Great Expectations Doesn't Work - Are They Ruining Your Romance?

Great Expectations Doesn't Work - Are They Ruining Your Romance?

Hey guys,

Save your relationship. Great expectations doesn't work and it might ruin your romance!?

Every once in awhile, we need to fine tune our relationships. Maintenance, need to be done to keep the relationship running smoothly and to avoid hiccups along the way or worst turning it into un-repairable damage. One of the problem you might want to address before your relationship get worse is high expectations.

It's great to have high expectations of what life is going to be like when you're sharing it with the person who is the love of your life. Unfortunately, many people have dreams and expectations that are simply unobtainable. Whether it comes from reading romance novels where the hero also realizes the error of his ways and gives in to the heroine's every whim, or, on the other side of the coin, from watching rap videos where women are throwing themselves at the feet of men ready to cater to their every whim.

As a society, we're giving mixed messages between fantasy and reality and it's ruining more than its fair share of romances. If your relationship is becoming a bitter disappointment because it isn't meeting up to your expectations here are a few things it might help you to remember. Although, I might add, disappointment builds character.

Stop Comparing Your Relationship to Others

Whether you're comparing your relationship to real relationships other people have (what you see of those relationships anyway) or something in novels or on television screens, you're doing your relationship a huge disservice. Reality can never live up to fiction and you're only seeing the public side of other relationships. You're not privy to what's going on behind closed doors.

Establish Realistic Expectations

The truth is that we all have expectations of life that rarely live up to reality. When it comes to relationships, learning to compromise and have expectations that are more realistic can make a world of difference when it comes to how happy you are with your partner. Both of you have areas where there is room for improvement. Identify them and make changes where appropriate.

Learn to Speak Up When It's Important

The other problem regarding expectations arises when you fail to speak up when something is really important to you. Your partner can't meet your needs if he or she isn't aware of them. You must speak up and let your partner know what's going on in your head and in your heart. You can't hold the other person in the equation responsible for unknown variables. It's not fair to either of you or your relationship.

It doesn't seem like such a big deal at first glance. However, adjusting your expectations just a little bit, in order to meet your partner in the middle, can make a world of different to your happiness with the relationship and with your partner.

These are some of the tips you can use to have a healthy and better relationship. If you think your relationship need some fine tuning and would like to read up more on relationships, then I suggest you download and read through the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world save their broken relationships and making it better then before. Download your copy right now!

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To your relationship success.

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Trying Hard to Get Your Ex Back - This Standing in Your Way?

Trying Hard to Get Your Ex Back - This Standing in Your Way?

Hey guys,

Are you trying hard to get your ex back and is something standing in your way? I suggest, you read through the article below before you start making it any more harder for yourself.

It's not easy to be on the outside looking in at what used to be your path to happily ever after. Being unceremoniously dumped without anyone asking your permission, not only hurts, but it also makes your entire world feel as though it's spiraling out of control. Your solution to the problem is simple.

You have decided to get your ex back. You've thrown all your heart, soul, and energy into the coffers and, yet, you're still not seeing a satisfactory return on your investment. If anything, the cold shoulder your ex has been giving you just keeps getting colder. What's going wrong in your efforts to win your ex back? Perhaps, it's one of these common, but fixable, hiccups.

You're Trying Too Hard

You want results and you feel that this is worth an all-out effort on your part. Unfortunately, what your ex needs right now is a little bit of emotional distance from the situation. Sometimes absence really is all it takes to make the heart grow fonder. You just have to give the absence the opportunity to happen. Step back. Scale things down completely and let your ex get a taste of what life is really like without you in it.

Making all the Wrong Moves

At least, that's what it feels like is going on. Every move you make feels like it's pushing your ex further and further away. The thing is, it's not the moves you're making that are the problems. It's the fact that you're making them. Stand down. Give your ex a chance to breathe a little. Use this time wisely to come up with a plan of action designed to get your ex's attention in a really positive way when the timing is right.

Moving a Little Too Fast

This is quite common. Your heart is telling you to get in there and "Nip it in the bud!" You don't want to hear any more of this breakup talk. You want to end it all, right now and get on to the infinitely more enjoyable making up talk. There's a reason Barney didn't get a loaded gun and that he was only given ONE bullet. Your heart means well but it doesn't always steer you in the right direction.

If none of these things work to get your ex back, then what will? It takes a well-planned and executed attack to win your ex back after a breakup. You must spend some serious time planning your strategy and paying attention to the little details. More importantly, it takes knowing what to do next. A second chance is just that -- a chance. If you want to make it work, a second time around then you need a little magic on your side. I can help with that!

These are some of the tips you need to take note of, before you plan your next move. If you want to read up more practical tips that you can follow, I suggest you download and read through the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together and it's a handy book to have to help you get your ex back. Grab your copy right now!

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To your relationship success.

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Avril Lavigne - Complicated

Avril Lavigne - Complicated




Yo guys,

Why is life so complicated?

Check out the video from Avril Lavigne. I know, it's been that long. :p

Enjoy!

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Why Are You Trying so Hard to Get Your Ex Back? Why..

Why Are You Trying so Hard to Get Your Ex Back? Why..

Hey guys,

Let me ask you some quick questions. Why are you trying so hard to get your ex back? Why do most people feel the need to do it? Did they regret what they did, that make their ex go away in the first place? Or you feel your ex the one who need to explain him or herself?

For sure, the one thing most people feel immediately after an unexpected, and unwanted, breakup, is desperation to get your ex back. It's a common denominator that most people experience. You're hurting. The breakup caused the pain. Ergo, getting back together with your ex will end the pain.

Right?

Not so fast!

Before you start pulling out maps and drawing up battle lines, it's a good idea to take a moment to really consider whether getting your ex back is the right move to make in this situation. It may be your knee jerk reaction, but that doesn't mean it's the best action to take. Here are a few questions you should ask yourself before you start making plans.

Why do You Want to Get Your Ex Back?

It's a completely and totally fair question to ask yourself. It's not about love. At least, it shouldn't be. Loving someone alone is not worth moving heaven and earth in order to get your ex back. You might believe you're soul mates, but why do you feel that way? What is it about your ex that makes this the one person you're meant to share your life with and that no other person will do?

Do You Know what You Really Want?

Have you thought about it before now? You may have been making plans for a future together, but could those plans change and create a happier future for you? Is the future you've been planning one that fills you with excitement? Is your ex the one person that fills you with excitement? Or, have you been so busy planning your life as part of a "we" that you've forgotten to make plans for the "me" in the equation? It's not a given that your ex isn't the one and that you aren't meant to be together. But, you owe it to yourself to take enough time to figure out the future you want before you begin to make plans to get your ex back.

Are You Really Good Together?

The final question to ask yourself is the simplest, and often the most difficult. Are you good together? Do you bring out the best or the worst in each other? Is the world better when you're together or did you secretly long for those moments when your ex was busy doing other things?

The questions aren't difficult, but the answers can make or break your plans to get your ex back. If, after answering these hard-hitting questions, you're sure your ex is the one and you want him back, then there's only one thing left to do: "Make it so." I can give you the tools you need to get your ex back. You just have to be willing to put them into action at the right time and place.

If you feel you're ready or need to read more on practical tips that can get your ex back, then I suggest you download the book, Magic of Making Up by T.W. Jackson. His book have helped many couples around the world get back together again and it's a good handy book to have for relationships. Grab, your copy right now!

Click here to download Magic of Making Up.

To your relationship success.

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