Dating for Guys - Five Most Important Things to Remember About Dating Girls
Supp guys,
Everyone does it. Not everyone loves it. Whether you enjoy dating or find it stressful and horrible, you know that if you are ever going to find the one person who can stop your dating life forever, you have to do it.
Gentlemen, you simply have to date girls if you are ever going to find the perfect one for you. So, here is some good advice for you.
Successful dating can be broken down into the five most important things about dating girls. They are:
1. Girls are not guys: It's Not a Guy's Night
Girls are not guys. They do not think it is fun to make noises by placing their hands under their armpits and acting like a winged creature. Even if they are drunk, they don’t like this. Save this type of behavior for guy’s night.
2. Girls are not guys: Previous Relationship
Girls are not guys. They do not think it is cool to brag about your previous relationship conquests. They do not want to know about the ditzy blonde who had nothing to say but had the most amazing rack ever created. Nor do they think it is great to have their guy greeted by every woman in the place. Take your date to a different place just to be on the safe side and never, never, never mention your ex-girlfriend.
3. Girls are not guys: Look Your Best
Girls are not guys. They do not like to see you show up at their door in your ratty old jeans with a cheap five-buck pizza in hand. Trust me on this one. Maybe later – way later, like after the kids become teenagers – it will be okay for this kind of thing to happen. But for now, please, guys: take a shower, put on something nice like khakis and a pullover shirt, and have flowers in hand instead of greasy fast food.
4. Girls are not guys: Don't Show Her You're a Cheapskate
Girls are not guys. They do not love it when their date pulls out buy-one-get-one-free coupons at the restaurant cash register. There is nothing wrong with a bargain, especially in these tough economic times, but use those freebies when you go out with your mom (who will love your thriftiness) or your best buddy (who wouldn’t notice or care how you paid). Don’t make your date think that she is not worth full price.
5. Girls are not guys: Burping and Farting Contest
Girls are not guys. They do not find burping and farting contests hilariously interesting and entertaining. Who can come up with most-silent-but-most-deadly one without any prior warning is nothing to be proud of, according to the female half of the population. Neither is it way cool to be able to belch out the melody to “The Star-Spangled Banner.” Again, save it for football night with the frat brothers.
Remembering the five most important things to remember about dating girls will take you farther than anything else when it comes to having a great time on your dates. The five most important things to remember about dating girls will also allow you to get more than one date with the same lady.
There are lots of people who will offer you lots of advice about dating, and even some who will simply say, “Be yourself.” That is not terrible advice, but trust me, if being yourself includes any of the forbidden behavior in the five most important things to remember when dating girls list, don’t be yourself. Be better.
Remember these five most important things about dating girls and have a better dating life.
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Thursday, March 31, 2011
Sunday, March 6, 2011
Flirting Tips For Shy Guys - 3 Rules For Flirting With Women
Flirting Tips For Shy Guys - 3 Rules For Flirting With Women
Hey guys,
Whereas a lot of people are comfortable in bars & clubs, you might be one of those people who probably feel awkward talking to someone in a loud environment. Frankly, I don't like those kind of noisy environment myself.
In this article, I'm going to reveal THREE quick tips for flirting that'll help you meet more women:
#1- Have a System
One of the best flirting tips I can give you is to create a system that works for you. My first piece of advice is to create a 'cheat sheet' that you'll use to meet women. This can also be conversation starter topics you can use when you meet them.
You'll find that certain things will work with every woman you meet. So if you try something else that works in the field, you can add to this list.
#2- Know Where to Go
As I mentioned in the introduction, bars and clubs are not a great place for shy guys to flirt and meet women. What I recommend is to look for women that's already in part of your daily life environment. This means expanding upon your social circle and simply being proactive about living your life. For example, if you love reading books and going to the library then instead of just going there to read or borrow books you can get social with any kind of hot girl there. Heck, what's better then an ice breaker, when talking about a book you love with someone hot?
Personally, I like smart, sexy girls who love to read books. Ahem, well, you get the idea.
#3- Understand Sexual Tension
The secret ingredient to flirting is to know how to create sexual tension. What most guys don't know is women are attracted to guys who can "assume familiarity" and be playful. Overcoming shyness around woman can be easily achieved when you have a game plan and know how to act.
Well guys, that's the 3 simple rules for flirting with Women. If you want more tips then check out Flirt Mastery complete eBook course:
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Hey guys,
Whereas a lot of people are comfortable in bars & clubs, you might be one of those people who probably feel awkward talking to someone in a loud environment. Frankly, I don't like those kind of noisy environment myself.
In this article, I'm going to reveal THREE quick tips for flirting that'll help you meet more women:
#1- Have a System
One of the best flirting tips I can give you is to create a system that works for you. My first piece of advice is to create a 'cheat sheet' that you'll use to meet women. This can also be conversation starter topics you can use when you meet them.
You'll find that certain things will work with every woman you meet. So if you try something else that works in the field, you can add to this list.
#2- Know Where to Go
As I mentioned in the introduction, bars and clubs are not a great place for shy guys to flirt and meet women. What I recommend is to look for women that's already in part of your daily life environment. This means expanding upon your social circle and simply being proactive about living your life. For example, if you love reading books and going to the library then instead of just going there to read or borrow books you can get social with any kind of hot girl there. Heck, what's better then an ice breaker, when talking about a book you love with someone hot?
Personally, I like smart, sexy girls who love to read books. Ahem, well, you get the idea.
#3- Understand Sexual Tension
The secret ingredient to flirting is to know how to create sexual tension. What most guys don't know is women are attracted to guys who can "assume familiarity" and be playful. Overcoming shyness around woman can be easily achieved when you have a game plan and know how to act.
Well guys, that's the 3 simple rules for flirting with Women. If you want more tips then check out Flirt Mastery complete eBook course:
For more flirt tips and how to pick up ladies get Flirt Mastery complete eBook course below:
Click here - Get flirt tips and pick up ladies Now!
Happy flirting.
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Wednesday, February 23, 2011
10 Ways to Win a Girl Over – Even if you are born ugly and have no money!
10 Ways to Win a Girl Over – Even if you are born ugly and have no money!
by Cucan Pemo
I know what you're thinking – this is impossible. If you're a guy without a hot car or a wallet full of cash, no woman is going to want to be with you – but you're dead wrong. You just need to know the secrets of getting a girl to realize just how special you are (as cheesy as that sounds).
I used to be just like you, a little awkward and a lot lonelier. I used to spend my Saturday nights thinking about this one girl in particular, but because I thought she'd never go for me, I ended up playing on the Internet instead of going out on dates. And then I found out these ten ways to make a girl fall for you. My calendar is never empty anymore.
#1 – Remember that You're a Hot Guy
If you're acting like you're the biggest nerd in the room, chances are pretty good that no girl is going to want to talk to you. Instead, walk into the room as though you're the one that everyone wants to talk to, and the hot women are going to notice and start coming up to you.
#2 – Talk to Everyone
You aren't going to score points if you're not talking to everyone you can. Make it a point to talk to everyone in the room, if only for a few seconds. As a bonus, this is going to make you much more comfortable around women.
#3 – Notice Things
Instead of simply talking about yourself the whole night, talk to women about themselves, their clothing, things they've just said, etc. You want to show them that you're interested in THEM and not just getting them into bed, even if that's your main goal. Compliments should be sincere though, so don't just say that you like their shoes if you're not prepared to say why.
#4 – Show Off Your Skills
If you're good at something and you can display your talents when you're around a girl you like, why not show off a little? Even something as simple as ordering a drink in a complicated way can make a girl want to get to know you better. Plus, this is going to make you stand out from the rest of the crowd.
#5 – Rescue Her, But Only a Little
Girls do like to be rescued. One time when I was out at a club, I saw an attractive woman having trouble getting a guy to leave her alone, so I decided this was my chance. I walked up the girl and pretended to be her boyfriend, which made the other guy back off. And I got a date out of my helpfulness.
#6 – Let Her Make the First Move
Standing around and talking to a woman is the best way to make a woman interested in you, even if you never ask her out. Once you've begun establishing a rapport, you are going to create a memory in the mind of the woman, which will cause her to wonder about you long after you've left the scene. She'll have to make the next move and that's exciting for everyone.
#7 – Wildflowers and Other Cheap Gifts
Yes, it's true, girls like gifts. So if you want to win a girl over, why not try to find something to hand to her. Something as simple as a napkin folded into a swan or some wildflowers can make her swoon for you – and they don't cost a thing. Just make it look like a grand gesture and they'll treasure it forever.
#8 – Go for the Romantic Gestures
Walking a girl home is much more seductive than that hot car – well, unless you have to walk a really long way. But offering to walk a woman home is going to win her over because of its simple charm.
#9 – Be Yourself
A radical concept, I know, but too often you go out to meet someone and you act like an idiot just trying to impress them. And when you do get their number and then get to go out on a date with them, you have to remember what you were like in order to be the same person they wanted to date. It's exhausting and it's unnecessary. Just be who you are – that's enough to win her over.
#10 – Humor works
Sending a note to the woman at the end of the bar that looks like it could be been passed in high school will probably make her laugh and it will certainly grab her attention. Try to find a way to make her laugh and she'll just melt.
=============================
"Forget About ALL The Get Girls Formulas!"
Do you know that most relationships and marriages
can be LONG LASTING if only you would understand the
woman in your life? If you master this skill of
understanding your girl and penetrating through the
thoughts the woman you love, you can literally churn
out all the relationship and dating formulas you'll need,
just like those relationship 'gurus' out there! Learn
how you can attract women FAST and EASY today!
==> Click here to get it Now!
by Cucan Pemo
I know what you're thinking – this is impossible. If you're a guy without a hot car or a wallet full of cash, no woman is going to want to be with you – but you're dead wrong. You just need to know the secrets of getting a girl to realize just how special you are (as cheesy as that sounds).
I used to be just like you, a little awkward and a lot lonelier. I used to spend my Saturday nights thinking about this one girl in particular, but because I thought she'd never go for me, I ended up playing on the Internet instead of going out on dates. And then I found out these ten ways to make a girl fall for you. My calendar is never empty anymore.
#1 – Remember that You're a Hot Guy
If you're acting like you're the biggest nerd in the room, chances are pretty good that no girl is going to want to talk to you. Instead, walk into the room as though you're the one that everyone wants to talk to, and the hot women are going to notice and start coming up to you.
#2 – Talk to Everyone
You aren't going to score points if you're not talking to everyone you can. Make it a point to talk to everyone in the room, if only for a few seconds. As a bonus, this is going to make you much more comfortable around women.
#3 – Notice Things
Instead of simply talking about yourself the whole night, talk to women about themselves, their clothing, things they've just said, etc. You want to show them that you're interested in THEM and not just getting them into bed, even if that's your main goal. Compliments should be sincere though, so don't just say that you like their shoes if you're not prepared to say why.
#4 – Show Off Your Skills
If you're good at something and you can display your talents when you're around a girl you like, why not show off a little? Even something as simple as ordering a drink in a complicated way can make a girl want to get to know you better. Plus, this is going to make you stand out from the rest of the crowd.
#5 – Rescue Her, But Only a Little
Girls do like to be rescued. One time when I was out at a club, I saw an attractive woman having trouble getting a guy to leave her alone, so I decided this was my chance. I walked up the girl and pretended to be her boyfriend, which made the other guy back off. And I got a date out of my helpfulness.
#6 – Let Her Make the First Move
Standing around and talking to a woman is the best way to make a woman interested in you, even if you never ask her out. Once you've begun establishing a rapport, you are going to create a memory in the mind of the woman, which will cause her to wonder about you long after you've left the scene. She'll have to make the next move and that's exciting for everyone.
#7 – Wildflowers and Other Cheap Gifts
Yes, it's true, girls like gifts. So if you want to win a girl over, why not try to find something to hand to her. Something as simple as a napkin folded into a swan or some wildflowers can make her swoon for you – and they don't cost a thing. Just make it look like a grand gesture and they'll treasure it forever.
#8 – Go for the Romantic Gestures
Walking a girl home is much more seductive than that hot car – well, unless you have to walk a really long way. But offering to walk a woman home is going to win her over because of its simple charm.
#9 – Be Yourself
A radical concept, I know, but too often you go out to meet someone and you act like an idiot just trying to impress them. And when you do get their number and then get to go out on a date with them, you have to remember what you were like in order to be the same person they wanted to date. It's exhausting and it's unnecessary. Just be who you are – that's enough to win her over.
#10 – Humor works
Sending a note to the woman at the end of the bar that looks like it could be been passed in high school will probably make her laugh and it will certainly grab her attention. Try to find a way to make her laugh and she'll just melt.
=============================
Do you know that most relationships and marriages
can be LONG LASTING if only you would understand the
woman in your life? If you master this skill of
understanding your girl and penetrating through the
thoughts the woman you love, you can literally churn
out all the relationship and dating formulas you'll need,
just like those relationship 'gurus' out there! Learn
how you can attract women FAST and EASY today!
==> Click here to get it Now!
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Enrique Iglesias - Tonight (I'm Lovin' You)
Enrique Iglesias - Tonight (I'm Lovin' You)
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Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Backstreet Boys - Incomplete
Backstreet Boys - Incomplete
Guy Gets Girl tips - Secrets to attraction!
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Monday, February 7, 2011
Picking Up Women: How to Make Easy, Fun Conversation That Leads to Attraction & Sexual Chemistry
Picking Up Women: How to Make Easy, Fun Conversation That Leads to Attraction & Sexual Chemistry
There are two main ways in which we communicate with others: non-verbal communication and vocal/verbal communication. You probably already know a little about the non-verbal side of things, such as the types of body language that silently signal someone’s nervous, excited or angry. But how about the more obvious but actually less frequently discussed topic of verbal communication: how what we say and how we say it impacts on our lives and goals? That’s the subject we’re going to look at today. Except we’re going to a get a little more specific and delve into how a guy can make easy, fun conversation with a woman, that helps lead to attraction and sexual chemistry between the two of you.
Let’s first get a grasp on a few pieces of background information. First off, how do most men make conversation with a woman they’re attracted to? What do they do right, wrong or completely miss out from their talks with the opposite sex? The best way to answer these questions is simply to identify the mistakes the majority of men out there make – things every guy, for whatever reason, chooses to do when talking to a girl, that hinder – rather than help – his chances of hooking up with her.
Mistake #1: ASKING TOO MANY QUESTIONS. Lots of men worry that when they start talking to a girl, she won’t say much back. This outcome, standing there – suffering an awkward, embarrassing silence – is so much of a concern that they ask the girl question after question to avoid it. The reason they bombard her with questions is because they think that the best way of getting and keeping the girl talking is by giving her more and more opportunities to say something, no matter what the topic happens to be. Unfortunately, doing this sends out a very negative message. It actually shows that you’re nervous and would prefer her to do most of the talking, which often turns the woman off completely.
Mistake #2: NEVER SHUTTING UP. This is the opposite scenario to the one above, but happens for the same reason. Some men, scared that the girl they’re talking to will up and leave any second, choose to talk endlessly in an effort to keep their attention. Again, this is immediately obvious as a sign of social inexperience and nervousness.
Mistake #3: BORING HER TO DEATH. It’s not easy talking to a girl who’s beautiful, sexy and usually practically unattainable. So when a guy gets chatting to a girl he really likes, who’s hot and confident, he doesn’t want to mess it up – after all, it might not happen again for ages! So, in an attempt to limit the chance of saying something that might ruin the interaction and thus his chances with her, he subconsciously restricts the topics of conversation he brings up. He talks about work, the weather, sports, current affairs, perhaps bombards her with a few questions on those subjects…and generally doesn’t push the boat out much.
Okay, so they’re 3 of the worst mistakes a guy can make when talking to a girl he likes. So let’s flip the coin and look at what he SHOULD be doing.
Objective #1: PROGRESSIVE QUESTIONING. Choose what questions you ask the girl wisely. You don’t want to throw too many her way too quickly. If you do, you give her too much control over the conversation and don’t provide her with a challenge. So, use progressive questioning – ask her questions that she MUST give a detailed response to. Avoid Yes/No questions and instead quiz her on things that require emotion-packed responses. “Do you come her often?” is a terrible question. “What do you think this place could do to make it feel more lively and fun?” is much better, as it not only requires a more detailed reply than a simple “Yes” or “No,” it also probes the girl on what makes her feel good.
Objective #2: Don’t be afraid to let short pauses punctuate your conversation with a girl. Many men panic when they hear a silence and jump in with another question or statement to fill it. Don’t make the same mistake. A confident, dominant guy – the kind of man women love – isn’t afraid of little pauses, because they’re natural and harmless. He simply, waits a second or two, sips his drink, smiles and goes with the flow.
Objective #3: It’s okay to use common topics of conversation when you first get talking to a girl. But move away from the mundane stuff as quickly as you can and instead choose to tell engaging stories. Describe a great holiday you had, an amazing concert you recently went to…make it positive and interesting and you engage the girl’s emotions and make her want to tell YOU about her own good times. When this happens, instant rapport and sexual chemistry is born.
Rachel Davis is the author of Conversation-King, a guide that teaches men how to attract and seduce women by mastering the art of verbal communication.
Click here for more in-depth tips on Picking Up Women: How to Make Easy, Fun Conversation That Leads to Attraction & Sexual Chemistry!
Good luck!
P.S. Get Rachel Davis eBook Conversation-King Today! Learn howto talk to a girl. Click here to download now!
There are two main ways in which we communicate with others: non-verbal communication and vocal/verbal communication. You probably already know a little about the non-verbal side of things, such as the types of body language that silently signal someone’s nervous, excited or angry. But how about the more obvious but actually less frequently discussed topic of verbal communication: how what we say and how we say it impacts on our lives and goals? That’s the subject we’re going to look at today. Except we’re going to a get a little more specific and delve into how a guy can make easy, fun conversation with a woman, that helps lead to attraction and sexual chemistry between the two of you.
Let’s first get a grasp on a few pieces of background information. First off, how do most men make conversation with a woman they’re attracted to? What do they do right, wrong or completely miss out from their talks with the opposite sex? The best way to answer these questions is simply to identify the mistakes the majority of men out there make – things every guy, for whatever reason, chooses to do when talking to a girl, that hinder – rather than help – his chances of hooking up with her.
Mistake #1: ASKING TOO MANY QUESTIONS. Lots of men worry that when they start talking to a girl, she won’t say much back. This outcome, standing there – suffering an awkward, embarrassing silence – is so much of a concern that they ask the girl question after question to avoid it. The reason they bombard her with questions is because they think that the best way of getting and keeping the girl talking is by giving her more and more opportunities to say something, no matter what the topic happens to be. Unfortunately, doing this sends out a very negative message. It actually shows that you’re nervous and would prefer her to do most of the talking, which often turns the woman off completely.
Mistake #2: NEVER SHUTTING UP. This is the opposite scenario to the one above, but happens for the same reason. Some men, scared that the girl they’re talking to will up and leave any second, choose to talk endlessly in an effort to keep their attention. Again, this is immediately obvious as a sign of social inexperience and nervousness.
Mistake #3: BORING HER TO DEATH. It’s not easy talking to a girl who’s beautiful, sexy and usually practically unattainable. So when a guy gets chatting to a girl he really likes, who’s hot and confident, he doesn’t want to mess it up – after all, it might not happen again for ages! So, in an attempt to limit the chance of saying something that might ruin the interaction and thus his chances with her, he subconsciously restricts the topics of conversation he brings up. He talks about work, the weather, sports, current affairs, perhaps bombards her with a few questions on those subjects…and generally doesn’t push the boat out much.
Okay, so they’re 3 of the worst mistakes a guy can make when talking to a girl he likes. So let’s flip the coin and look at what he SHOULD be doing.
Objective #1: PROGRESSIVE QUESTIONING. Choose what questions you ask the girl wisely. You don’t want to throw too many her way too quickly. If you do, you give her too much control over the conversation and don’t provide her with a challenge. So, use progressive questioning – ask her questions that she MUST give a detailed response to. Avoid Yes/No questions and instead quiz her on things that require emotion-packed responses. “Do you come her often?” is a terrible question. “What do you think this place could do to make it feel more lively and fun?” is much better, as it not only requires a more detailed reply than a simple “Yes” or “No,” it also probes the girl on what makes her feel good.
Objective #2: Don’t be afraid to let short pauses punctuate your conversation with a girl. Many men panic when they hear a silence and jump in with another question or statement to fill it. Don’t make the same mistake. A confident, dominant guy – the kind of man women love – isn’t afraid of little pauses, because they’re natural and harmless. He simply, waits a second or two, sips his drink, smiles and goes with the flow.
Objective #3: It’s okay to use common topics of conversation when you first get talking to a girl. But move away from the mundane stuff as quickly as you can and instead choose to tell engaging stories. Describe a great holiday you had, an amazing concert you recently went to…make it positive and interesting and you engage the girl’s emotions and make her want to tell YOU about her own good times. When this happens, instant rapport and sexual chemistry is born.
Rachel Davis is the author of Conversation-King, a guide that teaches men how to attract and seduce women by mastering the art of verbal communication.
Click here for more in-depth tips on Picking Up Women: How to Make Easy, Fun Conversation That Leads to Attraction & Sexual Chemistry!
Good luck!
P.S. Get Rachel Davis eBook Conversation-King Today! Learn howto talk to a girl. Click here to download now!
Friday, February 4, 2011
How to Attract A Woman: The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact By Tiffany Taylor
How to Attract A Woman: The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact By Tiffany Taylor
Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?
Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.
2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.
Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide that reveals for the first time what goes on the minds of women AND how men can use special psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce them – regardless of their looks, bank balance or the car they drive.
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Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?
Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.
2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.
Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide that reveals for the first time what goes on the minds of women AND how men can use special psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce them – regardless of their looks, bank balance or the car they drive.
Click here to learn How To Attract And Seduce Women Today
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