are people marrying too young? These things might seem like pat answers, but when you consider that many couples who have been married for 20, 30 and 40 years are getting divorced too, that seems to eliminate the more frivolous marriages and divorces like those we see among starlets and stars.

No, usually when you wonder, “Can I stop my divorce?” it’s not because you married too young or because you’re in a marriage that was doomed from the start. It’s just that you’ve grown apart from your spouse. It happens in marriages.

On one hand that’s good. It means you’ve grown, and generally a married person needs to be in a caring, nurturing marriage to grow. On the other hand it’s all too easy to grow in such a way that we feel a bit isolated from our spouse, as if they don’t know a certain part of us that we might like to keep private.

When one spouse grows and takes on new interests, it can cause that disconnect between the spouses. Sometimes there’s jealousy and envy that a spouse is succeeding while the other feels inadequate or cheated in some way. Marriage counseling is the recommended treatment for such feelings.

Until or instead of counseling, though, you can try to take an interest in something that your spouse does apart from you. You’ll quickly discover if the gap between your activities is the problem. If your spouse isn’t thrilled about your interest, then let it go. He or she considers that particularly activity to be 'me' time for them.

On the other hand, if your spouse seems very enthusiastic about you getting involved, maybe that was part of the problem all along. He or she wanted to include you but didn’t know how to go about it, or didn’t think you would be interested.

Show genuine interest and ask questions without overdoing it unless you are genuinely excited by the topic. Engage your spouse in conversation about the interest. Be affectionate as you’re talking by putting a hand on his/her arm or shoulder.

Since you’re wondering, “Can I stop my divorce?” you’re going to want to do everything you can get to things on your side. You’re in rescue mode, so no matter how disinterested you might be in your spouse’s hobby, don’t let it show.

And while you’re wondering, “Can I stop my divorce?” don’t forget that your spouse might turn around and ask you about your hobby, too. It's all part of being in a relationship. It needs some give and take in both parties.

If you want to learn more on how to improve your relationship in dating and marriage then I highly recommend that you read through "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples improved their relationship and it's a good resource for you.

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Help I Want My Husband Back - Marriage Advice

Help I Want My Husband Back - Marriage Advice

Hello ladies,

Do you tell people, “I want my husband back?” It’s not uncommon to want your husband back after you split up, no matter how bad things were when you were together. So before you absolutely decide that yes, “I want my husband back,” you should think long and hard about the way things were before you split up.

Think about why you split up in the first place. Was it your fault, his, or both your faults? Sometimes it’s hard to tell whose fault it was because so many little things seemed to contribute to the break up.

If there’s no obvious reason like one of you had an affair or somehow betrayed the other, then there’ s a better chance that your mantra of, “I want my husband back” will work out!

If there was an affair or a really big and hurtful problem like that, getting back together will be more of a challenge. But you can still do it, if you both want it and you both work hard at it. If you both don’t want it, it’s pretty unlikely that it will happen.

Have you asked your husband if he’s interested in getting back together? Do you even know his feelings about it? You might be surprised to find that while you’re saying, “I want my husband back!” he’s not that desperate to get back into the relationship.

That doesn’t mean that he doesn’t care about you, by the way. Just that something in the relationship wasn’t right for him and he’s no longer afraid to admit that. As bad as that sounds, it doesn’t mean that the relationship can’t be fixed.

If you can get him onboard and willing to try some of these techniques, try reading a book about marriage problems out loud to each other over breakfast or in the evening before bed. If you’re reading it at the same time, then it’s easier for you to discuss what you’ve just read while it’s all fresh on your mind.

Don’t be upset or alarmed if he doesn’t have any interest in going to counseling. While this does make it harder to get your man back, it can still be done. You can go to the counseling on your own and learn the techniques you need to communicate with him properly.

You can teach him these techniques, either overtly (here, let me show you) or covertly, by simply using them every time you interact. Even if he has no interest in learning anything you learned in class, the very act of doing the exercises yourself can give you a sense of power you didn’t have before.

Going to the counseling can make you feel like you have some power in the relationship, and can influence it either for the better or the worse. And since you’re alone with the counselor you can talk about some private issues that bother you, as well. Soon, “I want my husband back” could turn into, “I got my husband back.”

It's really your choice. Before you do anything else, I recommend that you read through "Magic of Magic Up" authored by T.W. Jackson. His book have helped many couples all around the world get through their broken relationship and getting back together. Get yours today and start reading.

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Help Get My Ex Back - Im Still In Love With My Ex

Help Get My Ex Back - Im Still In Love With My Ex

Hello guys,

Do you say, “I’m still in love with my ex!” and wonder how you’re going to get through the hours, let alone the next days? It’s common to feel completely overwhelmed after a breakup, especially if you’re not the one who wanted to end it. And if you sit around thinking, “I’m still in love with my ex,” you’re only making it harder on yourself.

Of course, if you’re really in love with your ex you could make an effort to get back together. There’s no guarantee that anything you do will get you back together, but you could still try. Often, being genuine and just making it really clear that you don’t want to lose your ex will be enough to move them to give it another chance.

If cheating was involved in some capacity, then their wanting to come back is less likely, but it’s still possible. If you cheated, you might think it’s going to be harder to get them back.

But if they cheated and that relationship has ended, it’s still harder to get them back once they’ve been with someone else. And it’s going to take a long time for you to start trusting each other again.

It’s important for you to decide that if your ex gives in and comes back, how will you keep from falling into the same patterns the next time around? You can say, “I’m still in love with my ex!” until you’re blue in the face, and that won’t chance whether or not you have problems in the future.

It’s really easy to be in love with someone. But making a relationship work is tough and time consuming. And you have the added difficulty of overcoming a break up. You can try to convince your ex that if you get back together you’ll change your ways, and maybe they’ll believe you.

But the best thing you can do is simply show that you’ve changed your ways, without saying much about it. Actions really do almost always speak much louder than words, so the things you do are going to be noticed more by your ex than the things you say.

It’s important to say the right things, too. But it’s more important to do the right things. If you’re really still in love with them then you should want to change your actions dramatically, at least right now. When you think your actions might make a difference it’s easy to feel like you can change many things about yourself.

What you have to determine is whether or not you can really follow through with it. There’s no point in making promises to your ex that you’re not going to be able to keep.

If you have any doubt that you’ll want to make the changes that you or your ex feel are necessary, then you shouldn’t promise that you’ll make them. Though you say, “I’m still in love with my ex, “ you have to remember than only lasting changes will matter, not just a fast change to win them back.

You'll have to be honest with yourself and your ex, are you willing to make the changes and sacrifices needed to heal back the wounds of the breakup?

Plan well and get to it!

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Get Ex Back - Can You And Your Boyfriend Get Back Together

Get Ex Back - Can You And Your Boyfriend Get Back Together

Hello ladies,

If you’ve broken up, you probably wonder can you and your boyfriend get back together? Sadly, there’s no one right answer to that question. It depends a lot on you and your boyfriend, and the dynamic of your relationship. If you wonder can you and your boyfriend get back together, you may want to speak to a counselor and let them evaluate your situation.

Marriage and couple counselors have heard all sorts of problems and sorts of reasons from both the husbands and wives. They’re experienced in dealing with these sorts of conflicts and may be able to help you. If you ask them, should me and my boyfriend get back together? you might be surprised at their answer.

The goal of marriage and couple counselors is to save relationships. Unfortunately, many of these programs aren’t that good at really diagnosing the problem. If either half of the couple lies, it makes it even more difficult for them to treat you.

But once they get to the bottom of things, you might be surprised how accurate they are. And since their goal is to help you handle your relationship, the word divorce isn’t thrown around. If you go to counseling talking about divorce it might come up. Or if they really feel that you’re in a dangerous or destructive relationship.

But for the most part, their aim is to keep you together or get you back together in a way that you can both be happy. The hardest part of you and your boyfriend get back together will probably be getting him to go to the counseling in the first place.

The good news is that he doesn’t actually have to go. You can decide to go to couple counseling on your own. It might not be as effective, but it does a couple of very good things for you when you’re trying to get back together.

First, it shows him that you’re serious. If he won’t go and you opt to without him, then it seems to him that you’re really trying hard to change something about your relationship. Why else would you go alone to a session meant for two people?

Second, you can learn some important tips and techniques in counseling that you can start putting to use right away. Just because he’s not going to counseling that doesn’t mean that you can’t improve the relationship by leaps and bounds.

You’ll learn communication skills and persuasion skills that can make a real difference in how the two of you relate to each other. And if he sees you going to counseling and better able to handle yourself in general without getting angry with him, that could actually prompt him to decide to go, too.

You have to set the example and hope he follows if you’re the only one that will voluntarily go. Whether you and your boyfriend get back together or not, you will have benefited personally from the skills you learned in counseling so it’s definitely worth going.

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Help Me Get Back Together With Ex - How To Rekindle The Relationship

Help Me Get Back Together With Ex - How To Rekindle The Relationship

Hello guys,

Are you looking for help to get back together with ex? Do not write the relationship off completely simply because he or she dumped you. If you really want to get back together with ex, you can get the results you seek with some hard work and understanding.

In relationships, people can be truly fickle. For example, in 75 percent of all relationships, the woman calls the relationship. More often than not however, they are also open to re-establishing things.

Breaking up may not have been a decision that was thought out well, meaning that your significant other may be willing to rekindle things if you give it enough time.

If you really want to get back together with ex, you need to prevent yourself from giving up, writing things off or responding badly to the situation at hand. Bad things happen, but there are resolutions and not every break up means the permanent end to the relationship.

Here's some quick tips you can use to get your ex back.

What It Is That Went Wrong

Part of the process of learning how to get back together with ex is to figure out what it is that went wrong so that you can change those things and move on. If you do not fix these things, then the relationship is never going to be capable of being rekindled, or else the same bad things will happen again.

Was she bored in the relationship? Was he looking for more space? Find out what the problem was and find a way to change things. If you really want to get back together with ex, you need to show your ex that you are the person that he or she really wants in life.

Be In Demand

One of the ways that you can figure out how to get back together with ex is to show your ex that you are in demand, that you are moving on and that you are satisfied with life rather than dwelling on the past. This will show your ex that you can be mature and happy, and it may just remind them how much they need and want you.

Go out and have some fun with your friends and show your ex that you can live without him or her, and you may just help them remember how much they want to be with you, which is a great way to learn how to get back together with ex.

When you are serious about wanting to get back together with ex, you need to realize that making things work is about doing the right things and rekindling the right feelings and emotions. There is a power shift that needs to occur, and you need to restore the balance in order to make things comfortable enough again that you can get back together with ex.

You can learn how to get back together with ex, you simply have to be patient and willing to listen to the right advice in order to make it happen.

These are some quick tips you can use to try rekindle your broken relationship. For more in-depth read on rekindling that lost love then I suggest you download your copy of "Magic of Making Up" written by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together and re-ignite the passion in their relationship.

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