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Thursday, March 31, 2011

Dating for Guys - Five Most Important Things to Remember About Dating Girls

Dating for Guys - Five Most Important Things to Remember About Dating Girls

Supp guys,

Everyone does it. Not everyone loves it. Whether you enjoy dating or find it stressful and horrible, you know that if you are ever going to find the one person who can stop your dating life forever, you have to do it.

Gentlemen, you simply have to date girls if you are ever going to find the perfect one for you. So, here is some good advice for you.

Successful dating can be broken down into the five most important things about dating girls. They are:

1. Girls are not guys: It's Not a Guy's Night

Girls are not guys. They do not think it is fun to make noises by placing their hands under their armpits and acting like a winged creature. Even if they are drunk, they don’t like this. Save this type of behavior for guy’s night.

2. Girls are not guys: Previous Relationship

Girls are not guys. They do not think it is cool to brag about your previous relationship conquests. They do not want to know about the ditzy blonde who had nothing to say but had the most amazing rack ever created. Nor do they think it is great to have their guy greeted by every woman in the place. Take your date to a different place just to be on the safe side and never, never, never mention your ex-girlfriend.

3. Girls are not guys: Look Your Best

Girls are not guys. They do not like to see you show up at their door in your ratty old jeans with a cheap five-buck pizza in hand. Trust me on this one. Maybe later – way later, like after the kids become teenagers – it will be okay for this kind of thing to happen. But for now, please, guys: take a shower, put on something nice like khakis and a pullover shirt, and have flowers in hand instead of greasy fast food.

4. Girls are not guys: Don't Show Her You're a Cheapskate

Girls are not guys. They do not love it when their date pulls out buy-one-get-one-free coupons at the restaurant cash register. There is nothing wrong with a bargain, especially in these tough economic times, but use those freebies when you go out with your mom (who will love your thriftiness) or your best buddy (who wouldn’t notice or care how you paid). Don’t make your date think that she is not worth full price.

5. Girls are not guys: Burping and Farting Contest

Girls are not guys. They do not find burping and farting contests hilariously interesting and entertaining. Who can come up with most-silent-but-most-deadly one without any prior warning is nothing to be proud of, according to the female half of the population. Neither is it way cool to be able to belch out the melody to “The Star-Spangled Banner.” Again, save it for football night with the frat brothers.

Remembering the five most important things to remember about dating girls will take you farther than anything else when it comes to having a great time on your dates. The five most important things to remember about dating girls will also allow you to get more than one date with the same lady.

There are lots of people who will offer you lots of advice about dating, and even some who will simply say, “Be yourself.” That is not terrible advice, but trust me, if being yourself includes any of the forbidden behavior in the five most important things to remember when dating girls list, don’t be yourself. Be better.

Remember these five most important things about dating girls and have a better dating life.

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Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Marriage Saved - How to get your spouse to love you again

Marriage Saved - How to get your spouse to love you again



Author - Andrew Rusbatch

If your spouse says “I have fallen out of love with you,” don’t panic. You can take charge of the situation and even begin to rekindle your relationship.

You have to start by understanding. It’s very easy for us to connect losing the feelings of being in love with actual loving when it is not really the case. After the initial thrill of romance is gone, couples often find themselves lost and confused. What they don’t realize is that love is not just this heady feeling that carries us away. That feeling has a shelf life. When the prospect of spending years together sets in, the correct question to ask one’s self would be “How now do I love without the initial thrill?”

We have to discover that every relationship has stages:

- falling in love,
- the honeymoon stage,
- chaos or disillusionment,
- then mature love or resolution.

We are very quick to judge that we no longer love someone just because the feelings fade. With proper understanding, we can expect that even if the feeling may not be there, it doesn’t mean we don’t love.

In truth, love is a commitment. It is not just a feeling, it is a doing. A mature person loves by choice and not simply by circumstance.

The next step would be to manage your partner’s feelings or lack thereof by starting with dialogue. Talk about the feelings and find out what happened, where is it coming from? There are numerous tools and methods available for a couple – together or with a counselor/mediator – that would help them examine their present situation. Talk to your spouse and tell him or her that the relationship deserves at the very least, dialogue.

In dialogue, let your spouse talk and you listen. There may be important things you need to learn about your spouse and your marriage. On the other hand, you can also share your own feelings about what is happening. Try not to place blame on your spouse, however, but share your thoughts and feelings by using “I feel…” statements.

In the meantime, do some self-improvement. It is never too late to evolve into a happier, more mature and more lovable person --- even if it’s just something you do for yourself. For all you know, this new you will be more attractive to your spouse and come as a surprise to him or her.

Finally, don’t stop reinforcing your presence in the marriage. Do some positive loving acts for your spouse – without expecting anything in return. These mirror your mature, positive view of what love really is. Make these acts little things. They don’t have to be grand gestures. It’s the everyday things that actually build trust, intimacy and love between couples.

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He Dumped Me - How Will I Ever Survive After A Broken Relationship

He Dumped Me - How Will I Ever Survive After A Broken Relationship

Hello ladies,

If you are saying "he dumped me. How will I ever survive after a broken relationship?" mere words in an article will not give you comfort. It may help to know that while you’ve broken up, you are not a broken person.

What is the best way to heal a broken heart?

When you’ve been in the position that "he dumped me," you have two fears. The first is that you will never recover from the pain. The second is that no one will ever love you again (that is further then the truth).

Take heart, dear. The fear is real. The pain is real. But, the situation exists in your head, not in the real world. While one part of your life may be over, it's not the end of the world, your life is not over. How many times have we heard of individuals going to the extremes and even contemplating suicide?

For every problem, there's always a solution. You still have friends and family who care about you. In fact, you now have more time to spend with them. Many times, when you get into an involved romantic relationship, we lose touch with the other people who bring meaning to your life. You now have a chance to reconnect with them (again).

In fact, sharing your loss with them may encourage them to share their break up experiences with you. When you say, "he dumped me," that allows them to be vulnerable about how they've been hurt. You will begin to see that your pain is not unique. You will also be able to see that other people have lived full and complete lives after a break up. In some instances, they get better partner in life.

In addition to having more time for others who you care about, you will have more time to work on the issues in your life. Many times, when you are in a relationship, the activities you care about get pushed aside if your boyfriend isn't interested in them. This is a good time to get re-involved in the things that matter to you.

If no particular activity comes to mind, then maybe you need to get a hobby!

No, really, when you say "he dumped me," what you tell yourself is that you are worthless. When you take up a new activity and invest in yourself, you prove to yourself that you matter.

There are all kinds of activities you can get involved with. The best thing to do is to join a group, class, or workshop. For instance, joining a hiking club will let you meet lots of people who enjoy the great outdoors. A ballroom dancing class will introduce you to people who enjoy the finer things in life. A writer’s workshop will be filled with creative types.

As you begin to re-engage with the world, you will lose the sense of desperation you felt when he dumped you. You will make new friends who share a common interest. You may even meet someone better and special to spend your time with.

The truth is that you will find someone to date again. Your soul mate is out there. Your ex may have done you a favor by breaking up with you because now you have a chance to find someone who fits you better. And, always remember, the best revenge when "he dumped me" is moving on!

These are some of the tips you can use to survive after a heart wrenching broken relationship. Take it slow and know that breaking up is just part and parcel of life. It's a time to start afresh and move forward.

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Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Rejection Really Hurts, Brain Scans Show

Rejection Really Hurts, Brain Scans Show

Hey guys,

Saw this article posted on my Facebook wall by National Geographic.

Thought, I'll share it with you guys.

Click the link below for the main article:

Rejection Really Hurts, Brain Scans Show

Just go to shows, you need to take care of yourself when you break up with someone. No point, in sitting at home mopping around, crying your heart out when you can go out there and enjoy your new found freedom.

It may be hard at first but time do heals. I can attest to that as I've been in breakups too. And, I've also seen others who went on and find new better partner in their life.

Of course, everyone handle their breakups differently and you might have been in a long term relationship that already have cracks that you didn't realized were there in the first place.

That's why I suggest you download and read through the book by T.W. Jackson, Magic of Making Up.


You may think that you don't need it but information is knowledge and knowledge helps you go through a broken relationship and may even help you get your ex back.

He's eBook course has helped thousand others in 77+ countries so you can imagine the vast experiences that he accumulated all compiled in this eBook course.

The information inside will help you 'see' what's actually the course of your breakup. How not to repeat it again and improve your future relationships.

It doesn't matter if you're in a long distance relationship, in a marriage or just started dating. You will find the information inside that will help you in mending your broken relationship.

You will also get the chance to have his personal email and get to ask him any question pertaining to your situation. Most, probably though the answer you seek could already be inside the book.

So, what are you waiting for?


To your Relationship Success.

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Mending a Broken Relationship - When Love Still Exists How to Win Ex Back

Mending a Broken Relationship - When Love Still Exists How to Win Ex Back

Hey guys,

Do you want to win ex back? If you had a close, loving relationship with a man who later dumped you, you may want to get back together. But, mending a broken relationship is not easy. You have a lot of emotional investment in the relationship, and may not want to throw it away without an attempt to reignite the flame.

Here’s how to win ex back.

Analyze

First of all, you need to analyze your own feelings. Do you still care deeply about your ex?

Sometimes a great passion burns into being merely comfortable. You don’t want to lose your ex because he’s like an old slipper. But comfort doesn’t make a great relationship. There has to be a great love. If you still have passionate feelings for your old boyfriend, you can move onto the next step of how to win ex back.

How He Feels

And that next step is examining how he feels about you. Does he have the same kind of grand love?

If the problems in the relationship were things you can work on – communication, time management, goal awareness – then you can win ex back. But, if the problem was deeper – he was no longer in love with you – you should start to move on now.

When you have determined that this was a grand love, you can start to work on the things that can bring you back together. For instance, think back to who you were when your boyfriend fell for you. Perhaps you weighed 10 pounds less, had a more optimistic outlook on life, were close to your girlfriends, or were involved in a variety of activities.

After you spend time with a guy, you begin to change. You spend less time with girlfriends or on your own activities as he begins to demand more of your presence. You may have let yourself go because you feel secure in his affection. If you want to win ex back, you need to go back to being the woman he fell in love with.

Detachment

Another tip to how to win ex back is to practice detachment. Don’t call, text, or stalk him. You don’t want to appear desperate or a crying mess. By seeming to accept the situation, you actually become more desirable to him.

In practicing detachment, you also begin to focus on what makes you happy. You get reconnected to friends and family. You take up hobbies and other things which interest you. You become a more positive person in general. This all helps in winning ex back.

Use Past To Your Advantage

When you do get together with your ex from time to time, use the past to your advantage. For instance, if there was an outfit he really liked to see you in, wear it. If you eat at a restaurant where you had a good time with him, mention that you were there again. Because you have many positive experiences with this guy, you can use your common history to win ex back.

From time to time, invite your ex to non-committal type events. Ask him to join a group of your friends at a bar or invite him to a party. Let him know he’s free to bring a date.

Just Be Yourself

Finally, if you want to win ex back, just be yourself. Either he’s in love with you or he isn't. You can’t change who you are to win ex back. You can only be yourself. And, that is all that matters.

If you want more complete guide to mending a broken relationship, how to win ex back then I suggest you download Magic of Making Up by T.W. Jackson eBook course. Through his book, he has helped thousands other couples from all over the world and I'm pretty sure the answer to your questions would be inside too.

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Monday, March 28, 2011

I Want Ex Back – Changing What Went Bad to Get My Ex Back For Women

I Want Ex Back – Changing What Went Bad to Get My Ex Back

Hello ladies,

You are home after a date with yet another guy.  It didn't go well.  You find yourself saying I want ex back. Howto get my ex back? That's what happened to me too sometimes. It's a natural feeling we all have to want something back after we lost it.

After a break up, you may move on to other people.  But, when you constantly find yourself thinking you want ex back, are there things you can do to rekindle an old relationship?

There are, and in this article, I present you with five strategies for when you want ex back.

Clear Your Energy

First, clear your energy from other people.  Don’t invest time and energy in men who aren't your ex.  For your old relationship to start working again, you have to prepare your mind, body and soul for him.  If you are flirting with another guy, dating other men, or even worse, sleeping around, you are not preparing the proper mindset for getting your ex back.

Keep Your Dignity

Next, keep your dignity.  Don’t chase your ex, flooding him with hundreds of text messages, calling him at odd times of day, or stalking him.  Also, you need to make him respect you and treat you well.  Don’t be a doormat. I've seen women simply too afraid to lose their man that they'll do anything even if it's against their own principles.

You will only command your ex’s respect and love when you are yourself at your best.  Hold your head high.  You will increase your chances of getting back together with your ex if you do.

Appreciate Your Ex

Third, make a list of the things you appreciate about your ex and spend some time dwelling on them. Sometimes, a bad break up ends with all kinds of accusations.  Now that you have some breathing room, start to concentrate on his good points.  This is a good thing to do when you want ex back.

Time for A Change

Next, when you get back together, try changing some of the circumstances.  Go to new places and try new things. Take up a new hobby together.  Meet new people.  By changing the environment of your relationship, you have a better chance of making it work.

Don’t fall into the same old patterns of your relationship.  You may even want to tune your relationship down a notch.  If you were living together, try having separate places for a while.  If you were engaged, try just dating.  Don’t try to force your relationship back into old patterns.

Destiny

Finally, create a shared sense of destiny.  While fate certainly plays a role in our lives, we are the ones who write our life script.  Map out with your partner where you want to go.  When you do this together, you create a mission with a place for both of you.

When you want ex back, you have to work with new scenarios.  Follow the advice in this article if you want ex back.

These are just some of the tips you can use if you want ex back and if you want a complete guide then I recommend you download and read through Magic of Making Up authored by T.W.'Dub' Jackson.

Through his eBook course, he has helped many couples get back together in various countries and I'm pretty sure you'll find it useful in dealing on a broken relationship.

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To your Relationship success.

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Sunday, March 27, 2011

Howto flirt - Secrets of flirting with Men

Howto flirt - Secrets of flirting with Men

Hello ladies,

If you're interested to learn more in depth on Howto flirt - Secrets of flirting with men then you might want to check out mimi tanner books - Click here.

Below are some tips for Flirting With Men:

Don't be Passive

Flirting is usually made by men, it can be very difficult for a woman in today's world to find a partner. Some women wait for men to invite them for a date but this passive approach doesn't always work and it can take a long time, if ever, to find someone really suitable.

Other women take control of their lives and do not hesitate to flirt with men they find attractive. Although this approach may seem quite daring at first especially if you are a shy woman, anyone can master the secrets of flirting with men.

Look Your Best

The first thing to know before you flirt with men is to always look the best because you never know when and where you may start in the process of finding the love of your life. By looking your best, I mean not only wearing nice clothes and having your hair done but also living a healthy lifestyle, with regular exercise, healthy eating and sleeping a good night's sleep as often as possible; when you feel good on the inside, it shows on the outside.

Intelligent people know that a woman who can look after themselves better would also be able to take care of him. Make yourself more attractive in this way is part of the mid-work in flirting with men.

Smell Your Best


Men can't resist the hot and sexy women perfume. It'll stays with them and they'll remember you all day long. I know women who experiments with their own concocted cocktails of perfumes. You may want to experiment and ask your fellow girl friends or even guy friends to see which one they like. Most probably, the men you're after will like it too.


The Women Method of Flirting

You may feel quite squeamish at the idea of approaching a man at first, but the real secret of flirting with men is to flirt without appearing to do so. This is a completely different method than the way men flirt with women, men and women brain works differently, so for the romance to work effectively, you must adjust your approach accordingly.

There are a few techniques you can learn for this and practice makes perfect, but the big idea for flirting with men is to attract a man's attention discreetly enough so that he thinks he's the one who has noticed you and not the other way around.

In this hectic world it is increasingly difficult to find a partner, heads of the people can sometimes be focused on their careers and progress, and this makes them less likely to notice us, so we women need to start taking control of our live and learn the secrets of flirting with men if you ever get married and raise a family.

Flirting with men is not as difficult as it sounds; with the right technique and a bit of practice, you will soon meet your match. Flirting is a fun activity that should not be enjoyed only by men but by women too.

There's more to it then meets the eye and if you want to learn more in-dept techniques of flirting with men then I suggest you get the book authored by Mimi Tanner below:

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Is a Boy or a Girl - Determine Gender of Baby?

Is a Boy or a Girl - Determine Gender of Baby?

Hello guys,

Many couples are wondering if it's possible to determine gender of a baby. I encourage you to take a look at prince or princess by alicia pennington. Click here to learn more.

Here's some sample questions that you might have heard from other couples.

Examples are things like:"If I conceive in September, will I get a boy or a girl?" Or, "if I conceive before or after ovulation, does this mean I'll get a son or a daughter, or is this up in the air?"

In the following article, I will give the information that will help you to understand which things affect the gender of your baby and which just don't matter.

What Is The Number One Thing Which Affects If You'll Make A Boy Or A Girl?: If I had to boil gender determination down to only one thing and one thing only, it would be this.

If it's an X that does the trick, you may have Disney Princesses in your future. If the father-to-be is reasonably healthy, then it should have all the ingredients about the same amount of chromosomes X and Y sperm. (There is some speculation that there are more Y's in the winter and fall, but this has yet to be studied enough. ) So, you should consider this kind of chance, in which either the X or Y are in the right place at the right time, but that would be to simplify it.

The truth is, the X and Y behave in very different ways and respond very differently to different things. For example, time, and again acid is an enemy of the Y, whereas an alkaline environment, and helps later become pregnant and the Y is not that great of a scenario for the X.

It really comes down to this. The X or girl sperm are stronger and more hardy and can withstand far more (in terms of time and acidity,) but they are also a bit slower moving. Knowing that the Y or boy sperm can not live as long as the X's, if you want a son, then you will need to have intercourse as close to your ovulation day as you make it.

It's important that you have one which is very reliable as even a day or two either way can make or break this. You would want to be early rather than late. Ideally, you should shoot for 3-4 days before ovulation.

This may sound simple, but this can be more difficult to track because most ovulation predictors only give you a "positive" once the egg has already made it's trip. That is why I like saliva predictors of people who are looking for a daughter or a girl.

This type shows you what you need to know much earlier. I believe that the month or day of week, doesn't matter. It really comes down to when that egg is ready to be fertilized - whenever this may happen.

I've already discussed how a high pH is an enemy to the Y or boy sperm. If you want to conceive a boy, you want to make your pH or your acidity lower through either your diet, or douching, or both of these methods happening at once.

In other words, you will want to be more acidic than alkaline. Once you have a number, then you will want to have a plan as to how you are going to raise or lower this. It really comes down to making the consumption of foods high in pH and low for a girl to boy. Or, you can try douching as an alternative or as an addition to this.

Continue to use the strip to see if it is successful or if you are at your target level. (This may take a month or two so plan accordingly.)

How to influence sexual positions Sex Baby: Many people are aware that sexual positions have some influence on the genre, but these three variables, this makes the slightest difference.

If you aren't doing the other two, it's unlikely that this one will be enough. Simply, you want the sperm closer to the cervix for a girl and further away for a boy.

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To Attract a Man - How to Attract a Man

To Attract a Man - How to Attract a Man

Hello ladies,

As like men, I know womens who wants to learn how to attract a man. Of course, there are many books and courses on the subject matters. But, few really go in depth how to actually do that.

It isn't very often that I come across something in the world of attracting and dating men that truly impresses me, but recently I came across a dating and relationships guide that is simply outstanding.

Before telling you what it's about, I just want you to be clear on what it is NOT.

It is NOT a guide to dating or attracting men that teaches you how to dress sexy or act out of character to get you the man you want.

It does NOT encourage you to compromise your integrity or act false in any way.

Here's what it IS about...

You'll learn how to get men to WANT to be around you and give you attention beyond a one-night stand!

You'll learn:

- How attraction works for men
- How to attract the right man
- Where chemistry really comes from and how to harness it
- How to balance a career and a love life!
- The single most powerful way to start meeting more relationship-quality men
- The step by step guide to the perfect first date
- How most women scare men off
- How to transform your view of problems in a relationship

And you'll learn how to do all of these using time-tested methods and a genuine approach (rather than pickup lessons from a player!).

You'll discover that mistakes that you are probably making, such as going to bars expecting to meet the man of your dreams are communicating the wrong message to the men you actually meet.

You'll find out how to develop a winning mindset when it comes to meeting and approaching men.

It's not your fault, most other women make these same mistakes and you'll be so impressed with the changes in your dating success once you read and apply this essential course to your love
life.

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Getting Over Unrequited Love - Things I Learned from Women Who Dumped Me

Getting Over Unrequited Love - Things I Learned from Women Who Dumped Me

Hey guys,

Okay, I’ll admit, I’ve been dumped.  More than once.  More than I’d like to admit, actually.  And, while it hurt quite a bit each time, I have to say that I have grown from the experiences.  So, here are some things I've learned from women who've dumped me.

Things I’ve Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me

#1: It takes two.

Often with the pain and heartbreak of a break up, it is easy to blame the other person for your misery.  But the truth is that if the relationship was no longer working, you were part of the problem.  Evaluate what went on so that you can apply the lessons to your next relationship.

Things I’ve Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me

#2: Give women their personal space.

Women like to cuddle and snuggle.  They may seem to always be around.  But they need their personal space
too.  Men have a tendency to be possessive (I've got into trouble for being too friendly with some guys gf even though I was just joking around - idiots).

We want to keep tabs on where they’re going and what they’re doing there.  If any woman has ever cheated on you, this instinct becomes stronger.  But, trust is a key component in a relationship. When you invade her personal space, you send the message that you don’t trust your girlfriend. This can easily lead to the end of the relationship.

Things I’ve Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me

#3: You get stronger over time.

When you wake up in the morning and the hurt’s so real, you may believe that you will never get over the break up.  But the truth is that not only does time heal all pain, but you will emerge from the break up a stronger person.  As philosopher Frederick Nietzsche said, “that which doesn't kill me only makes me stronger.”

Things I've Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me

#4: It’s okay if it wasn’t meant to be.

Coming to accept that a relationship wasn't meant to be is a key factor in healing.  If you had started projecting your relationship into the future – considering marriage, thinking about children – and then the woman you were with broke everything off, consider it a blessing.  It is better to end a relationship that wasn't meant to be earlier rather than later.

I've known couples who got divorced within 6 months of getting married. Believe me, You don't want to be in that mess!

Things I’ve Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me

#5: Good things don’t happen unless you make them happen.

Finally, the last lesson I want to share with you is that you can’t control what happened, but you can control to how you react to what happened.  If you want good things to happen in the future, you have to make them
happen. That means getting back on the horse. Go out, meet new women.  Have some fun.  Eventually, you will find another relationship.

And, if you have followed the advice in this article about things I've learned from women who've dumped me, the relationship will be even better and stronger than the last one.

Want to learn more tips on getting over unrequited love or to better your broken relationships?

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Saturday, March 26, 2011

Flirting With Men Takes You From Nice to Charming

"Flirting With Men Takes You From Nice to Charming"

By Mimi Tanner, Author of Secrets of Flirting With Men

When you flirt with a man, you stay in a that man's mind - sometimes for years!

Anyone can have a conversation - but flirting shows that you really care about him, not just as a person, but as a man!

The art of flirting can take you from nice to charming.

Flirting is not just for romance. A true flirt uses almost every encounter with a man to make him feel more like a man - making him feel charmed and wanted and special. Men love it when a woman cares enough to flirt with them.

Flirting sends a man the kind of message that is vital to his sense of masculinity and his self-esteem. There are so many men who are simply starved for this kind of attention.

Why not practice your flirting on the men you consider to be "safe"?

Why not flirt with men a little more today than you did yesterday?

Start with a warm smile for everyone. That's the first step in practicing flirting. And smiling is not against the law, the last time I checked!

But what if you don't habitually flash everyone a big smile as you go about your day?

In that case, don't make sudden radical changes in your behavior. That can cause your friends and co-workers to wonder what's up with you!

The best way to incorporate a new behavior in your life is in small doses. Otherwise, you may abandon a good effort before you've even begun. Whatever you do, keep flirting with men until it becomes as easy as saying hello.

Stay with it. Just flirt a LITTLE more today than you did yesterday. Start with smiling MORE. At everyone!

If you're married, small changes are a great way to start being more flirtatious with your husband. Start with a longer kiss hello or goodbye. Start showing more happiness with the world and with him.

Little changes go a long way when you increase the amount of flirting in your life.

Flirting says, "I find you attractive - I notice that you are a man - and I am a woman!"

It's a message that will never, ever go out of style.

Remember to keep your flirt on!

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Author and Flirting Expert Mimi Tanner reveals the secrets of getting the attention and devotion of your man. Her email column "With Love, Mimi Tanner" is read by thousands of women every day. Visit her website and find out more about How To Flirt With Men. - Click here to download Flirting with Men 

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A Broken Relationship - Women Are Like Flowers

A Broken Relationship - Women Are Like Flowers

Hey guys,

Women are NOT cars that break down and need to be fixed. Women are more like flowers that need to be showered with understanding and love.

What it means: Men and women do not approach emotional upsets the same way. Men go to a space by themselves and then figure out a 'solution'. While, Women prefer to have someone listen, validate their feeling with words AND emotions.

Example:

Tom forgets to grab the milk that Michelle asks him to pick up on his way home. Michelle has had a bad day, and barks at Tom when he shows up sans milk.

Tom, thinking like a man, says he'll go get the milk after dinner and thinks that'll be the end of Michelle's anger. (the FIX)

But... During dinner he can still feel Michelle's anger. Tom returns the anger with anger and the whole 'milk situation' explodes into WWIII.

Now imagine, if when Tom returned home...(he would've looked deeper and realized this was about more than just the milk)

Michelle: Where's the milk?

Tom: Oh CRAP! I totally spaced it out!

Michelle: It figures. (angrily)

Tom: (Taking Michelle in his arms) I can't believe I forgot the milk. I've been so forgetful lately. Maybe, I'm getting old eh?

Michelle: (cooling down) It's okay. It's not a big deal.

Tom: No, it is a big deal. (cupping Michelle's face in his hands) I love you, you're just
as busy as I am and I shouldn't forget such a small request.

Michelle: (big smile) Ooooh...I've just had a bad day and felt totally unappreciated. I shouldn't be such a grump. You're so sweet.

Tom: It's okay...I was a bad boy...You can punish me later after I get the milk (gave a little wink). What happened today?

Michelle: Mmmmm...(and she tells him about her day.)

Now, I used 'milk' as a small example.

What's important to understand is that you don't HAVE to solve every problem. If your break up was over 'money', more than likely, it wasn't REALLY over 'money'.

Anymore than the argument between Tom and Michelle was about the milk.

Hope this helps.

During times of financial crisis, more families are strained than ever before. It's really important that men and women both look for the deeper emotional issues regarding money and finances in order to work through them TOGETHER.

Life is not a bed of roses and relationships sometime need more communication and understanding.

If you really love each other then you know it's not just about YOU, but about "Us". Learn more on how to improve your Relationship.

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To your Relationship success.

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I Lost Love A Broken Relationship – Every Relationship Has a Time Line

I Lost Love A Broken Relationship – Every Relationship Has a Time Line

Hey guys,

Nothing lust(last) forever ..that's my motto in life. When I think about how I lost love, I think about Alfred Lord Tennyson’s quote, “Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”

When I lost love, I felt the whole world had collapsed around me. I’m sharing my story in order to help you if you too have lost the love of your life.

I think it is important to remember that every relationship has a natural lifespan. In Junior High, that’s about four days. As we get older, the lifespan increases. But, there are certain relationships that are right for a period of time and then go awry.

Most of us will only have one great love in our lives. The other relationships will terminate. That’s why when I say I lost love, I understand that this is a natural process.

In my case, my girlfriend and I were thinking about ratcheting up our relationship. Her lease was about to end, and she wanted to move into my apartment. As we were spending most of our time there anyway, it made sense from a financial perspective. But there is something significant about having separate places.

I know I lost love because I couldn't handle her taking our relationship to this level. I guess the time span of our relationship was up because I wasn't willing to become more committed (I still have problems with commitment).

Now, I know I handled the situation badly. I went to a friend’s bachelor party and let’s just say things got out of hand. Word about the wild antics at the party got back to my girlfriend, naturally, and she dumped me. I lost love over the events of one night. But, when I think back on what really happened, the events of the bachelor party were really a reaction to our discussion of more commitment.

I seriously don’t think I would have behaved the way I did if I really wanted her to move in. I lost love because I wasn’t ready for the direction it was taking. I’m glad I had the chance to be in a relationship with my ex. But I don’t think she was the love of my life, my soul mate.

Instead, she was someone with whom I genuinely enjoyed spending time. I loved her. I still love her. But, she is not the person with whom I see spending the rest of my life. I went through a period of mourning the relationship and analyzing what went wrong.

I really was hurt when she said she wanted to end things. Sure, I understood that I had hurt her. But, I didn’t want her to leave my life completely. I guess what I wanted was for things to continue on the way they were. But, every relationship has to grow or die. Because I wasn’t willing to let it grow, it had to die.

In every relationship, there is a time to die. And, for me, this was it. That’s how I lost love.
One good things I realized about being single is, You don't have to answer to any bitch. LoL!

Anyway, if you have trouble letting go and maybe want to learn more about improving relationships or ever get your ex back then download the eBook Magic of Making Up. Relationships might just need a little common sense but I know a lot of people (including me) who can definitely learn more to have a better relationship in life.

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To your Relationship success.

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Howto get your ex back - lets's dance

Howto get your ex back - lets's dance



Howto get your ex back?

By not acting like a sobbing wussy!

Have fun and ask her out for dance or going
to the beach with friends instead.

She'll noticed how you don't seems so desperate
and this will work to your advantage.

Give her time to sort things out and realize by
having fun with you, how she missed the good
time you had together.

If not hey, at least you're still good friends
right?

If she's ready, she'll be the one looking to
get back with you!

Need more tips?

Click here to download Magic of Making Up!

To your relationship success!

P.S. Magic of Making Up is authored by T.W. Jackson
he has help many couples all over the world.
Click here to learn howto get your ex back!

Superstars Release Benefit Album For Japan Tsunami On iTunes

Superstars Release Benefit Album For Japan Tsunami On iTunes

Hey guys,

As Japan recovers from the devastating earthquake and tsunami that struck on March 11, the world’s top recording artists respond to the tragedy with this benefit album. The 38 tracks include some of their biggest hits, featuring an exclusive remix of Lady GaGa’s “Born This Way,” Katy Perry’s “Thinking of You,” Bruno Mars’ “Talking to the Moon,” Adele’s “Make You Feel My Love," and more.

All proceeds go to the Japanese Red Cross.

Click here to get the Superstars Release Benefit Album For Japan Tsunami on iTunes.

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Friday, March 25, 2011

What A Wonderful World by Angelica (live)

What A Wonderful World by Angelica (live)




http://iamangelica.com/

Ahh ..it's a wonderful world with the beautiful Angelica.

Have a listen!

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Enjoy!

How to Win Love Back With Common Sense - Tips on Getting an Ex Back

How to Win Love Back With Common Sense - Tips on Getting an Ex Back

Hey guys,

How to win love back is a topic that I want to talk about today.

Too many people do this all wrong. They think that they must aggressively pursue their ex in order to get him or her back. In fact, nothing could be further from the truth.

If you want to know how to win love back, follow the advice in this article as closely as possible.

Do Not Chase Your Ex

The first thing you need to know in the how to win love back arena is that you do not want to chase your ex. Too many guys think they must pursue their ex’s. They send hundreds of texts, call at odd hours of the day, and even stalk their ex girlfriend’s home. They send flowers and gifts.

This is wrong, wrong, wrong because it makes you look desperate. Women like Alpha males, not sniveling guys they think are jokes. When you appear desperate, your ex girlfriend will start playing head games with you.

She’ll let you come over, and then invite a new guy over too. She’ll pretend she’s interested only to go off in another direction. And, the more you fall into this trap, the more games she’ll play. This is not the answer to how to win love back.

Instead of chasing her and being desperate, you need to play games with her that make her come crawling to you.

When you are in a group that includes her, flirt with every girl but her. If she has an enemy in the group, pay special attention to that girl. By ignoring your ex, you make her want to come back to you. You are reminding her of all of your charms, but not applying them to her.

It’s a good idea to go out on a date with one of her close friends. Send your ex a text message saying “now that we’re just friends, I wanted your opinion on something. Where should I take Mary to dinner after the big game?” That is sure to make your ex girlfriend jealous and it’s one of the tricks for how to win love back.

You Should Be Happy

Even if you don’t want to play head games with your ex, there is one thing that you can do that may help you in the how to win love back arena. That is, you should be happy.

Girls like to date happy guys. If you work on you rather than focus on her, you have a much better chance getting her back.

Go work out at the gym. Hang with your buddies. Get involved in a hobby you never had time for when you were dating her. Go out on dates. Even if you have to fake being happy initially, you will soon realize that you really are happy.

This way, whether you get the girl back or you move on, you will be a happier person. And, that is my advice for how to win love back.

These are some of the tips that I have personally used myself in getting my ex back so if you're wondering if it works then now you know. Of course, what works for me may not work for you as sometime it depends on your own specific relationships and situations.

In any case, you can find out more on Magic of Making Up eBook course and you can download it from the link below:

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To your Relationship success.

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Thursday, March 24, 2011

josh groban you raise me up

josh groban you raise me up



Hey guys, thought I'll share this.

For some inspiration aye?

Having relationship problems?

Then check out Magic of Making Up by T.W.Jackson

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Remember, when you fall down, the only thing you can
do is stand up again.

To your relationship success.

How Get Your Ex Back is Possible - What To Do When Shes Dumped You

How Get Your Ex Back  is Possible - What To Do When Shes Dumped You

Hey guys,

Howto get your ex back?  This is the lament of every guy who has ever been dumped.  Did you know that in three quarters of break ups, it is the girl who calls the whole thing off?  Guys generally want to stay together with their girlfriends. This article is about how to get ex back.

Blessing In Disguise

First of all, you have to determine whether she did you a favor by dumping you. Too often, guys stick with girls out of inertia. It is easier to stay in an okay relationship than go out and look for a really good one. If you don’t feel that the girl who dumped you was your soul mate, consider that her calling things off might be a blessing in disguise. If this is not the case and you still want get your ex back, read on.

Does She Loves You

The next step is to determine whether she loves you. Girls can be fickle.  They are much more likely to act impulsively and then have regrets about what they did.  If you think she still loves you, you have a good chance at howto get your ex back.

Make Her Come To You

In this case, you have to make her come to you. Many guys call their ex’s numerous times, send hundreds of texts, and exhibit other such stalkerish behavior. This just pushes their girlfriends away. Instead, act as seem like you are accepting the break up. Move on.  Date other girls – especially girls in her circle. That's how get your ex back is possible.

Analyze

During this time, you should analyze whether you have changed from the man she first fell in love with. Often, guys try to impress girls up front.  But, once they have slipped into a comfortable relationship with their girlfriend, they slag off.

For instance, are you still working out as often as you did?  Toward the end, were you still opening her car door, buying her flowers, and generally romancing her the way you did at the beginning of the relationship?

Common Bonds

These things can make a big difference in how you get your ex back. When you do see your ex girlfriend, subtly remind her of your common bonds.  If you are going to go to a party where you know she’s going to be, wear a shirt she gave you.  If she has a favorite cologne, wear it.  And, when you talk, bring up the positive things in your past.  Don’t beat her over the head with them, but make her nostalgic about your common history.

Get Social

Invite her to non-committal type of events.  If a group of friends are going to the beach, ask her to come along. Begin seeing her in social settings once again. When she comes along, pay some attention to her, but spend your time with your friends and other girls too. When she sees that you are an attractive catch, you've already won half the battle of how get your ex back.

So, that is some of the tips on how get your ex back is possible. If you want to learn more tips then check out the eBook course Magic of Making Up by T.W. Jackson. You will also get his personal email if you have any questions on the technique inside his book.

His book has help thousands of couple all over the world and if you want to learn how to save a broken relationship, how get your ex back is possible then go get it. But, you'll have to act fast and don't do anything else before you learn the techniques inside the book or you might jeopardize your chances to bring ex back.

Click here to download Magic of Making Up

To your Relationship Success.

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Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Is a Boy or a Girl - Can You Really Choose Your Baby Gender?

Is a Boy or a Girl - Can You Really Choose Your Baby's Gender?

Hey guys,

Is a boy or a girl? Does it really matters?

Since, I can remember every Father want a son and every Mother wants a daughter. But, can you really choose?

Determining Baby Gender

Gender selection of children is a controversial topic, particularly in terms of genetic therapy and the ethics of picking the sex of your child. While there certainly have been advances in the field of genetics, there are actually some natural and completely ethical things that you can do that will increase the likelihood of selecting a gender for your child.

While no method is 100% accurate, if you are determined to have a boy or a girl, there are a few things that can be done to significantly increase your chances of conceiving the gender of your choice. Remember, the most important thing is to have a healthy baby, regardless of their gender. But if you do want to try to pick the gender of your child, it is possible.

Here's some information what you need to know.

1. Differences in Sperm

The sperm that carry the Y chromosome are the "boy" sperms, while the ones that carry the X chromosome are the "girl" sperms. The Y sperm are faster, smaller, more agile but they do not last as long as the "girl" sperm. The X sperm are bigger and move quite slowly. In addition to their overall speed, they have different preferences in terms of the acidity of the vagina and cervix. An X sperm does better in an acidic environment while the Y sperm prefer an alkaline environment.

2. How These Differences Affect Conception

Now that we have established the differences between the sperm that carry different chromosomes, it is important to understand how these differences can be used for natural gender selection.

Once you have this information, you can begin trying to conceive a child that will be a specific gender.

1. If You Want A Boy

If you want to have a boy, the timing is crucial. Since these sperm do not live long, it is vital to time your intercourse as closely to ovulation as possible. This gives the Y sperm time to reach the egg before the X sperm do, increasing the chances that you will have a boy.

2. If You Want A Girl

If you want to have a girl, you need to give the X sperm plenty of time to reach the egg. Since they live longer, this means that you want to time intercourse a few days before expected ovulation.

By the time you ovulate, the Y sperm will have already died off, leaving only the X sperm behind. They will have the time needed to travel up through the cervix to reach the egg and fertilize it.

If you want to know more on determining baby gender then check out the eBook course "Prince or Princess" by Alicia Pennington.

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Is a boy or a girl? It's your choice now!

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How to Get Over Guy - 5 Steps for Moving On After A Broken Relationship

How to Get Over Guy - 5 Steps for Moving On After A Broken Relationship

Hello ladies,

How to get over someone you love?

Are you having trouble get over the guy? Whether he dumped you or you broke up with him, letting go of someone who you had a close relationship is very difficult. There is a space in your heart as well as a space in your life that are not quickly filled with anything or anyone else. Yet, people do get over a relationship.

Here are five steps to get over guy you still like.

STEP 1: Let out the hurt

First, you need to let out the hurt. Know that it is okay to cry when you are trying to get over the guy. Some people keep a journal of their experiences because writing about the pain helps.

One thing that I have seen some people do that is very effective is to write a long letter about the relationship to their ex boyfriend. Talk about the good times and bad. Talk about the relationship and how he hurt you. Let it all out. When you have finished the letter, burn it.

That’s right. Don't even think about sending it to your ex. Instead, let flames consume the letter. That provides excellent closure to the relationship.

STEP 2: Decide the Relationship is Over

Next, you have to decide that the relationship is really over. If you hold on to the thought that he will change and come back to you, you will never get over this guy and move on.

Do something that symbolizes the finality of the end of the relationship. A good example of this is to exchange all of the personal property that you have of the others. Don't even keep the over sized t-shirt of his that is so comfortable for sleeping in. And, if there are things too minor to exchange (like a toothbrush), throw them away. Clear your place of all of his things. It is a way of clearing him from your life.

STEP 3: Girlfriends are Forever

You need to depend on your friends through this time. Until you meet your husband, guys will come and go, but your girlfriends are forever.

If you have been in a hot and heavy relationship, you may have inadvertently ignored your friends for a time. Not only will your girls help you get over guy, but reconnecting will be good for your social life. Also, your girlfriends will have had similar experiences to your break up. Sharing their pain will help you understand that, however bad the hurt you are experiencing, others have survived and you will too.

STEP 4: Use Time Productively

You will probably have extra time on your hands now that you have broken up. You used to spend a lot of time with your ex. Use this time productively to get over guy. Go to the gym and get your body in shape. Take up a new hobby.

One of the best things you can do during this period is to join a group or a class. Not only does a class take up the time you would have spent with your ex, but it also introduces you to a new circle of friends.

STEP 5: Move on

And, that brings me to my last point, when you want to get over guy, the best thing you can do is move on. Between your old friends, the new friends you make in your class or hobby, and the activities you do to fill up your time, you will emerge as a new person.

Moving on is the best way to get over guy.

These are the 5 steps you can take for getting over someone you love and moving on after a broken relationship.

I recommend you download Magic of Making Up to learn more what you can do to get over guy you love. Maybe, use the knowledge inside it to improve on your future relationships.

Click here to download Magic of Making Up

It's an eBook authored by T.W.Jackson and through his eBook course has help couples all over the world with their broken relationships.

It might do you good to read up on it.

To your relationship success.

P.S. Don't forget to download and read through Magic of Making Up. You might still have a chance to get your ex back. Click here to download the Magic of Making Up

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Britney Spears - Oops!...I Did It Again

Britney Spears - Oops!...I Did It Again



Hey guys,

Oops, she did it again?

Maybe, you didn't do enough in the first place
to retain the relationship?

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Learn how to keep your Women!

Get Your Guy Back – A Magic of Making Up Gals Guide to Making Up

Get Your Guy Back – A Magic of Making Up Gals Guide to Making Up

Hello ladies,

Howto get your ex back? How do you get guy back? How do you convince him that what the two of you had together was special? This is your “get guy back” gal’s guide to making up.

First of all, you have to recognize that whatever happened, you were both at fault. If you cheated, he wasn’t giving you what you needed so you looked elsewhere. If he cheated, you were the one not giving what he needed. Yes, the cheater is morally culpable for the cheating.

The moral responsibility does not lie with the person who was cheated upon. But the fault lies in both party’s laps. Given that, it is important to forgive and forget. True forgiveness means that you let go of all of the anger related to the incident. You never bring it up again. You never let it cloud your relationship. If you cannot do this, you won’t get guy back for any period of time.

If you were the person at fault, apologize – and mean it. Too many times, after people say “I’m sorry,” there’s an “Oops I did it again,” moment. You’re not Britney Spears. It’s not cute. When you say you are sorry, you have to commit to changing. Otherwise, you don’t mean it and you won’t get guy back.

Be prepared to chase him a little bit. This doesn't mean sending him hundreds of text messages or stalking him, but you have got to show him that you are still interested if you want to get guy back. You can’t expect him to come running back just because you have sent out some modest signals that you are ready to re-start the relationship.

Put your ego in check and put your heart on the line. You may have to settle for something less than you wanted. It may be that he is only ready to be friends when you want a full fledged boyfriend. It may take time to rebuild relationship and the trust.

If this is the case, you need to give him the space he needs to get to know you again. Accept that you have to take what he is offering right now if you want to eventually get guy back.

You have to know when to give up on the get guy back strategy. Sometimes, you just have to move on. If your boyfriend is unable to forgive you, you are in a position where the best thing you can do is move on and enter into new relationships. While this will break your heart right now, it may be the best thing that could have happened to you. Whatever went wrong in this relationship, your soul mate is still out there.

Get guy back may stop you from meeting him!

The most important thing is to take baby steps to get you from Break Up to make up.

What it means: Often guys and gals try to take too big a step when trying to patch things up with their ex. They want their ex to 'take them back' or 'forgive them' all at ONCE.

These are HUGE leaps.

What is effective in the re-bonding process is itty bitty steps. Grabbing coffee together is a much smaller step than 'getting back together'...and even smaller than 'going on a date'.

Still...Grabbing coffee may still be too big a step, might try starting with a smaller step?

In fact, many times, taking a step 'back' is the best course of action.

Here's a video that explains how.

Click here to watch the video and download Magic of Making Up

To your relationship success.

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Monday, March 21, 2011

Much Ado About Nothing Part 1

Much Ado About Nothing Part 1



Thought, sharing this vid with you guys.

Click here for info about this story on Wikipedia.

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Howto: Get Your Ex Back - Tips and Techniques to Get Ex Boyfriend Back

Howto: Get Your Ex Back - Tips and Techniques to Get Ex Boyfriend Back

Hello ladies,

Want to learn howto get your ex back? Wanna learn how to save a broken relationship?

Do you want to get ex boyfriend back? Are you reeling from his desire to call the relationship quits? Do you have an empty place in your heart – and in your life – where he used to be? Here are some tips and techniques to get ex boyfriend back.

First of all, whatever you do, don’t chase him. This means lay off the texts, the phone calls, and the stalking. Don’t just show up where he happens to be. This stalking behavior will just turn him off. He’s got to want to come back to you, not the other way around. That’s the only way to get ex boyfriend back.

Instead of pursuing him, start to work on you. In order to get ex boyfriend back, you need to become a more positive person. You probably have many negative emotions right now including loss and hurt. You need to purge these feelings and get back on a positive note.

One way to do this is to write a long letter to your boyfriend talking about all of the good times you had, all of the hurts you experienced, and all of the things you wished you had told him. Once you have poured your heart out on paper, burn the letter. That’s right. Whatever you do, DON’T SEND THE LETTER. Instead, light a match and watch the flame consume the paper. This will give you some closure to that portion of the relationship.

After you have burned the letter, eliminate all negativity from your life. Don’t let your girlfriends talk badly about your ex. And, to the extent possible, be positive about your whole life.

When you do think about the relationship, remember what made it strong. Think about the good times you had. If you do occasionally talk to your ex, bring up the positive experiences and avoid fighting about the issues that ended it. If you want to get ex boyfriend back, you have to remind him what was good about the relationship.

To this end, focus your energy working on your strengths. For instance, if your boyfriend always praised you on being a good cook, take a gourmet cooking class. Get even better at the things you are good at.

But don’t neglect your weaknesses either. If your ex complained about how you were a slob, start picking things around the house. Make an effort to become a better person if you want to get ex boyfriend back.

Finally, you should be available – to him and others. If someone asks you out on a date, accept it. You don’t have to be head over heals in love with a guy to go out to dinner with him. As your ex sees you as a desirable catch, he’s going to want to get back into your life. By focusing on the positive and working on your strengths and weaknesses, you are sure to get ex boyfriend back.

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Sunday, March 20, 2011

Zatoichi - 05 - On The Road (part 9)

Zatoichi - 05 - On The Road (part 9)



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Dealing With Break Up - Causes Break Up Pain

Dealing With Break Up - Causes Break Up Pain

Hey guys,

Dealing with break up pain, any way that you look at it, is not going to be an easy or enjoyable task. A lot of people incorrectly believe that they will be able to manage their heartbreak, only to find out that carrying a torch for someone after a love affair is a lot like grieving, at least if you look at the relationship as having passed on.

When it comes to dealing with a broken intimate relationship, it is important that you look past the pain and find a way to survive even when things seem impossible for the time being.

Relationship breakup puts a lot of people through fear and misery. Some of the people going through these feelings have no one in the world to turn to, and this is why people suffer so hard from heartbreak in the first place.

Dealing with break up pain all by yourself can seem impossible at first, but consider how many
people deal with love and loss in their lives and survive to talk about it. You too will be able to get over what feels like a crippling break up, but only if you are willing to deal with heartbreak pain the right way, and the healthy way for that matter.

So why is the pain from a lost love break up so difficult? Because when dealing with a break up, it will seem as if you are the only one who has suffered the kind of pain you’re going through. It is important that you continue to try to heal rather than allowing yourself to give up on the situation.

Dwelling on the painful split from your lover will not help you, so instead you should work on getting better and moving on, which will allow you to stop dealing with break up pain and start dealing with moving on and finding someone new, perhaps even someone that has a better dynamic with you.

Here's some of the things you can do in dealing with break up:

* Spend time with your friends and let them help you get your mind off your heartbreak.

* Don't dwell on the bad feelings, but focus on the good parts of your life in order to promote healing.

Your friends will probably realize that you're going through something serious, and they will more than likely dedicate themselves to trying to help you through it. If this is the case, don't blow them off, because going out and spending time with your friends and the people that you care about will be extremely helpful when it comes to dealing with break up pain.

Everyone goes through a period where they are dealing with break up pain, because everyone goes through a breakup. Rather than allow yourself to suffer while dealing with breaking up pain, what you should do is enjoy yourself and work on healing rather than allowing yourself to become
stressed out, overwhelmed or depressed by your heartbreak.

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Saturday, March 19, 2011

Can I Save My Marriage – 4 Tips to Save Your Marriage

Can I Save My Marriage – 4 Tips to Save Your Marriage

Hello guys,

Yes, I know( my parent divorced when I was 9). It is depressing to see many marriages that are in turmoil, and it is especially disconcerting to see them end up as messy divorces, so you may ask how can I save my marriage?

Filing for divorce is not the solution for when a marriage has hit its pushing limits. There are a number of solutions that require that both partners to be fully committed in saving the relationship that they have.

The first step is counseling, which enables the couple to have a mediator in dealing with their issues. In addition to professional services, there are a number of different things that can be done to save a marriage, it is not a complicated process and does not require much outside of both parties working towards the common goal.

Below are four things that you can take to heart and utilize to "save my marriage" and improve the odds of successfully avoiding divorce.

1. Perfect Marriage is A Myth

First, know that the perfect marriage is a myth. Whenever two people are brought together, there will be problems, including the few that can grow into deal breakers in your marriage. This is a natural result of bringing two people together. Even perfect twins differ in likes and dislikes.

For the marriage to succeed, the couple must learn to deal with the rough patches and overcome their problems. Seeking perfection will only destroy everything. People make mistakes, to err are human. Work with your partner and overcome the problems you face, and you'll realize it is possible to "save my marriage."

2. Good Communication is Vital

Second, good communication is vital, for when the communication is insufficient; the marriage is doomed to face problems. The most vital thing is to be honest with your partner. Just about every issue and problem can be solved if communication is maintained.

3. Compromise

The third tip is to accept compromise. Many have made this an art, with good reason. The middle ground that will enable a conclusion to the conflict has to mesh with both parties and their interests before it can "save my marriage."

Marriage on a whole is about compromise and knowing that there are times when your spouse will have to give and times when you have to give in order to "save my marriage."

4. Commitment

Really, a marriage is about commitment, the fourth tip. Like a car, if it breaks down, you don't abandon the car on the side of the road. The only time you do get rid of the car is when there is no hope. Saving your marriage involves the same level of commitment and working towards making things work, if you ever have a chance to "save my marriage."

Sometimes, the damage to the marriage totals it, and no matter what you do, nothing can change it. Some issues cannot be solved, counseling cannot help. It is in these cases that divorce makes sense. Outside of these cases, divorce is not the answer. Instead, you should work with your partner to solve the issues that plague your marriage, and hopefully you will be able to say that you can "save my marriage."

It's really up to YOU, if you want to save your marriage. If you think your marriage is worth the effort and you pretty much have a willing partner then go for it.

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Friday, March 18, 2011

Taking Steps To Get Girl Back with Magic of Making Up system

Taking Steps To Get Girl Back with Magic of Making Up system

Hey guys,

Here's some steps you can take to get your girl back using the Magic of Making Up system.

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When you’ve broken up with someone you care about you have a hard time thinking of anything but how to get girl back. If you truly want this to happen, you’ll probably have to make some changes. Whatever happened to cause the break up should be looked at. Was it something you did, or didn’t do? Is it something that you can still fix, or is it too late?

Apologize

If it was something you did or didn’t do and you can fix it now, then fix it. Undo something, or do something you should have done already. Apologize and make amends. This alone might not get your girl back, but it’s the first step on the path to getting her back. If whatever happened can’t be fixed, then at the very least make sure she knows that you’re sorry and that you'd change what happened if you could.

Make her WANT You back

Now that you’ve moved past what caused the break up, the next step to get girl back is to make her want you back. That sounds like common sense, but so many people don’t do it. If the relationship ended with her angry, then you have to show her the you that makes her happy again.

You’re going to have to be especially patient and forgiving. Be as sweet as you can possibly be when you talk to her or see her. Even if you’re angry at the time or you feel far from happy, at least show her the most pleasant side of yourself you can. Make her remember your good qualities and what she liked about you when you were happy.

If she feels you have truly apologized for what caused the break up and she sees your sweet side again, you might be able to get girl back.

Pay Close Attention and Listen

All of us should train ourselves to listen more and talk less. You'll see and learn more that way. It’s important to pay close attention when you see or talk to her. Listen carefully and don’t interrupt. Let her express herself without jumping in and telling her how she ought to feel or what she ought to do. You won’t get girl back by trying to boss her around!

You also need to pay close attention to see if your efforts are having an effect. Sometimes you can see that she’s softening to you. She talks nicer when she sees you, and you have been seeing her more often. Maybe she even seeks you out more often than she did before. Or she seeks you out now after ignoring you for a long time. Your efforts to get girl back are working!

Because she’s so impressed with how sweet you are, she wants to be around you more. And that only reminds her why she wanted to be with you in the first place. Pay careful attention also if you suddenly stop seeing her as much as before, or she becomes distant or angry talking when you see her. That’s a good sign that you’re pushing and she’s uncomfortable. Take a break and you’ll have a better chance to get girl back.

Sending a HANDWRITTEN letter

What's different and stands out: In a world of text messages, IMs and email...sending a HANDWRITTEN letter to your ex is MUCH more emotional and effective than sending 4 screens full of text message.

What it means: One of the most powerful things you can do to create a vacuum and have your ex possibly pursue you...is to AGREE with a break up in a hand written note. BE CAREFUL! What you say in the note and how you say it can have positive or negative effects.

For an outline of what to put in your note watch the video here.

These are some of the steps you can take to get girl back using the Magic of Making Up system and if you want to learn more howto get your ex back, to get girl back and also improve your relationship as a whole then definitely you should check it out.

What I like about the Magic of Making Up system is that it's really easy and you will see for yourself that most of it is common sense and having been through breakup myself, the information is really priceless.

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Pie Jesu by Angelica (live)

Pie Jesu by Angelica (live)



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Thursday, March 17, 2011

Affair in Marriage - Can a Marriage Really Heal After Infidelity?

Affair in Marriage - Can a Marriage Really Heal After Infidelity?

Hey guys,

Can you really heal and rebuild a marriage?

There will be healing that needs to be done together along with the healing of each individual. It can also bring back the intimate connection into your marriage.

One thing for sure,  if the affair is still going on or there is still any kind of contact even if it's not sexual there will be NO healing. The best way to do this is to have the wayward spouse send a certified no contact letter in their own handwriting to the affair partner.

An agreement must be made between them that all contact must end between the wayward spouse and the affair partner and it must be permanent. This MUST be done for there to be any healing in the marriage. Every time the agreement has been broken the wayward spouse must tell the betrayed spouse about it as soon as possible.

This will build some trust back up in your marriage if this is done every time. And, in this way everything that needs to be said can be with no interruptions and without adding or saying anything you don't want said. That's what you are clearly trying to avoid.

The wayward spouse should also state how much they have hurt you and how they are going to spend the rest of their life making it up to them.

If the wayward spouse does this just for his/her spouse and continues contact with the Affair Partner, then the Affair Partner won't take the No Contact Letter seriously.

So, the Wayward Spouse must stand firm and continually tell the Affair Partner how much he still loves his wife and wants to work on their marriage.

After the Wayward Spouse has finished the No Contact Letter, the Betrayed Spouse should read it, if it wasn't written together.

Here is an example of a "No Contact Letter":

Dear [put name here],

The relationship I had with you was thoughtless and cruel.

I am committed to my marriage and determined to make up for all the hurt I've caused my family.

Because of the terrible offense to my spouse and the damage I have done to our marriage, I am permanently ending all contact with you.

Please also respect my wish that you not attempt to contact me in any way at any time.

Sincerely,

[name here]


Wayward Spouse's are usually afraid to say and tell all, as they don't want to cause great pain for their spouse. What some Wayward Spouse's don't realize is that lying and lying by omission just causes more pain and trauma in the Betrayed Spouse making it feel like your both back to square one.

They have to know that they will not be attacked when disclosing any information. This is why it's a good idea, when first starting out with this and emotions are running very high, to do this in front of a counselor or marriage coach.

When full disclosure of the affair doesn't happen the trust and respect one for the other just never materializes. The affair will always be a wedge in the middle of their marriage. It has been found that not fully disclosing the affair details to the Betrayed Spouse that the Wayward Spouse stays emotionally attached to the Affair Partner. There is a much higher percent of the affair continuing or another affair happening later on.

It actually causes more damage to the Betrayed Spouse to find out bits of information later on, on their own. I believe that it needs to be written down on paper. The Betrayed Spouse should be able to ask questions and the Wayward Spouse should answer them with kindness and patience.

If you think you are going to explode with anger or be very upset, then STOP and walk away until you can begin again. The Betrayed Spouse did not make them do it (having the affair). That is the choice of the person getting involved in the affair and has nothing to do with what the Betrayed Spouse did or didn't do.

Now, the Betrayed Spouse should be responsible for some of the problems in the marriage and for taking it upon themselves to fix their parts in the breakdown of the marriage. This sometimes can be a very hard thing to actually believe. So, there are some things that should be done right away in repairing your marriage.

The big thing is to be totally honest with one another. Also, don't attack each other for how the other is feeling. Hide nothing!! Be an open book, both of you!

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Moore, OK

"...we are starting over with a clean slate"

I have been working for a long time trying to rebuild trust with my husband after his affair. He felt that just because he was sorry and wanted to work it out that I should IMMEDIATELY trust him again and stopped talking about the affair.

However I still had questions that were haunting me and could not move forward. Once he read your section on how to rebuild the trust, he understood more about what I needed from him!

It is amazing that some of the things mentioned in your section are exactly what I wanted to happen. Of course when I said it, he didn't give much thought to it but I guess seeing it in writing from an actual author made it real.

After reading just this one section and understanding what I needed from him my husband agreed to answer ANY question in regards to his affair that I had. Believe me it wasn't easy for either one of us to actually have to tell the truth about what happened on his part and for me to hear it.

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Cary, NY

"you made us more understanding, open and empathetic to each other."

"Dr. Gunzburg, you helped to restore the trust in my relationship by letting my spouse and myself both know what we were feeling and going through.

We learned that what we are feeling and going through is okay and part of the healing process and you also taught us what the other person is feeling and you made us more understanding, open and empathetic to each other.

You gave me hope to not to give up when we hit a rough patch, but to continue what we were doing and just keep communicating until that rough patch passed, which they do more easily and quickly now."

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Baltimore, MD

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