Dating For Love Tips - A Lesson From Being Robbed At Gunpoint!
Hey guys,
Is there something you can learn by being
robbed at gunpoint?
As TW Jackson explains in the Magic Of Making Up System
Click here to visit his site and learn more on dating for love.
after your initial contact...you want to set up your
"1st Date" again.
AND...the MOST important part, the secret and
the part nobody else but T Dub will tell ya :-)...is the date HAS
to be EMOTIONALLY CHARGED.
Okay?
That DOES NOT mean 'dinner and a movie'.
because...well...it's BORING...and does not
create a bonding...or in our case a RE-bonding
experience.
In fact, you want to pack in several emotionally
charged mini-dates in a span of a couple hours.
Why?
If you just do 'dinner and a movie' you lose
out on a Sociologically PROVEN principle...
emotionally charged experiences = bond
Look at it in another way.
Last time you went to the bank, do you
remember the person in line in front of you?
Behind you?
Probably not. Me either.
But...
What if while you were in the bank, it
was ROBBED AT GUNPOINT?
and the robbers couldn't get the safe open. The
robbers are livid, screaming and waving huge guns
around. The tension feels so thick you could
cut through it with a knife.
You are lying face down on the cold bank floor
and can see your breath fogging up the tile below.
You are trembling...because it is eerily silent
for a moment.
"Oh my god!"
"Where are the robbers?"
"Are they behind me?"
"Are they watching me?"
So you slowly move your eyes around and
see a sweet older lady lying right next to you.
She looks a little like Grandma, and you come
out of your own haze enough to realize that she
is even more terrified than you. She is softly sobbing.
You slowly reach out and take her hand in yours
and give her a little squeeze that says..."it's gonna
be all right."
NOW!
Let me ask?
Are you going to EVER forget that older lady?
and...
Do you think she will EVER forget you?
Not in a million Sundays!
Now...I'm not saying to go rob a bank on
your first date! LOL.
But you want to go on an EMOTIONALLY
charged and exciting date...and preferably several
mini-dates in a span of a couple hours.
A short roller coaster ride is one GREAT example.
T Dub teaches you more about things like emotionally
charged dates in the Magic Of Making Up System.
Click here to get his eBook and more dating for love tips!
You'll also discover psychological tactics and techniques
you can use to get you BACK on that first date with your
ex again.
Best Wishes,
PS Get a special unannounced bonus called 'Mind Magic'
when you reserve your copy of the Magic Of Making Up
System through this special link:
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Showing posts with label long distances relationships. Show all posts
Thursday, February 24, 2011
7 Steps on How to Save a Relationship - Relationship Advices
7 Steps on How to Save a Relationship - Relationship Advices
Jim works long hours and Lisbet doesn’t feel he is there for her. Lisbet spends all of her time meeting the children’s needs and Jim feels that she doesn’t have time for his needs? Can this relationship be saved?
Should it be saved? Here’s how to save a relationship.
First, you must decide whether the relationship is worth saving. While almost every relationship can be saved with hard work, both parties must decide that they want to make it work. Because if a partner has opted out and doesn’t want to opt back in, there is little that can be done.
Many people stay in a relationship because it is convenient or remain in a marriage because of the children. But that is not enough. How to save a relationship starts with a commitment by both parties that the relationship is worth saving.
Next, you must pinpoint the problem or problems in a relationship. One of the biggest problems in how to save a relationship is that people believe the symptoms of the problem are the problem itself.
For instance, many people think an affair is a problem that causes break ups. In truth, the affair is a symptom of a deeper problem. For instance, a lack of true intimacy can lead to a straying spouse.
While most people look at the affair as the problem, the underlying cause of the affair was the lack of intimacy in the primary relationship. If you do not deal with the lack of intimacy, you might be able to keep another affair from starting through the use of guilt, but another problem (for instance pornography) could pop up because you haven’t dealt with the core issue.
When you start to deal with core issues rather than symptoms, you can save the relationship.
Once you have identified the core problems, you can begin to share your thoughts. This means both verbalizing your own feelings and listening to your partner’s concerns. Hold your partner’s had when you are talking about your problems as a signal that you want to reconnect even when your emotions are swirling. When your partner talks about things that hurt you remember that he or she is not doing it because he or she wants to hurt you. Rather it is because they want to improve the relationship.
Once you have detailed the problems in your relationship, create an action plan to solve them. Then, take concrete steps on your action plan. If you don’t spend time together like you used to, plan a date night every week. Take turns coming up with creative ways to spend an evening together each Wednesday. If not communicating is the problem, commit to spending 20 minutes before going to bed just talking to one another. And, then do it.
Finally, you should realize that saving a relationship is an ongoing process. You are going to take two steps forward only to take one step back. There is going to be both laughter and tears going forward. Be quick to apologize and slow to blame.
Is your relationship worth saving? If so, I’ve described in this article how to save a relationship.
For more tips on Relationship advices, check out T 'Dub' Jackson eBook "Magic of Making Up" right now:
Click here to read through his website.
Have a good read!
P.S. If you think your relationship is worth effort, time and money then definitely check out T 'Dub' ebook. Click here to read through his website to learn more!
Jim works long hours and Lisbet doesn’t feel he is there for her. Lisbet spends all of her time meeting the children’s needs and Jim feels that she doesn’t have time for his needs? Can this relationship be saved?
Should it be saved? Here’s how to save a relationship.
First, you must decide whether the relationship is worth saving. While almost every relationship can be saved with hard work, both parties must decide that they want to make it work. Because if a partner has opted out and doesn’t want to opt back in, there is little that can be done.
Many people stay in a relationship because it is convenient or remain in a marriage because of the children. But that is not enough. How to save a relationship starts with a commitment by both parties that the relationship is worth saving.
Next, you must pinpoint the problem or problems in a relationship. One of the biggest problems in how to save a relationship is that people believe the symptoms of the problem are the problem itself.
For instance, many people think an affair is a problem that causes break ups. In truth, the affair is a symptom of a deeper problem. For instance, a lack of true intimacy can lead to a straying spouse.
While most people look at the affair as the problem, the underlying cause of the affair was the lack of intimacy in the primary relationship. If you do not deal with the lack of intimacy, you might be able to keep another affair from starting through the use of guilt, but another problem (for instance pornography) could pop up because you haven’t dealt with the core issue.
When you start to deal with core issues rather than symptoms, you can save the relationship.
Once you have identified the core problems, you can begin to share your thoughts. This means both verbalizing your own feelings and listening to your partner’s concerns. Hold your partner’s had when you are talking about your problems as a signal that you want to reconnect even when your emotions are swirling. When your partner talks about things that hurt you remember that he or she is not doing it because he or she wants to hurt you. Rather it is because they want to improve the relationship.
Once you have detailed the problems in your relationship, create an action plan to solve them. Then, take concrete steps on your action plan. If you don’t spend time together like you used to, plan a date night every week. Take turns coming up with creative ways to spend an evening together each Wednesday. If not communicating is the problem, commit to spending 20 minutes before going to bed just talking to one another. And, then do it.
Finally, you should realize that saving a relationship is an ongoing process. You are going to take two steps forward only to take one step back. There is going to be both laughter and tears going forward. Be quick to apologize and slow to blame.
Is your relationship worth saving? If so, I’ve described in this article how to save a relationship.
For more tips on Relationship advices, check out T 'Dub' Jackson eBook "Magic of Making Up" right now:
Click here to read through his website.
Have a good read!
P.S. If you think your relationship is worth effort, time and money then definitely check out T 'Dub' ebook. Click here to read through his website to learn more!
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
How To Get My Ex back If He Wants More Space
How To Get My Ex back If He Wants More Space
Hey guys,
Almost everyone has experienced a powerful relationship in their life, when suddenly everything which seems so perfectly is broken off because your boyfriend wants space. There are a number of different reasons for why a boyfriend may suddenly need space, including family problems, insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few. Here are some tips for answering the age old "how to get my ex back" question if your ex boyfriend needs more space.
- You are not going to want to lose your pride, or to allow him to get the best of you - But clearly you are still in love with him. It may be ideal to play a little bit hard to get at first, in order to show him that yes, it was his loss and not your own.
- If you are feeling like your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, then it may be ideal for you to strike up a conversation with him. Keep communication to a minimum in order to keep the level of drama to a minimum. Short text messages, brief phone calls and online conversations in passing are all a great way to remind him how much he wants to be a part of your life without overwhelming him with your presence when he may actually want and need space.
- Eventually he will begin to show significant interest in you again if all goes well, and this will give you the chance to truly begin to reminisce with him. Keep in mind that you should focus primarily on all of the good memories associated with your relationship in the past. While rekindling a relationship with your ex boyfriend, you are going to want to stay away from the bad experiences and negative experiences in case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.
- If your boyfriend is not responding to your slow and subtle advances, you need to take it for what it is. Either he just really is not interested in you right now, or he really does just need space and you should give it to him. But if on the other hand he seems to be interested in you more than before, or is slowly warming up to you again, then you should continue gradually advancing on him to rekindle the relationship.
- If your ex boyfriend is giving you the right signals, you can try to open your heart up to him. Let him know how you feel, but avoid looking desperate or needy in the process. If your ex is showing you that he is thinking about rekindling things, then it would be healthy to be open with him. But if his signals are pointing in the other direction, it may be wiser to step back and let things happen more naturally.
These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps you can follow when you lost the love of your life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. It's all T 'Dub' Jackson and you can get more ideas on how to get you true love back with his eBook.
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And, I'm sure it will worked like magic for you. Be in love more than ever!
For more information on T 'Dub' "The Magic Of Making Up" eBook then click here.
Happy reading!
P.S. Get T 'Dub' Jackson "The Magic Of Making Up" eBook Today!
Click here to get his eBook Now!
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Hey guys,
Almost everyone has experienced a powerful relationship in their life, when suddenly everything which seems so perfectly is broken off because your boyfriend wants space. There are a number of different reasons for why a boyfriend may suddenly need space, including family problems, insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few. Here are some tips for answering the age old "how to get my ex back" question if your ex boyfriend needs more space.
- You are not going to want to lose your pride, or to allow him to get the best of you - But clearly you are still in love with him. It may be ideal to play a little bit hard to get at first, in order to show him that yes, it was his loss and not your own.
- If you are feeling like your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, then it may be ideal for you to strike up a conversation with him. Keep communication to a minimum in order to keep the level of drama to a minimum. Short text messages, brief phone calls and online conversations in passing are all a great way to remind him how much he wants to be a part of your life without overwhelming him with your presence when he may actually want and need space.
- Eventually he will begin to show significant interest in you again if all goes well, and this will give you the chance to truly begin to reminisce with him. Keep in mind that you should focus primarily on all of the good memories associated with your relationship in the past. While rekindling a relationship with your ex boyfriend, you are going to want to stay away from the bad experiences and negative experiences in case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.
- If your boyfriend is not responding to your slow and subtle advances, you need to take it for what it is. Either he just really is not interested in you right now, or he really does just need space and you should give it to him. But if on the other hand he seems to be interested in you more than before, or is slowly warming up to you again, then you should continue gradually advancing on him to rekindle the relationship.
- If your ex boyfriend is giving you the right signals, you can try to open your heart up to him. Let him know how you feel, but avoid looking desperate or needy in the process. If your ex is showing you that he is thinking about rekindling things, then it would be healthy to be open with him. But if his signals are pointing in the other direction, it may be wiser to step back and let things happen more naturally.
These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps you can follow when you lost the love of your life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. It's all T 'Dub' Jackson and you can get more ideas on how to get you true love back with his eBook.
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And, I'm sure it will worked like magic for you. Be in love more than ever!
For more information on T 'Dub' "The Magic Of Making Up" eBook then click here.
Happy reading!
P.S. Get T 'Dub' Jackson "The Magic Of Making Up" eBook Today!
Click here to get his eBook Now!
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Friday, February 11, 2011
What Should I Do to Get My Ex Back
What Should I Do to Get My Ex Back
Hello guys,
When you break up with someone you love, you go through lots of painful emotions. You feel sad, depressed and hurt, and you miss them. “What should I do to get my ex back?” becomes a question you constantly ask yourself.
I should know. I had lots of mixed feelings like anger, resent and jealousy back then when I broke up with my ex. As much, as I tried to stop all this mixed and confused feelings. I failed miserably. I didn't know what to make of it or what I should be doing. I certainly didn't know what I should do to get my ex back, if ever.
There are many websites, books, blogs, forums and even courses designed to answer the question, what should I do to get my ex back? But common sense can really make a difference after a breakup. And common courtesy can go long way toward healing your relationship.
If you’re preoccupied with your lost relationship, wondering “what should I do to get my ex back?” then follow this simple advice. You’ll give yourself the best chance of getting back together with that special someone.
Don’t play games. This is very important, but unfortunately many people resort to this during breakups because it gives them a sense of power. If you can make the other person think that you don’t care, or you care more than you really do, you’re manipulating them and that can feel great. But it won’t feel great for long.
Eventually you’ll realize that lying and tricking the other person isn’t a good feeling. And anything good that happens because of it will always be sullied a little because of the lie.
Some people play games where they pretend to be dating someone else, or they pretend to be in love with someone else. This is a ploy to make the ex jealous. While it does work now and then, other times it makes the breakup permanent because it backfires.
Your ex could be so jealous at the thought of you being with someone else that they want you back. Or they could decide that since you moved on so quickly, you don’t really care about them anyway. You have no way of knowing which way this ploy will work until it’s too late.
Don’t be mean. This holds true in any situation or any relationship, but sometimes the anger around a breakup makes us act more viciously than we normally might. Even if you’re hurt, the fact that you want to know, ‘What should I do to get my ex back?” shows that you’re ready to forgive that person. If you couldn’t, you wouldn’t want your ex back, you’d be glad it was over.
Now, think about how you’ve been acting. If you were your ex, would you look forward to spending time with you or talking to you? Or would you dread each time? Do you shout and nag? Even if you feel like raising all kinds of arguments, simply don’t. Work very hard at controlling your anger and hurt, and being a person they can miss.
“What should I do to get my ex back?” Be on your best behavior and make your ex remember what drew them to you in the first place. They’ll remember your good points and will miss them. Then you’ll have a better chance of being able to get back together with your ex.
These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back.
They are the initial steps you should follow when you lost the love of your life. And frankly, if you want to learn more then you should turn to T 'Dub' Jackson. A relationship expert.
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And you know, it would work like magic for you. He'll help you and your ex to be more in love than ever with each other.
Click here to visit his site and check out his eBook.
Good luck and have a nice day!
P.S. Get your copy of T 'Dub' Jackson eBook called "The Magic Of Making Up" and learn the step-by-step guide to get your ex back!
Click here to download Now!
Hello guys,
When you break up with someone you love, you go through lots of painful emotions. You feel sad, depressed and hurt, and you miss them. “What should I do to get my ex back?” becomes a question you constantly ask yourself.
I should know. I had lots of mixed feelings like anger, resent and jealousy back then when I broke up with my ex. As much, as I tried to stop all this mixed and confused feelings. I failed miserably. I didn't know what to make of it or what I should be doing. I certainly didn't know what I should do to get my ex back, if ever.
There are many websites, books, blogs, forums and even courses designed to answer the question, what should I do to get my ex back? But common sense can really make a difference after a breakup. And common courtesy can go long way toward healing your relationship.
If you’re preoccupied with your lost relationship, wondering “what should I do to get my ex back?” then follow this simple advice. You’ll give yourself the best chance of getting back together with that special someone.
Don’t play games. This is very important, but unfortunately many people resort to this during breakups because it gives them a sense of power. If you can make the other person think that you don’t care, or you care more than you really do, you’re manipulating them and that can feel great. But it won’t feel great for long.
Eventually you’ll realize that lying and tricking the other person isn’t a good feeling. And anything good that happens because of it will always be sullied a little because of the lie.
Some people play games where they pretend to be dating someone else, or they pretend to be in love with someone else. This is a ploy to make the ex jealous. While it does work now and then, other times it makes the breakup permanent because it backfires.
Your ex could be so jealous at the thought of you being with someone else that they want you back. Or they could decide that since you moved on so quickly, you don’t really care about them anyway. You have no way of knowing which way this ploy will work until it’s too late.
"Remember, the truth will set you free and lies will only chained you down..."
Don’t be mean. This holds true in any situation or any relationship, but sometimes the anger around a breakup makes us act more viciously than we normally might. Even if you’re hurt, the fact that you want to know, ‘What should I do to get my ex back?” shows that you’re ready to forgive that person. If you couldn’t, you wouldn’t want your ex back, you’d be glad it was over.
Now, think about how you’ve been acting. If you were your ex, would you look forward to spending time with you or talking to you? Or would you dread each time? Do you shout and nag? Even if you feel like raising all kinds of arguments, simply don’t. Work very hard at controlling your anger and hurt, and being a person they can miss.
“What should I do to get my ex back?” Be on your best behavior and make your ex remember what drew them to you in the first place. They’ll remember your good points and will miss them. Then you’ll have a better chance of being able to get back together with your ex.
"Be truthful to yourself.."
These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back.
They are the initial steps you should follow when you lost the love of your life. And frankly, if you want to learn more then you should turn to T 'Dub' Jackson. A relationship expert.
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And you know, it would work like magic for you. He'll help you and your ex to be more in love than ever with each other.
Click here to visit his site and check out his eBook.
Good luck and have a nice day!
P.S. Get your copy of T 'Dub' Jackson eBook called "The Magic Of Making Up" and learn the step-by-step guide to get your ex back!
Click here to download Now!
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