Put the Sizzle Back into Your Relationship - Learn the magic!

Put the Sizzle Back into Your Relationship - Learn the magic!

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Love is literally like a drug, it's euphoric. In the beginning stages of falling in love, our brains release chemicals that make us feel so good that there are really no words to describe it.

However, in the same way a drug addict develops a tolerance over time, that squishy love feeling starts to fade as well. Eventually, the hot fire of love starts to burn down to a barely glowing ember.

What happened to the spark? Where's the sizzle you felt so strongly in the beginning? It's still there, you just need to stoke the fire.

What should you do when the butterflies in your stomach stop fluttering? All couples reach a point where their relationship starts to get "comfortable" and the fire starts to cool. Although you may feel as if you're stuck in a rut, it doesn't have to be that way. Here are ten ways to put the love back in the love nest:

1. Talk To Each Other

In order for your relationship to succeed, you and your partner both must be willing to open up to one another on every subject concerning your life.

Even if you can't readily fix a problem, you are showing great courage by revealing what's going on with your thoughts and feelings. It shows trust.

One of the greatest culprits in destroying a union between two people is closing the door to communication. How are you going to fix a problem if you don't even know what it is?

2. Show Appreciation

It's the little things in life that mean so much. Acknowledge and appreciate each and every little thing you do for one another whether it's pressing his slacks or holding the door open for her. Show each other respect and courtesy the same as you would for a friend or stranger.

3. Keep One Another Guessing

It's always fun to put a little mystery into the mix. Surprise your partner by showing them a different side of your character they never knew existed. How fun is that? That could really spark a fire...

4. Gently Tease Your Partner

Whether the two of you take a short respite to make you miss one another, or send sexy texts all day long, it's a form of teasing (foreplay) that can lead to a sultry romantic evening.

5. Get Uninhibited - Let Your Hair Down

Nothing will stoke the fires of love quicker than letting your inhibitions run wild. Men love this. In fact, most men want an angel by day and a seductress by night.

Don't be afraid to show him this side of you - you know, your inner Goddess? Let it out, he'll never be the same. In the words of Nike - just do it!

6. Go on Holiday

Spend some time away and travel to an unfamiliar destination. Unusual surroundings tend to bring people closer together as well as ignite a sense of adventure that makes for great memories.

7. Reminisce

Remember the good ole days when you couldn't keep your hands off each other? Dwell on that memory and see where it goes. Sit, talk, and laugh about the times you spent in the beginning as you were first falling in love. Remember why you fell for him in the first place.

8. Don't Stop Dating

Set aside a special night a few times a month for the two of you to do whatever you like without the kids. It can be as simple as sharing a cup of coffee at a late night diner or going to the opera - as long as you are together and having a good time.

9. Be Intimate on Every Level

Intimacy isn't just physical, it's emotional as well. A typical, busy day tends to drain the intimacy out of life. Put it back, it's important. Being close to your partner emotionally is every bit as important as engaging in a physical sexual encounter.

10. Maintain Your Connection

Slow your life down enough to look into your partner's eyes and say a heartfelt "I love you". Take time to hug and kiss and show one another genuine affection. When was the last time you looked into your lover's eyes and told them how much they mean to you?

These tips will bring you extremely closer to the one you love and put the spark back into relationship. Why not give them a try?

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Relationship Advice - Openness To Healing Relationships

Relationship Advice - Openness To Healing Relationships

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So many times people will find themselves in a relationship that used to be good, loving, and strong.  But somehow, somewhere, things changed.  Now they want to get that loving relationship back.  The first thing is making sure there is an openness to healing relationships.

Most relationships that have broken down have done so over a period of time and usually because of hurts, many of which have been small.  These hurts have accumulated over a period of time, though, and now they've taken on a life of their own. Over time we tend to shut ourselves off from our partner because we don't want to be hurt anymore.  Once that happens you will need to make sure you can open up again and attempt to heal the relationship.   Before you decide that you are going to fix your broken relationship you have to make sure that you are willing to open yourself up to the possibility of more hurt.

It is just like taking bitter pills to heal your sickness. Maybe, it's bitter to remind us to take care of ourselves, of our relationship more as we tend to take things for granted all the time.

And, it's not just about you either.  Is your partner willing to open up and work on the relationship?  Many times one partner is more interested in salvaging the relationship than another.  If that's the case and your partner has made it clear, either by what they've said or their overall attitude, that they have no interest in working very hard to save the relationship, you might as well call it quits. You can't do it all yourself and you can't force your partner to try. That could be the sign to move on to new pastures.

If, on the other hand, you both agree that you will try to work on the relationship the first thing you'll both need to do is look at yourselves.  You need to look at yourself and your partner needs to look at themselves. You are trying to honestly figure out what part you've played in the breakdown of the relationship and whether or not you will be committed to making the changes necessary to fix it.  Again, both of you have to admit their part in the break down of the relationship as well as be willing to try to change their behavior.

After all that the next thing you will both need to do is talk to each other.  This doesn't mean yelling, intimidating, or getting mad.  It means and open, adult discussion about how you are feeling.  You each have to be able to honestly speak your mind and explain what you think has happened, how you think it can be fixed, what you are willing to do to help fix it, and how you are feeling overall.

This step is vitally important and potentially very dangerous.  This is the part where someone could get hurt feelings and that could lead to a big blowout.  In order for this to work, it's crucial that you both give the other person time to talk, and not get mad or defensive about what they have to say.

If you are sure you and your partner really have an openness to healing relationships, and you're wiling to work on the steps I've listed here than the two of you will have a real shot at getting back to a place in your relationship where you can be happy to be together, and happy to be 'back to normal'.

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