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Showing posts with label advice about love. Show all posts
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Sunday, September 8, 2013

Why Doesn't He Love Me Anymore - Wanna know why?

Why Doesn't He Love Me Anymore - Wanna know why?

Hello ladies,

If you're asking yourself, "Why doesn't he love me anymore?" Then, you might want to read through this article to found out some of the reasons why. Much of the problem is pretty obvious, but because we didn't think much about it, we deem it un-important. The fact of the matter is, sometime, smaller things do have impact on our life. Continue, reading below if you want to save your relationship before it's too late!

It takes time to fall in love -- and to fall out of it.

The feeling of falling out of love isn't a pleasant one by any stretch of the imagination -- especially when you're on the receiving end. You're left to wonder what went wrong, whether it was your fault, and if there's anything you can do to change things. The good news for you is that most people don't simply turn love on and off like a light switch. It takes time to fall in love -- and to fall out of it. That means he probably isn't quite there yet. And a little bit of love is all you need as a foundation upon which you can build a once in a lifetime kind of love.

But, knowing that doesn't fix the problem in your relationship. What you need is a plan of action that's sure to SOLVE the problem.

Your immediate problem is that he isn't FEELING the love right now. The solution is simple. You need to make him feel the love again. Of course, from where you sit, reading this, it doesn't seem all that simple. Consider making these moves to see what a difference they make in how he feels about you.

1) Start Dressing to Impress

While the best relationships aren't based on looks alone, it never hurts for your man to see you making an effort to look good for him. Wear the clothes he likes to see you wearing, fix up your hair, apply a few strategic cosmetics, etc. You may even consider professional waxing services.

These moves won't necessarily have him feeling the love for you again, but they will certainly get his attention. Once you have his attention, it's time to make your next move.

2) Change the Way YOU Show Your Love for Him

Men and women express love and feel loved in different ways. While stereotypes aren't always helpful, it does help to understand that there are fundamental differences. Men feel and show love through physical acts. Not all of them are sexual. Sometimes, it's little things like making sure the oil is changed in your car or mowing the lawn week after week. At other times it is more personal, such as a protective hand on your back in public, a steadying arm as you climb steps together, or intimate acts that are the ultimate expression of love for the average man.

Women express love differently. The expressions are often verbal or service oriented. Taking care of the household, preparing meals, and other domestic tasks are prime examples. Women are also much more likely to use words to express your love. If you want him to feel love you must watch the words you use at all times. Words that criticize, confront, or disrespect tear down the love he's building while words that edify, respect, and show deep admiration and loyalty build up the love. Physical acts, such as touching and other acts of service are also excellent choices because they show him YOUR love in HIS language.

Keep these things in mind and you'll never need to ask, "Why doesn't he love me anymore?" again. He'll be feeling the love and showing you more than a little love in return. If you would like to read more tips on how to save your relationship or marriage, then I recommend that you download and read through the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help saved many relationships around the world and it's full of tips you can use right now!

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To your relationship success.

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Thursday, August 29, 2013

How do I Make Him Fall Back in Love with Me? Try this tips!

How do I Make Him Fall Back in Love with Me? Try this tips!

Hello ladies,

How do i make him fall back in love with me? You might be asking this very question right now. Would you like to know the answers or tips you can use right now? Continue reading below then.

Did you know?

Relationships often go in cycles. Sometimes things are up and it all seems like smooth sailing. At other times, you drift apart and the waters are choppy and sharks seem to be circling. Sometimes you break up. Other times your relationship simply limps along. That loving feeling you used to have together feels like it's gone for good. But, what if you could get it back? What steps do you need to take to make him fall back in love with YOU?

Treat Yourself Like the Lady You Are

Sometimes you forget to treat yourself like a lady. You forget that you need a little pampering. You need to feed your soul. More importantly, you need to take care of yourself -- physically. You need to eat right, exercise, take care of your skin, get a new hair cut, etc. You need to feel good about the reflection you see in the mirror. You need to do all the things a lady does to feel like someone who deserves to have doors opened for her as well as other acts of chivalry. Once you start treating yourself like a lady, chances are he's going to notice and start treating you like a lady too.

Remember that this is about making YOU happy. Make changes that matter to you -- that will help you feel better about yourself and more confident. Some of the changes you might consider include:

• Diet/Weight loss
• Fitness
• Makeover
• Wardrobe update
• Spa treatment
• New hair style
• Manicure
• Pedicure
• Teeth whitening

The changes do not have to be drastic in order to have a drastic impact on your self-confidence and outlook on the world around you. Nor, do they need to be major overhauls to get him to take notice. The main take away from this, however, is not that he won't love you if you're imperfect. It is that it is easier for him to fall back in love with you if you aren't busy tearing yourself down for perceived flaws instead.

Fall in Love with the Woman You Are

While it's always good to strive for improvement, it's also important that you love yourself for the woman you are. He will find it much easier to love you all over again if you love yourself as well. I'm not suggesting that you become a woman who is self absorbed or self obsessed. Only that you accept yourself for who you are and find peace with that. Embrace your strengths. Work to change your weaknesses, but don't punish yourself for being human. All of us are. Once you learn to love yourself, you'll be a much happier, person he's likely to find irresistible.

You don't have to move mountains or make miracles to win back his love. Love may ebb and flow over time but it takes a while to go away completely. The odds are in your favor that if he's loved you before, you can easily win back his love once you learn to love yourself too.

These are some of the tips you can use and try if you're asking yourself, "How do i make him fall back in love with me." If you would like to read up more tips, you might want to download and read through the book, Magic of Making Up by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together and it's full of practical tips you can use immediately. Check it out right now!


To your relationship success.

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Saturday, July 20, 2013

The Chaplins - I Want To Know What Love Is (cover)

The Chaplins - I Want To Know What Love Is (cover)



Hey guys,

Jill Jackson, now with a new band, 'The Chaplins' performing live, "I want to know what love is". A great song and a great cover. I really love this version by Jill. Check it out!

As always, if you're looking for a good book to read on relationships, then I recommend you get a copy of the book, "Magic of Making Up", by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world with their relationships and it's full of practical tips you can use if you download right now!

Click here to download Magic of Making Up.

To your relationships success.

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Sunday, June 30, 2013

New Advice Tips To Get My Girlfriend Back - They Work

New Advice Tips To Get My Girlfriend Back - They Work

Hey guys,

Looking for new advice tips to get your girlfriend back? You might want to read through this article before you tried anything that might jeopardize your chances of getting your ex back. Continue reading below..

Chances are if you are reading this article you are in pain and you are suffering.  Many guys need to find some new advice tips to get their girlfriend back, and even though it may seem impossible and it may be a challenge, many guys succeed at getting their girls back every single day.

Advice Tip #1: Live Your Life

Some of the best things you can do may seem deceptively simple and you may be inclined to ignore them, but don't. They really can help. One of those things is to live your life with a positive attitude every single day.

It is easy to lose sight of the good things in your life when you are in emotional misery, but don't let it take over your life. If you do you will not only be even more miserable but to be honest, you won't be someone that your girl will want to be around. Oh, the irony of it?

Advice Tip #2: Find Solutions

If you give in to your misery you may actually just push her away more. A better and more productive tact is to focus on finding solutions to the problems that plagued your relationship.

Advice Tip #3: State Of Denial

This may not be easy. The bigger of a jerk you were, the less likely you are going to want to face up to that fact.  But if you don't, if you stay in a state of denial about the things you did wrong, you will never make things better and you might as well ignore this new advice tips to get my girlfriend back because it won't work anyway.

Advice Tip #4: Need For Change

Your relationship is over because something went wrong. If changes are not made than those things will just continue to go wrong or your ex simply won't want to go through the pain and get back with you.

Advice Tip #5: Be Honest

If it is hard for you to be honest with yourself ask your friends for their opinion, or better yet ask your exes friends. That is probably the most honest opinion you will get and it can be a real eye opener.

Advice Tip #6: Accept The Fact

Of course, if you just fly off the handle and get mad if you hear something you don't like not only will you have ruined any chance you may have had to get back with your girl, but you probably shouldn't even try.

If your first response is denial and anger do your girl a favor and leave her alone. Let her find a guy who is mature enough to face up to his flaws and who is willing to fix them. Harsh, but true.

If you were the one who dumped her and you now regret it, it may actually be harder to work things out. If you tell her you were wrong she may be happy to hear it and take you back with open arms. But she may also be really pissed at all the pain you put her through and may not trust you again.

Whatever situation led to your breakup, this is some good new advice tips to get my girlfriend back and if you follow it you have an excellent chance of being back with your girl in no time.

I recommend that you download the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together and build a better relationship. A useful book full of practical tips you can use. Grab your copy right now!

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To your relationship success.

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Sunday, June 23, 2013

Does Your Boyfriend Really Love You - 4 Quick Tips

Does Your Boyfriend Really Love You - 4 Quick Tips

Hello ladies,

Let me ask you a few quick questions - Do you ever have doubts about your relationship and wonder if your boyfriend really loves you?

If so, then there is some degree of uncertainty in your relationship.  You are not the only girl in the world to wonder this, in fact it is quite common for girls to feel uncertain at some point in a relationship and boys aren't always the best at getting across the right messages.

A lot of girls feel great when they are with their boyfriend and they feel like everything is as it should be, but then when they are apart they begin to worry.  If they haven't called you when they said they would then you might take that as a sign that he doesn't really love you, when in actual fact he may have been busy or something came up that prevented him from calling. When you begin to have doubts you can become obsessed with wondering if everything is OK and if your boyfriend really loves you.

Men and women are very different in the way they show emotions and feelings and sometimes it can be difficult to read a man and know what he is feeling or thinking.  So it isn't always easy to answer the question 'does he really love me' by the way he acts.  There are signs though that you can look out for that might help you to understand his feelings and love for you.

Let's see what some of those signs are below:

1. Does he look at you when you are having a conversation?  When you are talking to him look into his eyes and see if he is looking back into yours.  If he does look at you while you are talking and isn't forever being distracted, then this is a good sign that he is serious about you.

2. Does he make time for you, particularly if you are having any problems or are upset?  Will he cancel other plans to be with you if you really need him?  If so, then you can be sure that he really cares about you.

3. Does he discuss his personal issues with you?  If he is having any problems and feels comfortable enough to talk to you about them then this shows that he respects you and regards you as a moral support person.  Even though he will ultimately work his problems out on his own, he will be thankful for your input and suggestions.

4. Does he buy you a gift on your birthday?  Does he remember your birthday?  Actually, many men don't remember those special days, but if he does then that is a great sign that he really does love you.  He doesn't need to buy you expensive gifts, but the fact that he remembers and does something special for you is a sign of his love.

The above signs are great signs for answering that question 'does my boyfriend really love me'.  If you have any doubts then take a step back and stop and notice these little things.  These signs may be small things but they are the things that matter most.

Remember, not all men are good at expressing their love and if you're boyfriend is one of these men; it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you; it just means he has a hard time expressing it.  So try to notice the signs and hopefully they will help to get rid of any doubts you have.

If you're interested to learn more about relationships and learn practical steps of getting that passions back, then I recommend that you download and read through the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have helped many couples around the world build a better relationships and it's a good book to have handy when the going get's tough. Grab your copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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Sunday, May 26, 2013

Im Still In Love But My Ex Is Not - Help Me

Im Still In Love But My Ex Is Not - Help Me

Hey guys,

Are you telling yourself, "I'm still in love but my ex is not?" What should or can you do about it? If you're still wondering, you might want to read through the article below to find out the answers.

You're Not Alone

There was a time when the two of you were so much in love. Everything seemed to be going great, but then you split apart. Maybe both of you were glad to be rid of one another, or maybe you wanted to stay together. Whatever the case may be, all you know is that right now you're saying, "I'm still in love but my ex isn't." If so, then there is no need to feel alone. Lots of people have been in the same situation. And some of those same people worked things out and have figured out ways to make you feel better if you're in the same situation.

Are You Still In Love

You should know that it's okay to want to work things out with your ex, but don't just dive into it head first. Before you do anything else, you need to get to the root of your feelings. Do you really love your ex, or is it just the idea of being in love? How did they make you feel when you were together? Are you trying to change them, or are you willing to love for who they really are? You have to be honest when answering these questions. If you happen to find you don't love your ex as much as you thought, that's okay.

Do They Still Love You

The other thing you have to try to figure out is if your ex may have any feelings for you at all. While you may be saying, "I'm still in love but my ex isn't" there isn't any way to know that for sure. Even if your ex said they don't love when you broke up, there is always a chance that they have changed their minds. Granted, their feelings may not be as deep as yours, but any hint that they still care can be taken as a positive sign.

Nothing Is Impossible

On the other hand, the questions you are asking may only strengthen your suspicions. If that's the case, then you have a choice to make. You have to decide if you're willing to do whatever it takes to get your ex to love you again. That may sound like an impossible task, but it can be done if you go about it the right way.

What You Can Do

Whatever you do, don't try to convince your ex to love you. for now, you need to give them some time and space to be alone. After all, they say absence makes the heart grow fonder for a reason. Don't contact them for a while; no phone calls, no emails or text messages, and no bumping into them "accidentally". The secret isn't to make them love you, but to let them convince themselves to love you again. Giving them time is only the first step. You should also look into other ways of patching things up. That way "I'm still in love but my ex isn't" will soon turn into "I'm still in love and so is my ex."

These are some of the tips you can follow if you're still in love with your ex and you want to get your ex back. I recommend that you download and read through the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson before you do anything else that might jeopardize your chance of getting back together with your ex. Get your copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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Sunday, March 17, 2013

I Lost Love - Wait - Dont Give Up Yet


I Lost Love - Wait - Dont Give Up Yet

Hey guys,

When the reality hits and you find yourself saying "I lost love" it can hit you like a ton of bricks. I know when you come to that realization it can feel like life simply is not worth living anymore and it may seem like you will never feel happiness again. I think most of us have been at that point before. But wait, ever heard of the saying, "It ain't over till the fat lady start to sing?"

Don't give up yet! No matter how impossible it may seem that you will be happy again, you can be. I am not saying that it will be easy or that you won't go through a lot of pain... you will. I am just saying that you can find love and happiness again and the better you deal with your breakup the faster you may recover from it.

I am not an expert but I have been through it before and I may be able to offer you a little advice.  Here are some ideas I have used myself to help me get over my pain as quickly as possible. Some of my ideas may just help you.

1.  Give yourself as much time as you need. I remember that once I heard someone say that you should allow yourself to grief over your lost love for one week for every year the two of you were together. Personally, I think that is the dumbest thing I have ever heard.

There is no formula for determining how long it will take you to feel like you have moved on and can be happy again. Everyone is different and every relationship is different. For the most part, it will take as long as it takes.

I do have to say one thing though, if you find that you simply don't seem to be bouncing back even a little bit after several months, you may be suffering from depression and you may need a little extra help to get back to your old self. If that is the case, find a counselor who can help you out, you don't need to suffer unnecessarily.

2. While you are healing, be kind to yourself. Allow yourself to enjoy the things that made you feel good before (as long as they are positive things).  If you used to enjoy hanging out with your friends, than hang out with your friends.

If you used to enjoy working out then workout.  Just spend your time and energy engaging in positive things that make you feel good about yourself and life in general.

If you forget about your pain for a little while than that is just a bonus.

3. If you have been planning on doing something such as take a class or go on vacation, do it now. It may be just the thing you need to keep your mind active. While it will take you as long as it takes you to move on, there is no one to say that you have to stay inside your home dwelling on your pain the whole time.

Most of us have, or will, say the words "I lost love" at some point in our lives. It is a rotten thing to go through, but how we handle it can help determine how soon we will be able to move on and find love again. I just hope before you find love again, you would have healed from your lost love and can start afresh again. Because, you don't want to bring extra baggage to a new relationship as it might affect the new one.

These are some of the tips you can follow when you're saying to yourself, "I lost love". If you're looking for more in-depth reading on broken relationships then I recommend that you download the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples with their broken relationships and it's full of practical tips you can use. Heck, i'm using some of the tips myself. So, grab your copy right now!

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To your relationship success.

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Sunday, January 20, 2013

Can I Get My Ex To Love Me Again - Ever Consider This


Can I Get My Ex To Love Me Again - Ever Consider This

Hey guys,

Are you asking yourself the question: Can I get my ex to love me again? I don't want to diminish the hurt and anguish you're going through, but I wish I had a penny for every time I've heard someone ask that question. You see, it's not an uncommon problem. Sometimes we are the ones who end a relationship and then later realize that it was a mistake to let them go. Other times, it's out of our hands and someone we love has let us go. Either way, you can make things work out and have your love back with you, no matter how impossible or hopeless it may seem now.

Does She Still Love You

There is one thing you really need to consider, and that is that it's very, very likely that your ex does still love you.  Love can be killed. If you treat someone bad enough, long enough the love they had for you will turn to disdain. But, in a lot of cases, that don't involve out and out abuse, but rather just a slow deterioration of the relationship where you both start to take each other for granted, the love is very likely still alive and well even though it's buried and you can't see it.

Reignite The Passion

It's in these times that it's usually the easiest to fan those flames and reignite the passion and love the two of you once felt.  If you lost your love because you were abusive (physically, mentally, emotionally, or sexually) do both of you a favor and don't even consider rekindling things with your ex, or finding someone new, until you've spent some serious time with a counselor who can help you figure out why you have the need to hurt another person, especially someone who loves you.

If In Doubt, Ask

If the problems aren't quite that serious and dire, the first thing you should do is to find out what your ex does feel for you.  The best way to do that is to ask. Call your ex and invite them to coffee, dinner, lunch, a walk, etc. The point is try to find an enjoyable activity that the two of you can do together that will allow you to talk.

Keep It Casual

This 'date' doesn't have to be a big deal, as a matter of fact, you're probably going to want to keep things pretty casual at this point. Just have fun. Remind your ex of what a great, fun loving person you are. They probably haven't seen that side of you for quite some time. It's hard to be happy and carefree when your relationship is on the rocks. Remind them.

The Responds

Pay attention to the way your ex responds to these glimpses of the 'old you'. Do they seem interested and engaged?  If so, it's a pretty good bet that the love is still there. Do they seem indifferent and like they can't wait to get out of there? If that's the case it might just be too late and you may have to be ready to walk away.

If you and your ex have a great time, ask them if they'd like to get together again. Still keep things light and casual. Don't move too fast. Just keep reminding them, by actions and not words, of the person they fell in love with. This will basically allow the two of you to start all over and that is the answer to your question: can I get my ex to love me again?

These are some of the tips you can use if you're asking, can i get my ex to love me again. It might take some time but it's worth a try. I recommend that you download and read through the book, Magic of Making Up by T.W. Jackson.

His book have helped many couples around the world get back together and reignite the passion back in the relationships. Why wait, grab a copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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Sunday, January 13, 2013

Will She Love Me Again - Much Easier Than You Think


Will She Love Me Again - Much Easier Than You Think

Hey guys,

If you're missing your woman and thinking of wanting her back then you might want to read this article. Some quick tips before you embark on a plan to get an ex back. Read on..

Does She Still Love You

Lost your girl? Want to know "will she love me again"? I don't know, but I do know that in many cases it's not only possible to get your love back it may even be easier than you might have thought. One thing you need to consider: are you sure that she doesn't still love you? It's highly possible that she still has feelings for you but because of one thing or another she just doesn't feel comfortable showing them.

Love isn't that easy to kill. It generally either takes a lot of time or something really bad to kill a strong, deep love. Unless you've really been a jerk to your girl by treating her bad, hurting her physically or emotionally or cheating on her, there's a very good chance that she still cares and all you have to do is to remind her of that fact.

Get Help

If you treated her like crap you should seriously consider talking to someone and getting help. If you cheated on her or abused her you need to face the fact that there is something wrong... with  you. Take some time to get the help you need so that you can be a decent human being. Not only will your girl be more likely to get back with you, but she will be happy she gets back with you instead of regretting her decision to take you back.

Treat Her Right

If your love has just faded because of neglect, as opposed to out right abuse, it's generally a lot easier to get it back. In many cases all that needs to be done is to spend some quality, one on one time together. This doesn't necessarily mean sexually either. A woman needs to feel like you love and appreciate her as a person, not just someone you like to fool around with.

Balance In Relationship

A healthy sex life is great, and most people (men and women) would consider it a very important part of a good relationship, but there are other ways to connect with your girl and you have to make sure you achieve balance in your relationship. Balance your sexual intimacy with your emotional intimacy (a lot of guys seem to really not get this, make sure you're not one of them).

Quality Time

Spend time doing things that are enjoyable to both of you. Things where you can not only connect with each other but also communicate with each other. Taking a nice long drive in the country where you can talk, taking a walk, playing a round of golf. Whatever. It doesn't matter what it is as long as the two of you both like to do it and you will both have a chance to talk and be 'together'. This isn't the time for group activities.

Spending time together like this is a great way to let her remember the love she once felt for you, a love that is probably still there but it just got a little buried. Don't make the mistake of thinking these times only have to be a few times a year (think birthdays and Valentines day). The two of you should spend this one on one time together at least a few times a month, if not more.

So, for those guys out there who want to know "will she love me again", just realize that it is very possible to not only get back what you've lost but to make things better than they ever were before. Man up, follow this advice and you'll make both of you very happy.

These are some of the tips you can follow if you're asking yourself, "Will she love me again". If  you would like more tips then I recommend that you download the book, Magic of Making Up by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world mend their broken relationships. Grab your copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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Give her some sweetness today!

Sunday, September 23, 2012

Want To Learn How To Win Love Back

Want To Learn How To Win Love Back

Hey guys,

Want to learn how to win love back?

Even though there are several different methods out there to win love back, it's still important to start with basics. Two things that are vital to successfully repairing a broken relationship are confidence and a game plan. All relationships have their own sets of ups and downs, and each one has different challenges.

As a result, a slightly different set of solutions will be needed to make things right again, but that doesn't mean you have to try to do it alone. Sure, some of the advice you get may not apply directly to your situation, but the trick is to use whatever you can in a way that works best for you. There are no one size fits all solutions, and having a good grasp of the basics will help you get back together with your ex.

Your friends and family may have excellent advice based on their past experiences. That's the problem. It's always based on their past experiences, not yours. Every relationship has slightly different dynamics, and no two people are alike. So, be gracious, and remember that they are only trying to help. Use whatever advice applies to your situation, and don't worry about the rest. With that in mind, here are some of the basics you can use to rebuild your relationship.
 
Take Some Time Off

Your first reaction to a break up may be to talk to your ex into getting back together with you. Wait! Not so fast! First, you both need some time to relax and come to terms with what has really happened. If you act too quickly, and your ex isn't ready, then you will be doing more harm than good. Second, you don't want to come across as being desperate. By calling constantly, even with the best of intentions, you will appear needy and desperate. Doing these things won't make your ex interested in getting back with you, and may only serve to push them farther away.

Honesty

Another one of the basics is honesty. You have to be honest with yourself and your ex if you want to have a serious chance to win love back. Not only is it the right thing to do, but it's smart, too. You should assume you will be getting back together, and therefore it's only logical that you wouldn't want to build your new and improved relationship on lies.
 
Review The Relationship

The next part of the game plan is to review what went wrong. Be sure to get below the surface. You need to get to the root of the problem. Once you have a good idea of what really went wrong, you will be able to make it better. You will also be in a better position to avoid making the same mistakes again.

As the old song says, you need to "accentuate the positive". Now, that doesn't mean you should live in an imaginary world where nothing bad ever happens; that would be foolish. However, you should try to see the best qualities in your ex and give them the benefit of the doubt. By focusing on the things you love about them, you will be nurturing that love and help it to grow. What better way can there be to win love back?

These are some of the  basics you need to know if you want to learn how to win your love back. If you would like to learn more tips, then I recommend that you download the book "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples in 75 countries with their troubled relationships and it's a good book to have by your side in the fight to win your love back.

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To your relationship success.

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Sunday, July 8, 2012

Can I Get My Ex To Love Me Again - The 4 People To Ask


Can I Get My Ex To Love Me Again - The 4 People To Ask

Hey guys,

"Can I get my ex to love me again?" It can be difficult to get over a relationship that has ended. While it is difficult for those who have ended the relationship, it is even more difficult for those who did not want to see the relationship come to an end. The love is still there for that person, and they constantly question whether or not the love could still be there for the other party.

Those who still feel love toward the ended relationship will often wonder, "can I get my ex to love me again", as the true feelings of their ex may be unknown. This question can be incredibly difficult to answer without the right frame of mind. If you want to know whether or not you can get your ex to love you again you need to understand the situation. While you may not want to talk to your ex about the possibility of reconciliation, there are four groups of people that you should talk to.

Your Friends and Family

If you want to get your ex to love you again you need to talk to your friends and family. They will be able to give you the encouragement that you need to be successful. This process can be emotionally straining and draining; your support system will help you to get through it.

Your Closest Ex

If you are close to one of your exes talk to them about your actions in your relationship with them. They may be able to highlight the things that turned them off, helping you to make the changes that you need to make to win your latest ex back.

His Friends

If you are close to any of your ex's friends you should talk to them about your desire to win your ex back. They may want the two of you to get back together and may be willing to help you out by talking to him about the situation.

His Family

The same can be said for any family members that you are close to. They may want to see the two of you back together and may be willing to help you out.

If you want to win your ex back you need to understand how they feel. The best way to gauge the situation is to talk to the people that know them best. With that being said, you also need to understand how you should approach the situation. You need to talk to the people who know you best to understand what you may have done to cause the end of the relationship, and what you need to change in order to get them back into your arms. If you are asking yourself, "can I get my ex to love me again", you need to talk to these four groups of people.

Obviously, these are just the first few steps you can take if you're asking, "can i get my ex to love me again". If you like to learn more on how to get your ex back then I suggest before you do anything else to download and read through "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together. Get your copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Chris Rock - Love & Relationships

Chris Rock - Love & Relationships



Hey guys,

Here's some tips on relationships by Chris Rock!

Check out the youtube video if you haven't yet seen it. LoL!

If you're really serious about maintaining your relationship or getting that lost passion back then you might be interested in downloading "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson instead.

His book have help many couples around the world with their relationships.

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Enjoy the video and to your relationship success!

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Sunday, April 22, 2012

Does My Boyfriend Really Love Me - 5 Actions to Look For


Does My Boyfriend Really Love Me - 5 Actions to Look For

Hello ladies,

It can be hard to fully understand the emotions of your partner. While you may try to get into their mind, you may still struggle to understand how they feel. You may find yourself asking, 'Does my boyfriend really love me?' Each relationship will have different signs and signals that will answer this question. With that being said, there are five different actions that may show that your boyfriend loves you.

He Does the Small Things

People tend to focus about the larger aspects of relationships. They often fail to look at the smaller aspects of their relationship. This is unfortunate, as most of the tell-tale signs of love can be found in the small things. Does your boyfriend work to make you smile? Is he extra-corny just to make you laugh? Is he making you dinner, or letting you pick the movie? All of these small things show that your boyfriend is looking out for your feelings and emotions, and that he does have strong emotions for you.

He's Talking about the Future

One of the biggest indicators of love is any talk that discusses the future. If he is talking about future dates, or future actions, you can know that he sees you in his future. Whether it be the immediate future, or a distant future, you can be sure that he loves you or at the very least cares deeply for you.

He's Taking you Out

Does your boyfriend take you out to dinner, or out on the town? If your boyfriend likes to entertain you, he has strong emotions for you that could be love.

He's Showing you Off to Friends

Your boyfriend would not show you off to his friends if he did not love you. Is your boyfriend inviting you to hang out with his friends? Does he constantly talk to his friends about you? These are clear signs that he values your relationship.

He Wants you to Meet the Family

One of the biggest steps in a relationship is the step that introduces you to your boyfriends family. Most men will not introduce a partner to their family unless they see potential in the relationship. If your boyfriend did not see this future, he would not introduce you to parents, brothers, or sisters. If he wants you to meet the family, you can be sure that he loves you.

Your boyfriend may not be the best at verbalizing his love for you. If he does struggle to vocalize his feelings, look at his actions. If you notice that his actions signify a deep emotion, you can know that your boyfriend loves you. If you find yourself asking 'Does my boyfriend really love me?', simply look for these few actions. If you notice one or more of these actions, you can be sure that your boyfriend loves you or cares deeply for you.

For more tips on building a better relationship with your love ones then I recommend that you download and read through the book "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples in their relationships and it's definitely a handy guide book to have.

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To your relationship success.

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Sunday, April 8, 2012

Free Help Getting Back An Ex Boyfriend Can Be Better than What Mom Said


Free Help Getting Back An Ex Boyfriend Can Be Better than What Mom Said

Hello ladies,

Are you looking for free help getting back an ex boyfriend? Sometimes relying on the advice of family and friends isn't the ideal solution. Although they are often well-meaning, they may not be telling you what you really need to hear. So it can help to get the opinion of someone else who is an expert in relationships or even just someone who is impartial to your personal situation.

You can find a lot of free help getting back an ex boyfriend on the internet. Some of this is in forums or other online venues where girls or women like you share their stories on how they won back their guy. Some can be in the form of more official and professional advice. Either way, you will find that many people will advise you to take a step back from the relationship for a while. Getting back your ex boyfriend can become all-consuming but you shouldn't let it be.

Why? Well, if for nothing else, because the more obsessed you are with getting your boyfriend back, the more reluctant he will be to come back to you. It's just human nature. If you have made it loud and clear that your only objective is to win him back, you're no longer appealing in his eyes.

Instead, you need to keep busy and do not contact your ex boyfriend. What you need to be doing is trying to improve yourself both on the inside and out. Now that you are single, you have more time to pamper yourself and you may even have more money to spend on yourself. In other words, enjoy your new found freedom and take advantage of it to the fullest.

First of all, make sure that you are eating a healthy, balanced diet which is good for your body, your skin and your overall appearance. If you've slacked off on physical activity because of your current state of mind, it's time to start exercising once again. You may want to get a workout buddy to make sure that you stick to your routine.

Even if you are not in the mood to go out with friends or family, force yourself to do so. But don't get carried away don't stay out too late every night. Your beauty sleep is just as, if not more, important than healthy foods and exercise. When you are well-rested you will tend to see everything in a better light.

This phase may take some time and you will most likely take two steps forward and one step back as you go along. This is normal so don't worry if you have some bad days. But make sure that you maintain your pact with yourself: no contact with your ex.

Once you start to feel and look better, you will even be in a position to ask yourself whether you really want to get your ex back. If so, then you are ready for the next step in this free help getting back an ex boyfriend.

Since, you have more free time now, might as well you get a copy of "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together after a breakup.

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To your relationship success.

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Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Love Relationship Advice For Valentine Couples


Love Relationship Advice For Valentine Couples

Hey guys,

For most people, it's pretty easy to find love.  The challenge often seems to be to be able to make it last.  Keeping your love for each other strong is not impossible.  You just have to understand why it falls apart and make sure you, and your partner, avoid those traps.  That's where love relationship advice comes in handy.

With the advent of online dating sites there are more ways than ever to meet 'the one'.  It's a much better method than cruising the bar scene looking for someone special.  For most couples the first few months is pretty easy.  You are falling in love and you think the other person is perfect.  You can see no wrong in them or what they do.  And maybe there isn't anything wrong with the way they, or you, act in the early stages of a relationship. We call this the honeymoon period.

They say that familiarity breeds contempt and if that's true it would go a long way to explaining why the longer a relationship goes on the more it tends to break down. It's because we began to become lazy and take our partner for granted.

Here is a list of some of the things you, and your partner, need to be on the lookout for in your relationship.  These are common traps that many couples fall into without realizing it.  If you know what to watch out for and can avoid these mistakes you will have a much better chance of keeping your relationship strong and healthy for a long time:

1. Unrealistic expectations.  As I said above we think our new love can do no wrong.  As our relationship slowly changes from falling in love to being in love and all the day to day stresses and mundane tasks we must face, it's easy to lose some of that early 'glow'.  This can be a pivotal time in many relationships, sometimes the couple will think that they just don't love each other anymore and break up.

In reality, in any long term relationship, you will spend a much longer time in this 'normal' mode than you will in the early 'glow' mode.  It's important to recognize that this is all a normal progression in an adult relationship. Try to spice things up once in awhile and do something new together that both of you will enjoy.

2. Inability to effectively communicate.  Men and women express themselves differently...that's just the way it is.  The good news is that you can learn to communicate with your partner effectively, if you're willing to take some time to learn how. The whole 'it's a guy thing' or 'it's a girl thing' is only true to a point, and is largely just a cop out.  In reality any mature, intelligent adult should be able to learn how to talk to their partner, and even more importantly, listen to their partner.  The real question is do you care enough about your partner and the relationship to take the time?

3.  Don't confuse sex with love.  This may sound obvious but men and women tend to look at sex in different ways.  Women, for example, tend to look at sex as a way to connect with someone they love on a deeper physical level.  Yes, it's pleasurable, but the pleasure isn't just physical it's emotional as well.

Men tend to look at sex as definition of who they are as a man.  For them too, it's pleasurable but it's also a way to prove their desirability and masculinity.  Sometimes when a relationship gets to the 'comfortable' stage this difference in views about sex can create problems.  If one partner doesn't seem sexually interested in the other partner it can create severe stress on the relationship.

If your relationship gets to this point, it might help if you and your partner can remember that sex is only one small component of every thing your relationship is made up of.  While for many couples, having an active sex life is an important part of the relationship, it's important to understand that as you age and your relationship grows, it probably won't be  quite as important as it once was. That doesn't mean your partner doesn't love you or find you attractive, it's just a fairly common way for long term relationships to go.

I hope this love relationship advice will help you hold on to the love you've found.  Being able to make a deep, long lasting, connection with another person really is one of life's blessings.  Make your connection last by learning how to avoid the pitfalls of some relationships.

For more tips and strategies to a long and successful relationships, I recommend that you download the book by T.W. Jackson "Magic of Making Up". His book have help many couples around the world build a better relationship and you'll find many useful tips inside. Grab your copy today.

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To your relationship success.

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Sunday, January 22, 2012

Help Me I Want Him To Love Me Again


Help Me I Want Him To Love Me Again

Hey guys,

"I want him to love me again" is expressed by many women all over the world, in different languages, environments and situations. Some married women find themselves saying those exact words to close friends or family members when they're not feeling the intimacy that was once an everyday part of their marriage.

Some women have been on the bad end of a breakup or divorce and desire nothing more than the return of their man and his love. And some women were the instigators of the broken relationship, citing the loss of love as a reason or possibly rethinking their decision and hoping to return to the way things were. Whatever the situation, the sentiment is heartfelt but the solutions not always easy or clear cut.

If you're trying to win back your guy's love, one thing you need to understand is what men look for in a relationship and whether or not this was missing in yours. So, what are the things that men need? Above all, men crave admiration. So you need to let him know that he's wanted and admired.

While it may be obvious for you, it probably won't be as much so or enough to him, so when in doubt, go overboard with flirtation and affection. Did you get comfortable (lazy) in the relationship and tend to dress casually most of the time and forget about make-up and sexy clothes? Or even worse, did you dress up for work but stay in sweats and tennis shoes at home?

Most of the time we took for granted what we have and when it's lost we wonder why. So, don't take your relationship for granted.

Did your boyfriend or husband leave you for another woman? Most women mistakenly think their man has found a better looking women. That's not usually the case. In fact, when and if you end up meeting the "other" women who happens to be pretty normal looking, the typical reaction is to think. . ."what does he see in her"?  It's most likely not just what he sees in her but what he feels in her. She makes him feel respected, admired and wanted again. In short, she makes him happy.

Are you still in your relationship and constantly being accused of being a nag by your partner? This isn't anything new, right? You’ll often hear men complain about being “nagged to death.”

What they're really saying is that they want their wife or girlfriend to be satisfied with who he is and what good qualities he has to offer. Realize that the nagging isn't the real problem – it’s the fact that you are conveying that you're unsatisfied with who he is and what he has to offer. That's what really gets to a man and drives him out of a relationship.

Don't take this to mean that you have to be lovey-dovey all the time and can never express your true feelings, anger or sadness. But when you are proud of your man, make sure he knows it! Don't just show the negative feelings that come up and take the love and admiration for granted. Keeping this in mind will keep the fire of his love alive.

This information should help you if you're in the mindset of "I want him to love me again."

For more tips and strategies to make your man love you again then I recommend that you download the book "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. Many couples all over the world have got back together and put passions back into their relationship through his book. Get your copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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Saturday, January 21, 2012

Can I Get My Ex To Love Me Again - Yes


Can I Get My Ex To Love Me Again - Yes

Hey guys,

So you're now single or with someone new. . .but you can't get your ex out of your mind. You're always thinking "How can I get my ex to love me again. . ." And then you probably push the thought away because it seems impossible. The good news is that you can get your ex back in your arms. It has been done before, and not infrequently, and it can be done again, by you.

Men and women get out of relationships for different reasons, many of which are not understood by the opposite sex because men's and women's brains are wired differently. This makes things even more confusing. Some situations seem to be pretty straight-forward but most aren't.

So before we tackle your goal of getting your ex back, let's take a look at why he or she isn't around in the first place.

Why do men leave relationships? It's pretty simple, really. They leave when they aren't getting what they need. And one sure thing that they need is admiration and respect. It might be for that reason that they they left . . .and maybe they found it somewhere else. One of the most common reasons men give for leaving their wife or girlfriend is “No matter what I did, I couldn’t make her happy!”

Sound familiar guys?

Why do women leave relationships? They leave because they feel unappreciated and/or they leave because they are bored. What do you commonly hear from unhappy women? “He doesn’t appreciate a thing I do!”

Now, you might think that your ex's reasons for leaving don't fit into one of those categories. You may be thinking, "my husband left me because I cheated on him." But why did you cheat on him in the first place? It probably has something to do with the fact that you weren't getting the attention and appreciation you needed. Or maybe you're thinking. . .although that's not an excuse. Or maybe you're thinking "My girlfriend left me because I was never around." But ask yourself, why were you never around?

Now that you're not in continuous contact with your ex, you can take time to look at things more objectively. Use this time constructively to list all the positive and negative factors in your relationship. In the meantime, make sure you take care of yourself, eat healthy foods and exercise when possible.

Then, after you've had time to concentrate on yourself and look at your relationship with more objective eyes, you can think about making that first contact with your ex. Ask him or her out for coffee in a nonchalant manner. If he or she says yes, go out, talk about light non-threatening subjects and keep it short. At the end of the date, don't re-schedule another unless your ex suggests it. So, in answer to your question "Can I get my ex to love me again?" Yes, you can!

The date may go well, the date may go ok or the date may go terribly. In the last case, you'll need to re-evaluate your situation and see if you want to continue trying later on or if you need to think about moving on.

But if the date goes well, you will see how the answer to "Can I Get My Ex to Love Me Again?" is "Yes, I can!"

For more tips and strategies to get your ex to love you again then I recommend that you download and read through the book "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together again. Learn how to get back your ex and stay together. Get your copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Do YOU Really Want To Get Back Together With Ex? Then Listen To Him


Do YOU Really Want To Get Back Together With Ex? Then Listen To Him

Hello ladies,

Kristi was devastated.  She wanted to get back together with ex boyfriend Chad.  Chad had told her that he needed some “space.”  Chad said that he still cared for her but didn’t want to date exclusively any more.

What should Kristi do to get back together with ex Chad?  Should she call him and text him?  Should she show up and flirt with his friends?  Should she ignore him completely?

Actually, she should do none of these.  Instead, she should listen to him.

He says that he loves her but that he needs space.  While this may seem like a cliché, the truth is that many times when people use this line they mean what they say.

Sometimes a relationship just gets ahead of a person.  They may not be ready for the responsibilities a relationship carries.  But that doesn’t mean that they don’t love their ex.  In fact, they may love him or her too much and want to take a step back.

Given that this is the case, let’s take a look at what disasterous things can happen if you handle the situation badly.

For instance, if Kristi were to endlessly pursue Chad with calls, emails and texts, she wouldn’t be giving him the space he needed to get his head on straight.  Letters, gifts, and singing songs under his window late at night would have the same effect.

One of Kristi’s friends suggested that she start flirting with all of Chad’s friends to make him jealous in an attempt to get back together with ex.  This is a common recommendation because it is assumed that men will want what other men have.  The problem is that by playing games now, Kristi would be jeopardizing her relationship in the future.  And, there is a strong likelihood that Chad would just be angry at Kristi and push her even further away.

Another option Kristi considered was just ignoring him altogether.  In some ways, because she was so hurt by Chad’s rejection, she wanted to punish him in turn.

But, if she is open and receptive but not pushy when they meet each other in social situations that are not contrived, she shows him what a wonderful woman and wonderful human being she is.  She becomes someone that he wants to spend time with.  She has allowed him to see her at her best.

Kristi has a number of options if she wants to get back together with ex.  But, her best option is simply to listen to Chad.  He’s said he needs space.  So, she should give it to him.  She should let him have the opportunity to decide whether to get back together.

My guess is that Chad will come back to Kristi and he’ll be ready to take the relationship to the next level.  If Kristi plays her cards right, she will have a stronger relationship overall.

That’s how to get ex back in a healthy way.

These are some of the tips you can use to get back together with your ex. If you're interested to read more and learn more tips on improving your relationship with men then download and read through "Magic of Making Up" authored by T.W. Jackson. His book have help many couples around the world get back together. Get the passions back into your relationship!

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To your relationship success.

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Thursday, September 8, 2011

Howto: Win Love Back Allow Your Ex Time Space


Howto: Win Love Back  Allow Your Ex Time  Space

Hey guys,

Do you want to win love back?  The key is allowing your ex to have a little bit of time to figure out what they want from the relationship.  Tim and Rhonda learned this from Tim’s friend Joe.

Rhonda stormed out of Tim’s apartment one day saying she never wanted to see him again.  Tim was stunned.  All he could think about was how to win love back.

He called his buddy Joe and asked whether he should send flowers or candy.

“Neither,” Joe said.  “And don’t call, email, or text her either.”

Tim was stunned by this advice.  He wanted to win love back right away before Rhonda had a chance to “look around” and find someone better.

But Joe told Tim that giving Rhonda the space to “look around” was just what she needed.  There was a small chance that she would go forever, but the probability was that she would settle down and come back to him.  She must come to the conclusion that their relationship was special on her own terms.

Further, Joe advised, it would be bad if Tim looked too desperate.  This gave Rhonda the upper hand in many ways.  It would lead to further grand gestures in the future.  If he wanted to get the relationship back on track, Tim needed to give Rhonda space.

Tim and Rhonda both had a lot invested in the relationship.  They had been together 18 months and had even talked about marriage.  This was why it was such a blow to Tim when Rhonda walked out.

But Tim took Joe’s advice, as painful as it was, and waited for Rhonda to call.  It took her four days, but she finally contacted him.

The first thing she wanted to know was “why didn’t you call me?”  He told her “I was waiting for you to call.  I knew you needed space.”

He was right, and she knew it.  She actually appreciated the fact that he hadn’t called.  She knew that he had found a way to win love back.

As they talked about where their relationship had been and how to get it back on track, they discovered that one of the problems was that they had been crowding one another.  The thought of getting married had been suffocating.

So, they decided to back off.  They would still see each other exclusively, but they would make more time for friends and solo activities.  They wouldn’t talk about marriage again for six months.

Tim restrained himself from pursuing Rhonda when she needed space.  This allowed her to reevaluate her relationship with him on her own terms.

She initially thought that he would call her all the time.  She was actually surprised that he didn’t.  But, because he refrained from contacting her, she was able to see what her life was like without him in it.  And, it wasn’t as pleasant as she had imagined it would be.

So, if you’re determined to win love back, keep in mind that sometime what is needed is a little space. And, if you want more tips on how to improve your relationship further then I suggest you download and read through "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson. The method he teach in the book is a little unconventional but what's important is it works. Just look at some of the testimonials on his site written by those who tried it.

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To your relationship success.

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Sunday, August 21, 2011

How 2 get your ex back - A Heartbroken Poem To Bring You Back Together

How 2 get your ex back - A Heartbroken Poem To Bring You Back Together

Hey guys,

If you've written a heartbroken poem because you're separated from your loved one, it could be something that can bring you back together. Writing poetry is a good way to deal with a break up. And if you write a really touching heartbroken poem, you might impress your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend with how much you really care.

You probably shouldn't write the poem the moment you break up and within an hour rush it over to them to read. A heartbroken poem, to be genuine, is something that will probably take at least a little time to write.

You aren’t going to want to just jot down anything that comes to your mind and start reading it out loud to your ex. Something like that will feel false and forced. You want this to be genuine if it's going to help you get back together.

You don't have to be a great poet to write a heartfelt poem that can move your ex and make them see things in a different light. So if you've never written a poem before in your life, don’t worry.

It's not that hard to write a heartbroken poem once you decide to do it and you get started. The hardest part is getting started, though, so you have to make yourself do that. Then it will probably start to flow more naturally.

First, just think about how you feel. Of course you'll feel things like sadness or hurt. But if you can compare that to something else rather than just say you're sad or hurt, it makes a more powerful poem. Likening a flooding rain to all the tears you've cried is better than just saying "I've cried a lot."

Comparing tears to rain is a little cliché, but it gives you the general idea of how you should use metaphors to make the writing better and more meaningful. In the poem, tell your ex what's different about your life without them, and how you'd like to have them back. You can list the reasons, as long as they're valid ones that your ex might want to hear.

If you've not written much or any poetry, then don't worry about rhyming. Modern poetry rarely rhymes unless it's for comic effect. Just write kind of like you speak, but with metaphor and words that bring up a mental picture as you read.

You can also be very honest in the poem in a way that might make you uncomfortable in a conversation. Especially if you won't be there when your ex reads the poem, it's easier to say things you might worry about saying in person, because there can't be an immediate rejection. So say what you want to say.

It might not be easy to write something like that to give to your ex. You might worry that they'll think it's silly. But you'll always know that you tried. Even if your heartbroken poem doesn’t change anything, at least you fought for what you wanted. You'll be able to move on easier too.