Get Your Guy Back – A Magic of Making Up Gals Guide to Making Up

Get Your Guy Back – A Magic of Making Up Gals Guide to Making Up

Hello ladies,

Howto get your ex back? How do you get guy back? How do you convince him that what the two of you had together was special? This is your “get guy back” gal’s guide to making up.

First of all, you have to recognize that whatever happened, you were both at fault. If you cheated, he wasn’t giving you what you needed so you looked elsewhere. If he cheated, you were the one not giving what he needed. Yes, the cheater is morally culpable for the cheating.

The moral responsibility does not lie with the person who was cheated upon. But the fault lies in both party’s laps. Given that, it is important to forgive and forget. True forgiveness means that you let go of all of the anger related to the incident. You never bring it up again. You never let it cloud your relationship. If you cannot do this, you won’t get guy back for any period of time.

If you were the person at fault, apologize – and mean it. Too many times, after people say “I’m sorry,” there’s an “Oops I did it again,” moment. You’re not Britney Spears. It’s not cute. When you say you are sorry, you have to commit to changing. Otherwise, you don’t mean it and you won’t get guy back.

Be prepared to chase him a little bit. This doesn't mean sending him hundreds of text messages or stalking him, but you have got to show him that you are still interested if you want to get guy back. You can’t expect him to come running back just because you have sent out some modest signals that you are ready to re-start the relationship.

Put your ego in check and put your heart on the line. You may have to settle for something less than you wanted. It may be that he is only ready to be friends when you want a full fledged boyfriend. It may take time to rebuild relationship and the trust.

If this is the case, you need to give him the space he needs to get to know you again. Accept that you have to take what he is offering right now if you want to eventually get guy back.

You have to know when to give up on the get guy back strategy. Sometimes, you just have to move on. If your boyfriend is unable to forgive you, you are in a position where the best thing you can do is move on and enter into new relationships. While this will break your heart right now, it may be the best thing that could have happened to you. Whatever went wrong in this relationship, your soul mate is still out there.

Get guy back may stop you from meeting him!

The most important thing is to take baby steps to get you from Break Up to make up.

What it means: Often guys and gals try to take too big a step when trying to patch things up with their ex. They want their ex to 'take them back' or 'forgive them' all at ONCE.

These are HUGE leaps.

What is effective in the re-bonding process is itty bitty steps. Grabbing coffee together is a much smaller step than 'getting back together'...and even smaller than 'going on a date'.

Still...Grabbing coffee may still be too big a step, might try starting with a smaller step?

In fact, many times, taking a step 'back' is the best course of action.

Here's a video that explains how.

Click here to watch the video and download Magic of Making Up

To your relationship success.

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