Save My Marriage - Build a Stronger Marriage by Setting Relationship Goals

Save My Marriage - Build a Stronger Marriage by Setting Relationship Goals

Hello guys,

An object that is set in motion will continue to move, unless something stands in its way. Your relationship or marriage will remain inert unless you act to put it and keep it in motion.

When you and your partner work together to create goals that improve or maintain the health of your relationship, you also create an atmosphere of collegiality and companionship. These goals can also act as the antidote to the stagnation and lethargy that can creep into any marriage over time.

In fact, the simpler and more straightforward the goal, the better.

Working toward your relationship goals means working to become a better partner to your mate.

Relationship goals--Where to begin:

First, pick an area of your relationship that you'd like to work on.

Communication goals: How can you become a better communicator? This might involve asking your partner more questions about his/her job, not interrupting your partner while s/he is speaking, or stating your needs more directly.

Compassion/support goals: This might involve asking your partner what s/he needs, driving him/her to a doctor's appointment, or setting aside a certain amount of time each day to check in with each other.

Affection/love goals: How often and how clearly do you express your emotions? Being affectionate can take on many different forms: directly with loving statements; through touch, such as hand-holding or a shoulder rub; or by establishing special gestures that only the two of you share.

Taking steps to appreciate your partner's viewpoint (even when you may not agree with him/her) sends the message that you take your partner's needs seriously.

When you demonstrate commitment, you lay the groundwork for emotional safety and therefore, for intimacy. Establishing commitment goals might involve spending more time with your partner or making decisions that clearly demonstrate that your relationship is a top priority in your life.

Physical intimacy goals: Take steps to become a more attuned, responsive sexual partner. Work toward developing activities that you both enjoy and that you both enjoy sharing with one another.

Find out if your partner is happy with the current arrangement by asking if there is more that you can do.

Reflect on the areas of your relationship that you'd like to improve. For instance, if your partner has questioned your commitment by noting, "You never call when you say you're going to," you can develop a goal to show your commitment by becoming more reliable in following through on your promises.

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