A Broken Relationship - Women Are Like Flowers

A Broken Relationship - Women Are Like Flowers

Hey guys,

Women are NOT cars that break down and need to be fixed. Women are more like flowers that need to be showered with understanding and love.

What it means: Men and women do not approach emotional upsets the same way. Men go to a space by themselves and then figure out a 'solution'. While, Women prefer to have someone listen, validate their feeling with words AND emotions.

Example:

Tom forgets to grab the milk that Michelle asks him to pick up on his way home. Michelle has had a bad day, and barks at Tom when he shows up sans milk.

Tom, thinking like a man, says he'll go get the milk after dinner and thinks that'll be the end of Michelle's anger. (the FIX)

But... During dinner he can still feel Michelle's anger. Tom returns the anger with anger and the whole 'milk situation' explodes into WWIII.

Now imagine, if when Tom returned home...(he would've looked deeper and realized this was about more than just the milk)

Michelle: Where's the milk?

Tom: Oh CRAP! I totally spaced it out!

Michelle: It figures. (angrily)

Tom: (Taking Michelle in his arms) I can't believe I forgot the milk. I've been so forgetful lately. Maybe, I'm getting old eh?

Michelle: (cooling down) It's okay. It's not a big deal.

Tom: No, it is a big deal. (cupping Michelle's face in his hands) I love you, you're just
as busy as I am and I shouldn't forget such a small request.

Michelle: (big smile) Ooooh...I've just had a bad day and felt totally unappreciated. I shouldn't be such a grump. You're so sweet.

Tom: It's okay...I was a bad boy...You can punish me later after I get the milk (gave a little wink). What happened today?

Michelle: Mmmmm...(and she tells him about her day.)

Now, I used 'milk' as a small example.

What's important to understand is that you don't HAVE to solve every problem. If your break up was over 'money', more than likely, it wasn't REALLY over 'money'.

Anymore than the argument between Tom and Michelle was about the milk.

Hope this helps.

During times of financial crisis, more families are strained than ever before. It's really important that men and women both look for the deeper emotional issues regarding money and finances in order to work through them TOGETHER.

Life is not a bed of roses and relationships sometime need more communication and understanding.

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