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Friday, August 17, 2012

What To Do If You Want Your Ex Back Really Bad


What To Do If You Want Your Ex Back Really Bad

Hey guys,

It is within the collective human nature to want to find a lifelong mate. Once you think you have found them, you are filled with a sense of calm and happiness; it's in your DNA. However, the sad reality is that even the best of relationships can go wrong and end in a break up.

The good news is that not all ended relationships have to stay that way, some can be fixed. If you have gone through a break up and would like to get your ex back, then you will find the following tips to be useful. Continue reading if you want to learn more..

Clear Your Mind

Before you do anything else, you need to collect your thoughts and clear your mind if you really want your ex back. That's not saying that this will be easy to do, it won't be. But it's necessary to be able to look at things in an objective manner.

This can be difficult to do when all you can think about is your ex and how much you messed up, or how much you want them back. Do your best to get rid of those thoughts; to get rid of all the static. Doing this will make everything else that follows that much easier.

Don't Make Empty Promises

Another mistake a lot of people make when trying to patch things up is to make empty promises. Or, worse, not being themselves. They will do anything to get their ex back, including being phony or changing their principles and character to appease their ex.

Look, it's simple...your ex will need to love you for who you are. If they don't then you need to face the facts and move on. Don't be a piece of putty in their hands. Instead, be confident in who you are and they will come to appreciate your sense of dignity.

Changing Things Up

Changing things up is another good way to get your ex back. This is not the same as selling out. You were part of the reason that you two broke up. If neither of you do anything to change or grow, then getting back together will be a mistake.

You both need to work on improving things. However, you can only control what you do, so do your best to make whatever improvements you can. Your ex will notice, and may follow suit, leading to a better relationship than you had before.

Learn From The Past

Learn from the past, but don't dwell in it. Sometimes when people try to get back together, they like to pretend that nothing bad happened. They do this intentionally with the idea of starting with a perfectly clean slate.

While they mean well, this almost always leads to more problems than it solves. The better way to go about it is to be realistic. Admit bad things happened, apologizing if necessary, then do what you can to not repeat those mistakes.

Make Plan

Make a plan. Yes, you may want to just jump right into to patching things up. However, your chances of getting your ex back will be much higher if you have a plan for how you will go about. This will keep you on track and make the process of getting back together run smoothly and go faster.

These are some of the tips what to do if you want your ex back really bad. If you'll like to learn more tips then I recommend you download and read through the book "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together and it's a good resource to have in your arsenal. Grab your copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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Thursday, August 16, 2012

Discover How Get Your Ex Back The Easy Way


Discover How Get Your Ex Back The Easy Way

Hey guys,

It's a fact of life: most of us will, at one point or another, break up with somebody we love. Break ups are sort of strange. Whereas other things we do in life become easier the more we do them, that's not the case with breaking up. No matter how many times you've done it in the past, each break up is at least as difficult as any previous ones you've experienced. Another fact of life is that after a break up people will want to get their ex back.

The majority of relationships follow a pattern. Everything is great when you first meet. Then you get comfortable with each other, making some adjustments to get along. Then those things you didn't notice at first start to become amplified, leading to arguments.

The saying, "familiarity breeds contempt" applies in such cases. It takes effort to accept each other for who you are. That's how to make a relationship work. But, even if you are doing your best, your partner may want to break up. Here are a few things you can do to win back your ex if the worst should happen.

Apologize. This is a difficult step for some people. Either they don't think they did anything wrong, or they don't know what they specifically did that was wrong. Before apologizing you need to know what you did, and why it was wrong. Also, be careful that your sincere apology doesn't lead to an argument. Be honest, be humble.

Talk. As soon as your ex is ready to discuss things, you should start talking. Do not force this on your ex, that won't work. Again, be careful that the things you talk about don't end up in an argument. Stay alert as to how the discussion is going and change course if you have to.

Remain calm and stick to the facts. Do not, under any circumstances, start blaming your ex for anything. That's a sure way to stay broken up. You are simply talking things over like to calm, cool and collected adults.

Give them some space. Sure, the first thing you want to do is see them again, to plead your case, to talk things over; but they also need to be receptive to seeing you again. People deal with things at a different rate, and your ex may not be as far along as you are. this isn't a bad thing. It just means they need some more space and time to sort things out before they are ready to talk to you. Give them that space. You will know when the time is right by how willing they are to talk to you.

As the song says, "breaking up is hard to do". It isn't easy. And the happier you were together, the harder it will be to be apart. Once you know the right way to approach things, the better your odds will be to get your ex back and to be happier than ever.

If you would like to read up more on how to get your ex back, then I suggest you grab yourself the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together and it's a good resource for you to have in tackling relationships problem.


To your relationship success.

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Sunday, August 12, 2012

Relationship Advice for Men - Its Evolutionary My Dear Man


Relationship Advice for Men - Its Evolutionary My Dear Man

Hey guys,

So much different relationship advice for men is out there that it can be difficult to figure out what really works. So, what do men need to know if they are interested in a more relationship? The most important bit of advice is to look at what women really want, based on their actions, as opposed to assuming what they say is 100% accurate.

The question then becomes one of being able to identify what their actions are. And the best way to do that is to observe the type of men they end up, regardless of what they say they want. While women may say they want a sensitive man with a good sense of humor, and one that listens; they go out with men who aren't sensitive, make plenty of money, dominate conversations, and may or may not be all that funny.

The reason why women do this may surprise you. It's not because they don't know what they really want, it's because they don't know that they know what they really want. Okay, that may sound confusing, but it isn't. What we are talking about is the subconscious mind, and that's where the best relationship advice for men comes from.

It all comes down to one thing: The propagation of the species. This has been the underlying factor since the dawn of humanity, and its power is found in both men and women. While having children with a particular man may be the furthest thing from her mind (as far as she knows), deep down in the subconscious, she is evaluating mates for their ability to be a good father for her potential family.

We then get back to the things women say they want. Does having a good sense of humor mean he will be a strong protector and bread winner for the family? Not really. And it's the sense of security and ability to provide food for the family that the subconscious is most concerned with.

Let's take a quick look at biology to see why this is so important. Men have the ability to reproduce for, in theory, from the onset of puberty until they die; that's a big window of opportunity. On the other hand, women have a much smaller window in which they can viably reproduce. Therefore, women can't afford to gamble, and need a partner that will be able to provide for the long-term.

In today's world, these deep-seated desires manifest themselves in various ways. In past centuries women may have dreamt of marrying royalty, as they were the ultimate providers. Today, princes and kings have been replaced by athletes, celebrities and rock stars. Another bit of evidence is the engagement ring. It not only shows that the man has the ability to provide, but also that he is will to share the fruits of his labor (and you thought it was simply romantic).

So, when it comes to relationship advice for men, don't worry about all the static and conflicting viewpoints. All you really need to do is dig down to the subconscious level to see what women really want, no matter what they think they want.

I suggest, if you really want to read more on this to grab yourself a copy of the book by T.W. Jackson, "Magic of Making Up". His book is full of wisdom for improving your relationships and it's a good resource to have in your arsenal. Download your copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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Thursday, August 9, 2012

Your 6 Sure Fire Ways To Build Trust In A Relationship


Your 6 Sure Ways To Build Trust In A Relationship

Hey guys,

If there is one thing that is vital to any successful relationship, it's trust. It makes sense to do what you can to improve trust if you want to be a happy couple. The funny thing is that the things we often think will work end up having the opposite effect. So, what can you do? You can start by following any of the following six tips to help you build trust in a relationship.

1- "Spice things up?"

That's what your well-meaning friends will try to tell you do at the first sign of trouble. While this may work in some cases, it may not be the best course of action if you are trying to gain more trust. What often works is being predictable. That's because it goes hand in hand with expectations. It's easier to trust somebody if you have some idea of what they will do in certain situations. That's what we're talking about here. You don't have to be a boring, mindless machine, but do try to have some level of predictability.

2 - Congruity.

What's that? That's just a fancy way of saying that you should say what you mean and mean what you say. No matter how good you think you are at saying something, if you don't really feel that way your body language won't match. Criminologists who specialize in lie detection are trained to spot these incongruities. If they can do it, how much better will your partner be at it? After all, they know you much better. Nobody likes a phony. So be sure your body language matches your words if you want to build trust in a relationship.

3 - Give to get.

Ever wish your partner would trust you more? There's one sure way to make that happen, and it's by trusting them first. It doesn't matter if you think you're more trustworthy or not. It is incredibly difficult to trust somebody who doesn't trust you. Believe in your partner. Try to catch your significant other telling the truth, and also operate from the expectation that they are telling the truth in the first place. It will help, and keep things running more smoothly.

4 - Be an open book.

Keeping secrets is a form of dishonesty and is counterproductive to building trust. If it helps, assume your partner will find out eventually anyway; so they may as well learn the truth from you. Simple.

5 - What do you need?

Your partner isn't a mind reader. You have to be clear as to what your needs are, as to what you want, and so on. It's also important to assert yourself when you need to. Again, don't leave it to your partner to guess. They will usually be wrong and will lead to a loss of trust.


6 - Grow as a couple.

Just like a garden, a relationship needs the right kind of care and cultivation for it to be bountiful. Go through new experiences, good or bad, together. Be there for each other. By doing this you will deepen the level of trust in your relationship. Decide that it is indeed important to build trust in a relationship and work together to make it happen. You will be a stronger, happier couple as a result.

These are your 6 sure fire ways to build trust in a relationship. To read and learn more, I recommend that you download the book "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world build a better relationship and it's a good resource for you to have. Grab your copy today!


To a better relationship.

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Sunday, August 5, 2012

To Save My Marriage Help Me Please


To Save My Marriage Help Me Please


Hey guys,

Are you asking yourself, "Is it possible to save my marriage?" If you're in what feels like a loveless marriage or you're already at the point of separation and/or divorce, you may very well be asking yourself this question. Often times, only one person in the marriage is thinking this question. The other either doesn't even realize there is something wrong, or just wants out altogether. If you are thinking that you need to start working on your marriage because it feels like it's in a downward plunge, or you want to get your marriage back, then here are a few quick tips you can use.

Take A Step Back

The first step in order to be able to answer your question of "Will I be able to save my marriage?", is to take a step back from it. Try to analyze your situation objectively, without all the emotions. This is hard, and it is probably harder if you are still in the marriage but do the best you can. Write things down. Try to figure out turning points, mistakes, what went wrong, and how you could have possibly avoided it. If you have already split with your husband or wife, minimize contact as much as possible so that you can have the time to get a more objective perspective. This is not about blaming, but rather about assessing the situation so try to do this without placing blame on yourself or on your spouse. When you are doing this, try to pick out the real reasons for problems, not the symptoms. For example, if one of you cheated, that is not really the problem, but the result of an underlying problem, or several of them. Of course, that just adds to all the problems because a relationship is based on trust, and cheating really violates that. But there were other issues that lead to the cheating as well. You may also want to see a counselor or therapist who can help you determine some of the problems and give you an unbiased viewpoint.

Time For Action

After the "assessment phase" comes the time for action. This is where you should speak to your spouse about what you've been analyzing. This is most likely not going to be fun so gear up for some opposition and prepare to be strong. You of course want to listen what he or she has to say, but make sure that your voice is heard too. Also be prepared to change your mind if your spouse brings up something that you hadn't realized or thought of. This is not particularly enjoyable, but at least you are communicating. And communication is the key to all relationships, whether it be marriage, friendship, work, etc. Continue to communicate. If it seems that you are continuously butting heads over every little point, and neither of you is willing to listen or give in, then the answer to the question of "Is it possible to save my marriage" might be no. But if you see even a little bit of progress, hold on to that and make it work.

Definitely, there's a lot more you can or need to do but this few quick tips can help the ball-a-rolling. I recommend that you download the book by T.W. Jackson "Magic of Making Up" before you do anything else as it's full of tips that you can learn and use to save your marriage. His book have help many couples in 75 countries get back together and you can also read more testimonials at his main site. Get your copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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