How Do I Forgive A Cheating Wife?

How Do I Forgive A Cheating Wife?

Hello guys,

You feel angry, devastated and a sinking feeling that you have done something wrong that your wife feel it's right to sleep with another man. Is it your fault? Hers? Should you forgive your cheating wife? What should or can you do about it?

I truly recommend that you read through this FREE eBook before you take any actions that will only make you regret later on.

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Below are some success stories from other readers that you might want to read through. To see how the book have helped them survive their own broken relationships.

Success Stories

"Survive Her Affair" is a book about helping many guys out there who are going through the hardest time of their lives… and giving them the help that makes a difference.


So here are a few of the success stories the author have actually received…

“Your Book Is Gooooood Therapy Man!”

“Hey Kevin, your book is on the money! I really got some insight on myself and the situation as a whole…. While reading your book you mentioned (men) sometimes become a “pleaser” to a narcissitic (woman)… My wife’s therapist at one time mentioned the fact that she is narcissistic… It all made sense after reading your book… Your book is goooood therapy man!” – Rashaud

“Helping Get My Balls Back Out Of Her Purse…”

“Hi Kevin, thanks for your eBook. I must say it has helped me more than anything else since I found out my wife cheated on me. So much of the stuff out there is bullcrap… Thanks for listening and thanks for your book. I know it’s helping many guys. Slowly it’s helping me get my balls back out of her purse and maybe even to get a little bigger to boot.” – Brad S.

“Thank You For Saving My Marriage…”

“Thank you very much for saving my marriage and may God bless you.” – Anthony A

“Helping In Ways I Never Had Any Idea Of…”

“Kevin, I bought your eBook yesterday and haven’t been able to put it down… To make a long story short since i started reading your book I have had epiphanies. I discussed some of these epiphanies with my therapist today and he connected about “the good husband trap.” I am a lifelong pleaser such as yourself as you mentioned in your book… Another epiphany I had was around the emotional investment I made into the marriage… Thank you so much for your book. It is helping in ways I really never had any idea of.” - Dave C.

“I Sincerely Thank You…”

“I want to thank you for your book. I just found out 3 days ago that my wife of 14 years has had 4 affairs. The first one was 2 years into our marriage, the most recent being 1 month ago… The pain is unreal. I couldn’t figure out how to deal with it and I looked online and found your book. I appreciate the fact that you are not a psychologist, but someone who has been through the pain I am feeling now. I made my wife read your book as well, and told her you are describing my feelings almost verbatum. The biggest impact your book has had so far has been the ability to let me grieve… it was something I really needed… This has been so difficult, as I realized I don’t have any close friends I can speak about this to. My wife has always beent he one I’ve gone to, to help me deal with things. It was nice to know I am not the only one who is going through this. Once again, I sincerely Thank You.” – Jason B., Oklahoma

“Kevin, Your Book Does Wonders…” - Raul G.

“I Would Have Been A Basket Case By Now…”

“Thanks for writing your book. I would undoubtedly be a basket case by now had I not stumbled across your experiences and insights to help me rationalize what is happening with my wife’s affair. Keep helping others, Kevin… you have a gift!” – Ed C.

“The Content Was EXCELLENT…”

“I ordered your eBook yesterday and I have already finished it… the content was EXCELLENT…” – Taylor M.

“Wow, I Wish I Had Found This Site In October…”

“Wow I wish I had found this site in October. My wife of 17 yrs had a summer long affair with an old high school friend she found on Facebook. I have never been a jealous or snooping kind of guy but I had a feeling. So… I went back through here Yahoo archives and found out everything. It’s been 3 months since I’ve confronted her and I’m still in the “pissed off” stage. My kids are the only reason I’m even trying… to work this out. Thank you for your 7 steps.” – Michael

“Great Book, Worth Every Penny!”  - Paul G.

“I’m In A Much Better Head Space…”

“I’m lost. I’m confused. I’m everything in this book… I started surfing the internet and found this ad when I was on Google… I bought your book. Great read… I know I’ll survive… Let it be known that this book is really a great thing… I’m in a much better head space… Thanks for the stimulating read and good luck with your future endeavors.” – C.

“It Has Opened My Eyes…”

“I have your book and find it very supportive and informative. I have already read it twice… It has really opened my eyes and I now know some of the red flags I missed…”
- Anonymous

“Your Book… Is Spot On…”

“Your book makes sense and is spot on the roller coaster of emotions I’ve been going through…” – Jeff

“One Of The Best Things Since My Wife’s Affairs…”

“Hi Kevin, finished your book in 24 hours. It’s one of the best things that happened to me since I discovered my wife’s affairs.” – Heinrich K

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Trust In A Relationship - A Leap Of Faith

Trust In A Relationship - A Leap Of Faith

Hey guys,

Trust, in a relationship is really important if you want your relationship to survive through good times and the bad times. You can't get through life together if you don't have faith with your partner, right?

Building trust in a relationship can take time, it can take even more time rebuilding that trust a second time. I mean, come on, face facts, the first time around you give someone a really big benefit of the doubt. If they make a promise to you it takes a real leap of faith to let yourself open up and trust them, but if they break that trust, it can be almost impossible to do it again.

The reason for that is simple: they've already proven through their words or actions that they can't be trusted. The first time around you had no way of knowing one way or the other, but now you do. Now you know that they can't be trusted, why in the world would you set yourself up for that kind of hurt and pain again?

That is why it's so difficult to overcome any kind of cheating in a relationship. You know the old saying: "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me", that's the whole point. Few people would take such a big risk of being hurt by letting someone who has already proven that they can't be trusted, into their lives again.

It's best to make darn sure you don't do anything to make your partner lose their faith in you in the first place. I know, a lot of people may be thinking that that is easier said than done, but not really.

While it's true that sometimes you find yourself becoming attracted to someone you see on a day to day basis, someone that you may not be able to avoid seeing like a co-worker. In a case like that you just have to keep as much distance as possible and not allow yourself to spend more time with them, or spend time with them outside of work, than is absolutely necessary.

A lot of times though, we do it to ourselves. We'll see someone out at a club when we're with our friends and one thing leads to another and before you know it you've done the very thing you promised you'd never do. In cases like that, you're just a jackass.

Sorry, rough I know, but true. Just because you're out on your own for a night with friends is no excuse to hook up with someone. If you can't stay faithful for one night then you need to really spend some serious time figuring out what is wrong with you because that's not normal behavior.

Some will consider themselves 'the man' or a 'playa' but really those are just ways to make themselves feel better about their own shortcomings. A real man would live up to his word and if he promised his girl that he would be faithful than that's what he'd do... period.

And I'm not picking on guys, ladies the same exact thing applies to you. If you really want trust in a relationship make sure that you don't do anything to betray that trust. It's very hard to risk being hurt and open up and trust someone, it's virtually impossible to do it a second time when that person proves to you that they can't be trusted.

These are some of the tips you can use to build trust in a relationship. But, if you have broken that trust and want to learn how to re-build that trust again, then I recommend that you download the book, "Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson.

His book have help many couples around the world get back together again and are full of practical tips you can use to build a better relationship. Grab your copy today!

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To your relationship success.

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Healing In Affair Relationships - Can They Really Last

Healing In Affair Relationships - Can They Really Last

Hello guys,

Affair in marriages do happen. But what do you do if you're in this situation? Can there be healing from affair? Can a marriage survive an affair?

Affair relationships, can they really last? If your relationship has started off as an affair and the two of you are wondering if you should leave your spouses and try to make a go of your relationship, you have to carefully consider the consequences of such an action.

It's very tough to keep a relationship going if it has started off by both of you lying and cheating. For one thing you're both going to have a real problem trusting each other. I mean, you both know that you've both cheated, how can you ever really be sure that you won't each cheat on each other?  Even if the two of you can overcome that, there are still all the other issues to consider.

For one thing, are there kids involved?  This is by far the hardest situation to work through. No one wants to hurt their kids and it will be virtually impossible for the kids to ever feel warm fuzzies for the person who broke their other parent's heart (at least that's the way the kids will see it. More than likely they'll let their cheating parent largely off the hook and blame the other man/woman).

Even if there aren't kids involved, you have to remember that this relationship is just like any other: it starts off hot and passionate, but can you keep that alive? Your marriage probably started off that way too and look where that is.

One of the biggest reasons the two of you felt so free in the first place was because you didn't share any responsibilities.  The day to day grind is almost always what slowly works it's way between couples and causes the problems. You have to be realistic enough to recognize that the very same thing will happen between the two of you over time. Your brand new 'soulmate' may not seem so brand new in five or ten years... just like your spouse.

Of course, having considered all of these facts there still remains one question you have to ask yourself, do you still love your spouse? If you can honestly say that you just don't feel love for your spouse (and I'm not talking about the fireworks, tingling toes feeling that always fades and changes in any relationship) than despite the pain it will cause you might be doing them a favor in the long run by leaving.

If it comes to that, it's best for everyone involved if you don't let them know that the catalyst for the breakup is your affair. That is one secret you should keep to yourself. Just let your spouse know that the marriage is over and be as compassionate as possible.

Affair relationships almost never work, but if the two of you have decided that even though you met in the wrong way, you still have a deep love for each other and that your marriages have been over for a long time, you might as well give it a go.  Just keep the fact that you've been together while you were still married to other people, between the two of you. No need to cause unnecessary pain.

If you like to read more on affair in marriage or about relationships then I suggest you download the book Magic of Making Up by T.W. Jackson. Download and read through it.

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To your relationship success.

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Affair in Marriage - Can a Marriage Really Heal After Infidelity?

Affair in Marriage - Can a Marriage Really Heal After Infidelity?

Hey guys,

Can you really heal and rebuild a marriage?

There will be healing that needs to be done together along with the healing of each individual. It can also bring back the intimate connection into your marriage.

One thing for sure,  if the affair is still going on or there is still any kind of contact even if it's not sexual there will be NO healing. The best way to do this is to have the wayward spouse send a certified no contact letter in their own handwriting to the affair partner.

An agreement must be made between them that all contact must end between the wayward spouse and the affair partner and it must be permanent. This MUST be done for there to be any healing in the marriage. Every time the agreement has been broken the wayward spouse must tell the betrayed spouse about it as soon as possible.

This will build some trust back up in your marriage if this is done every time. And, in this way everything that needs to be said can be with no interruptions and without adding or saying anything you don't want said. That's what you are clearly trying to avoid.

The wayward spouse should also state how much they have hurt you and how they are going to spend the rest of their life making it up to them.

If the wayward spouse does this just for his/her spouse and continues contact with the Affair Partner, then the Affair Partner won't take the No Contact Letter seriously.

So, the Wayward Spouse must stand firm and continually tell the Affair Partner how much he still loves his wife and wants to work on their marriage.

After the Wayward Spouse has finished the No Contact Letter, the Betrayed Spouse should read it, if it wasn't written together.

Here is an example of a "No Contact Letter":

Dear [put name here],

The relationship I had with you was thoughtless and cruel.

I am committed to my marriage and determined to make up for all the hurt I've caused my family.

Because of the terrible offense to my spouse and the damage I have done to our marriage, I am permanently ending all contact with you.

Please also respect my wish that you not attempt to contact me in any way at any time.

Sincerely,

[name here]


Wayward Spouse's are usually afraid to say and tell all, as they don't want to cause great pain for their spouse. What some Wayward Spouse's don't realize is that lying and lying by omission just causes more pain and trauma in the Betrayed Spouse making it feel like your both back to square one.

They have to know that they will not be attacked when disclosing any information. This is why it's a good idea, when first starting out with this and emotions are running very high, to do this in front of a counselor or marriage coach.

When full disclosure of the affair doesn't happen the trust and respect one for the other just never materializes. The affair will always be a wedge in the middle of their marriage. It has been found that not fully disclosing the affair details to the Betrayed Spouse that the Wayward Spouse stays emotionally attached to the Affair Partner. There is a much higher percent of the affair continuing or another affair happening later on.

It actually causes more damage to the Betrayed Spouse to find out bits of information later on, on their own. I believe that it needs to be written down on paper. The Betrayed Spouse should be able to ask questions and the Wayward Spouse should answer them with kindness and patience.

If you think you are going to explode with anger or be very upset, then STOP and walk away until you can begin again. The Betrayed Spouse did not make them do it (having the affair). That is the choice of the person getting involved in the affair and has nothing to do with what the Betrayed Spouse did or didn't do.

Now, the Betrayed Spouse should be responsible for some of the problems in the marriage and for taking it upon themselves to fix their parts in the breakdown of the marriage. This sometimes can be a very hard thing to actually believe. So, there are some things that should be done right away in repairing your marriage.

The big thing is to be totally honest with one another. Also, don't attack each other for how the other is feeling. Hide nothing!! Be an open book, both of you!

If you're reading this and want more help in dealing with affair in marriage and surviving infidelity then you might want to take a look at Dr. Frank Gunzburg Step-by-Step System For Saving Your Relationship After It's Been Shattered By An Affair.

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Your marriage might depend on it.

If this is you?


"I Wanted To Strangle My Husband Ray When I Caught Him Red-Handed In An Affair"

"I Felt So Devastated, Enraged and Humiliated. I Never Dreamed I Could Save My Marriage, Let Alone Trust Him Again..."
- Kathie Brown


Testimonials from those surviving an affair

These are real testimonies, from real people that have gone through Dr. Frank Gunzburg system. They cover everything from repairing their emotions to rebuilding the trust back into their marriage. Please go through them and experience the kind of transformation that is possible with my system.


"I learned how to start trusting my wife again."

"You are a big help! You taught me how to take my wife's reassurance at face value and quit doubting her sincerity. After doing that I learned how to start trusting my wife again."

David Woodmansee
Moore, OK

"...we are starting over with a clean slate"

I have been working for a long time trying to rebuild trust with my husband after his affair. He felt that just because he was sorry and wanted to work it out that I should IMMEDIATELY trust him again and stopped talking about the affair.

However I still had questions that were haunting me and could not move forward. Once he read your section on how to rebuild the trust, he understood more about what I needed from him!

It is amazing that some of the things mentioned in your section are exactly what I wanted to happen. Of course when I said it, he didn't give much thought to it but I guess seeing it in writing from an actual author made it real.

After reading just this one section and understanding what I needed from him my husband agreed to answer ANY question in regards to his affair that I had. Believe me it wasn't easy for either one of us to actually have to tell the truth about what happened on his part and for me to hear it.

But now for the first time I honestly feel like we are starting over with a clean slate.

Thank you Dr. Gunzburg!"

Nicole Williams
Oceanside, CA

"I feel more secure and feel that I can begin to trust him again."

"Building trust has been the biggest challenge for us and at times appeared to be impossible. The tips that you provided have been great because it has made my spouse understand my feeling s and needs better and I feel more secure and feel that I can begin to trust him again. Thanks!"

Lylla Childress
Cary, NY

"you made us more understanding, open and empathetic to each other."

"Dr. Gunzburg, you helped to restore the trust in my relationship by letting my spouse and myself both know what we were feeling and going through.

We learned that what we are feeling and going through is okay and part of the healing process and you also taught us what the other person is feeling and you made us more understanding, open and empathetic to each other.

You gave me hope to not to give up when we hit a rough patch, but to continue what we were doing and just keep communicating until that rough patch passed, which they do more easily and quickly now."

Rhonda Elkins
Baltimore, MD

"I could have used this information early on."

"I would have liked to have had this information when I first learned about the affair. I could have used this information early on."

Doug Saylor
Snow Shoe, PA

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Tips on Surviving Infidelity: Steps to Surviving, Coping and Forgiveness

Tips on Surviving Infidelity: The Next Steps to Surviving, Coping and Forgiveness

Hello guys,

You feel betrayed by someone You loved and trusted. Do you have these symptoms?

-Feeling massively depressed
-Feeling urges to spy on them
-Feeling deep surge of anger
-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say to your partner
-Endlessly having images of them being together

The best way to describe what you are going to do is "surviving".

Often described as excruciating pain, since it hits you at your very core.

Here are some good news.

In order to be successful at surviving infidelity you are going to have to shift how you think about things.

This is often very difficult but extremely important.

As difficult as it is to believe, many initially feel embarrassment even though it was their spouse having the affair. Moreover, you will feel as if the marriage will magically be repaired.

You need to evaluate the signs of cheating and decide if you believe divorce from the infidelity is inevitable.

Do you want to save your marriage?

It is an important key in surviving infidelity to regain your mental and physical health while working on saving your marriage in a healthy thought out manner.

The good news is learning the indirect strategies work quite effectively at saving your marriage and relationship.

Click here and learn the step-by-step guide to surviving infidelity and affair in marriage. Yes! You can still save your marriage (if you want to).

It's not by magic or by chance, but usually, infidelity happens with the person we are close with and those whom we are mutually attracted to (i.e your close friend).

When you understand the one of the main reason causing infidelity, the first step to surviving infidelity is to know the importance of communication.

Pretending that something has not happened when it did is no different than running away from paying your parking fines.

Although it may be relatively easy to confront your partner regarding the affair, you can almost expect denial during your first confrontation. To overcome the affair and to survive it, honesty plays an equally important role to communication when it comes to confrontation between you and your partner.

However, the important point here to remember is that it is not the trust that ends your relationship but it is the lack of communication, the desire to care and a decreasing sense of importance. By trying to avoid communicating the problem between the both of you, it is almost equivalent to giving up on your current relationship.

If you have decided to continue pressing on with your current relationship, you should try to ask your partner to cut off any ties they have with the person related to their affair. Do this before going on further on resolving the conflicts.

To survive infidelity regardless of whether you are a victim or the cause, you should always remember that communication and honesty goes a long way.

If you have thought out that you really want to save your marriage and surviving infidelity then you should take a look at this system before you even think of seeking or going through couples counseling.

A Step-by-Step System For Saving Your Relationship After It's Been Shattered By An Affair - By Dr. Frank Gunzburg

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Rooting for you!

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