How to Get Over Guy - 5 Steps for Moving On After A Broken Relationship

How to Get Over Guy - 5 Steps for Moving On After A Broken Relationship

Hello ladies,

How to get over someone you love?

Are you having trouble get over the guy? Whether he dumped you or you broke up with him, letting go of someone who you had a close relationship is very difficult. There is a space in your heart as well as a space in your life that are not quickly filled with anything or anyone else. Yet, people do get over a relationship.

Here are five steps to get over guy you still like.

STEP 1: Let out the hurt

First, you need to let out the hurt. Know that it is okay to cry when you are trying to get over the guy. Some people keep a journal of their experiences because writing about the pain helps.

One thing that I have seen some people do that is very effective is to write a long letter about the relationship to their ex boyfriend. Talk about the good times and bad. Talk about the relationship and how he hurt you. Let it all out. When you have finished the letter, burn it.

That’s right. Don't even think about sending it to your ex. Instead, let flames consume the letter. That provides excellent closure to the relationship.

STEP 2: Decide the Relationship is Over

Next, you have to decide that the relationship is really over. If you hold on to the thought that he will change and come back to you, you will never get over this guy and move on.

Do something that symbolizes the finality of the end of the relationship. A good example of this is to exchange all of the personal property that you have of the others. Don't even keep the over sized t-shirt of his that is so comfortable for sleeping in. And, if there are things too minor to exchange (like a toothbrush), throw them away. Clear your place of all of his things. It is a way of clearing him from your life.

STEP 3: Girlfriends are Forever

You need to depend on your friends through this time. Until you meet your husband, guys will come and go, but your girlfriends are forever.

If you have been in a hot and heavy relationship, you may have inadvertently ignored your friends for a time. Not only will your girls help you get over guy, but reconnecting will be good for your social life. Also, your girlfriends will have had similar experiences to your break up. Sharing their pain will help you understand that, however bad the hurt you are experiencing, others have survived and you will too.

STEP 4: Use Time Productively

You will probably have extra time on your hands now that you have broken up. You used to spend a lot of time with your ex. Use this time productively to get over guy. Go to the gym and get your body in shape. Take up a new hobby.

One of the best things you can do during this period is to join a group or a class. Not only does a class take up the time you would have spent with your ex, but it also introduces you to a new circle of friends.

STEP 5: Move on

And, that brings me to my last point, when you want to get over guy, the best thing you can do is move on. Between your old friends, the new friends you make in your class or hobby, and the activities you do to fill up your time, you will emerge as a new person.

Moving on is the best way to get over guy.

These are the 5 steps you can take for getting over someone you love and moving on after a broken relationship.

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It might do you good to read up on it.

To your relationship success.

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